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TopicTheres a hot high school girl sitting right next to me, what's the smoothest
No_U_L7
10/04/18 4:47:20 PM
#101:


The Trent posted...
so you need techniques to convey why you're worth talking to
i'm sorry to hear that?


1. there's nothing wrong with being bad at talking to people/women. it's a skill that's learned through practice. some people grow up much more sheltered than others. what's wrong with learning that skill?
2. there's a massive difference between talking to someone and talking to someone in a way that leads towards a romantic relationship (sex, dating, etc). it's easy to talk to people...much harder to talk in a way that leads to sex.
3. if just sitting down and talking to people leads to sex for you, then good for you. it doesn't for me, for a multitude of reasons such as looks. but just because i'm not that good looking, why shouldn't i be able to have the sex life i want with gorgeous girls?
4. just because you can talk to someone and lead it to sex...are you really doing it the most effective and efficient way? that's the reason most guys don't sleep with girls on the first date. i've learned the methods of communication so well, my ceiling is actually higher than anyone who doesn't study pick up. i can not only lead the interaction in the way i want it to, i can lead it in the best way possible, making it a very robust process.
5. just because you can talk to someone and lead it to sex..doesn't mean you are getting the quality of girls you really want. if you are, cool. i wasn't. now the girls i am hooking up with are absolutely gorgeous and i have no problem admitting that it would happen any other way unless i understood the intricacies of communication as well as i do.
6. it's like not studying for a job interview. i'm sure someone somewhere can just walk in and get the job without studying. i couldn't do that. but i want the job. why shouldn't i study and prepare?
7. why would you ever try to shame someone for taking steps to improve themselves and have the type of life they want to live? do you know how hard it is for most people to actually change? so if i were to actually do it, what is wrong with that
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