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TopicHusband wants wife to name their daughter after his ex like Krillin.
UnfairRepresent
01/05/21 2:44:15 PM
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If you were the wife would you do it?


A woman has been criticised by her husband and his family for refusing to name her unborn daughter after her husband's late wife.

The woman and her hubby are expecting a little girl, but unlike many parents who find naming their newborn challenging, the dad-to-be knew exactly what he wanted to call his newborn. But when he told his wife his plans to name the tot after his deceased wife, she was outraged.

"So my husband and his family say that Im overreacting by refusing to name our (not yet born) daughter after his deceased ex-wife. I know that its sad that she passed away but I think I am being reasonable enough by having their wedding pics still about as well as him wearing their wedding rings around his neck. I think naming our child after her is a step too far. Am I wrong?"

Whilst the majority of people were stunned by his "selfish" proposal, others said he clearly needs help grieving his late wife.

One said: "Yes that is so wrong. Doesn't he have any feeling as to how it must make you feel? Why did he marry you if he is still mourning for his passed wife, that is so selfish. He needs to wake up to himself and his family too.

"I am sorry but you deserve a husband who puts you and your child first not his deceased wife."

Another added: "It is sad that his previous wife has passed but you are his future and so is your child. They are being totally unreasonable and selfish to you."

A third commented: "Oh no, that's weird. The baby deserves her own identity. Simple as that. I think your husband needs some grief counselling. I don't think he is seeing this clearly," while a fourth wrote: "The discussion should be between you and your husband. Should not allow the family to get involved."

And: "Thats creepy & wrong on so many levels! He has enough memories of her in his heart, in photos & by wearing their wedding rings around his neck!", said another.



What would you do if this was your husband? Or if you struggle to imagine that, if your wife was pregnant and wanted to name it after her ex?

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^ Hey now that's completely unfair!
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