LogFAQs > #943503608

You can be attracted to someone but still not want a relationship with that person.

I don't casually date, and I wanted kids, saved for them and wanted a life partner for that.

I would have been ok with adopting though, so if I met a trans woman and she was honest with me, I might have been ok with that. If she hid it from me until we were already in a relationship etc, I would NOT have been ok with that.

Honesty is important in a relationship and a lie that big, even if your scared of being rejected, is an easy way to break a relationship up right away.

Many do want to have genetic children, although you could still use a surrogate and make it work etc.
Honestly at this point in my life gender doesn't matter that much, although I would still prefer a female partner just because i'm naturally disposed to feel comfortable snuggling with someone feminine etc. A trans woman though would be fine in that regard.

I think sex in general is overblown as far as importance, and gender is as well, and I am/have been traditionally a straight/cis whatever male (don't find men attractive, find male parts anti-attractive lol). I think it's more important to have someone as a companion who you love and loves you, who you can communicate with and make plans with, who you look forward to seeing every day, and miss if you don't etc.

Gender/sex etc, is just a part of a relationship, but in my opinion it's not nearly the most important part.

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