It's called the Golden Rule. You are treated as you deserve.
then you should understand this situation. sephg exists mostly as an antagonist on this board, it shouldn't be shocking that a lot of people don't show him sympathy. I'm not always the most amicable person here either but I would never sympathy whore this board like this either. if you need a shoulder to cry on its just common sense to find someone you're actually on good terms with, not a bunch of strangers that you dedicate a disturbing amount of your free time to aggravating