I'm sorry that you and your girlfriend are going through a hard time now. It's great that you're being supportive of her choice even if you don't wholeheartedly agree. It sounds like you are doing the best you possibly can in an unfortunate situation, which is all anyone can do. Yeah, you made a big mistake not using a condom, but at least it's a mistake you aren't likely to repeat. I hope this situation turns out as well as it possibly can in the circumstances.
And that sucks about your aunt, too :(
(Furthermore, anyone here expressing anything less than sympathy because of your "antagonistic" past on this board or your political beliefs is majorly lacking in class. Message board rivalries should be left at the door of a real life crisis.)
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