LogFAQs > #942115764

I've called feminine people man before in my life and nobody was offended (though this was awhile ago), it used to be a generic term for a person, or buddy, no matter what the gender.

Now it can be a bit hard to figure stuff out, especially back in Olympia, even if a person doesn't get offended, other people will get offended for them. I had a roomate who had a friend over, who had a birth gender as male, but was dressed as a female. I called that person her, thinking that is what they would like, and the person seemed fine with it, but my roomate later was upset because I assumed their gender and I guess they prefered to be identified as they/them etc.

I'm new to all that stuff and honestly don't give a rats ass if you call me him/her/hey you etc, just don't call me late for any food your preparing cause I wanna eat it (unless it's eggs, or yogurt, or um, melted yellow cheese or a few other things).

I'm down for anyone being anything they want to be, but I think expecting people to walk on eggshells when communicating with you is a bit rude tbh. If you really care , like wear a sign or something saying you prefer to be refered to as "whatever".

I'd like to be refered to as a sexy werewolf personally.......like, just introduce me, Hey this is my friend wolfy the sexy werewolf. That would totally make my day.

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