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Topic	should a gf or wife have guy friends?
streamofthesky 04/05/21 4:05:23 PM #18:	BlackScythe0 posted... This is a weird question. It's obviously fine to have friends and go out as a group, but trust isn't going to hold up if your partner is frequently spending time alone with a member of the other sex. And that is a statement that goes both ways not just the misogynistic tone this thread took. Agreed. I think it also matters what the nature of the friendship is. If they ever were previously involved, that matters a fucking lot. If the friend has any feelings at all for your partner (or vice-versa, but holy hell is that a red flag), then it's also cause for concern, IMO. Seems like some women keep around "orbiters" (ie, simps...the "friendship" is blatantly unequal) basically on standby and if a relationship ever hits a snag, she can quickly jump ship to one of them. I feel having any sort of "back ups" like that is a deal-breaker for a relationship. I guess guys can pull that crap too, but it seems to mainly go in the direction of female in a couple + dudes as orbiters. Otherwise I think opposite sex friends are fine to have. <cite>streamofthesky posted [p:952497854] in should a g... [t:79389083]...</cite> <quote>BlackScythe0 posted... </cite> <quote>This is a weird question. It's obviously fine to have friends and go out as a group, but trust isn't going to hold up if your partner is frequently spending time alone with a member of the other sex. And that is a statement that goes both ways not just the misogynistic tone this thread took.</quote>Agreed. I think it also matters what the nature of the friendship is. If they ever were previously involved, that matters a fucking lot. If the friend has any feelings at all for your partner (or vice-versa, but holy hell is that a red flag), then it's also cause for concern, IMO. Seems like some women keep around "orbiters" (ie, simps...the "friendship" is blatantly unequal) basically on standby and if a relationship ever hits a snag, she can quickly jump ship to one of them. I feel having any sort of "back ups" like that is a deal-breaker for a relationship. I guess guys can pull that crap too, but it seems to mainly go in the direction of female in a couple + dudes as orbiters. Otherwise I think opposite sex friends are fine to have. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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