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| Topic | I've been on Tinder for 30 days and not 1 single match yet. |
| adjl 10/11/18 3:10:44 PM #45: | Blighboy posted... adjl posted...I legitimately don't know if he's being sarcastic or not. I am the incarnation of the pagan god of sarcasm. Judgmenl posted... Why would I make a bio that would attract people I'm not interested in? Because it will also attract people that you are interested in. You aren't going to hit a magical sweet spot where your profile attracts the attention of exactly one person with whom you immediately fall in love and spend the rest of your life. That's not how dating works, especially not online. You have to attract the attention of multiple people. Some of them, you won't care about. Some of them, you will care about, but they won't care about you. Some of them, you'll end up actually dating. The only way to tell the difference is to actually meet them (or at least interact online), and you're not going to do that if you're deliberately turning everyone off. No girl is ever going to look at your profile and say "I'm sure he's really a great guy under all that unappealing stuff he put in his profile, maybe I'll give him a shot." They're going to swipe left and try matching with somebody just as good-looking who sounds like he might actually be fun. If you want any matches at all, you need to sound like you might actually be fun. Also, I'm pretty sure you also have to select women you'd like to match with in order for them to match with you (I could be wrong. My flip phone does not Tinder). Are you doing that? --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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