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Topic	How does one become more talkative?
Muscles 09/29/21 7:31:00 PM #10:	Sahuagin posted... I think I would suggest: be less self-absorbed. become able to emotionally connect with people, by actually caring on an emotional level about them. actually genuinely want to contribute to the well-being of those around you. (for their benefit, not yours.) then, with that state of mind, voice your thoughts. the problem can be that with an extremely self-absorbed narcissistic mind-set you're subconsciously aware that if you were more open that that would receive a negative reaction, and that's probably right. I'm not sure where to start with this but that's not why I'm quiet. I just can't think of things to say/how to word things I want to say so say nothing instead I can generally keep going with things if I know the person well but tend to throw out any thoughts I want to talk about because I assume it'll bore them, like do women like talking about sports? I'm sure some do but you have to know your audience so I don't talk about that --- Muscles Chicago Bears \| Chicago Blackhawks \| Chicago Bulls \| Chicago Cubs \| NIU Huskies <cite>Muscles posted [p:958540735] in How does o... [t:79685822]...</cite> <quote>Sahuagin posted... </cite> <quote>I think I would suggest: be less self-absorbed. become able to emotionally connect with people, by actually caring on an emotional level about them. actually genuinely want to contribute to the well-being of those around you. (for their benefit, not yours.) then, with that state of mind, voice your thoughts. the problem can be that with an extremely self-absorbed narcissistic mind-set you're subconsciously aware that if you were more open that that would receive a negative reaction, and that's probably right.</quote>I'm not sure where to start with this but that's not why I'm quiet. I just can't think of things to say/how to word things I want to say so say nothing instead I can generally keep going with things if I know the person well but tend to throw out any thoughts I want to talk about because I assume it'll bore them, like do women like talking about sports? I'm sure some do but you have to know your audience so I don't talk about that --- Muscles Chicago Bears \| Chicago Blackhawks \| Chicago Bulls \| Chicago Cubs \| NIU Huskies</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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