LogFAQs > #958635941

I keep getting @ ed to topics I know nothing about.

Sorry tc but what you have is a no win situation. I mean she said talk to someone, and is now mad you talked to someone. It could be because it is a women you talked to and she feels she may be judging her, or something, but definitely do not bring this up to your wife as if the doubt wasnt there this will plant that seed which you do not want to do.

On another bad note if you never said your sex life was terrible to your wife or the therapist your wife may be thinking it is. So she could feel she is failing you, or that you are failing her. I cant say which as only she knows for sure.

Not much you can do in such situations as words only arguing only makes it worse. You could try actions like a romantic dinner with flowers, and gifts as a way to apologize. Granted you did nothing wrong Imo, but still if your wife is mad apologize even if it isnt your fault. Like in the movie meet the Robinsons.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jihOPQ97J9c

Remember I am just some person on the internet. You know your wife and the situation better than I do so take any advice I give with a grain of salt as they say.


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