SBell0105 posted...
Right, I'm such a horrible person that I would lie about my wife suffering from IC for almost her entire 30 years alive. She was never hospitazlied and went through surgery to make things easier on her. We dind't have an OBGYN appointment yesterday morning. We haven't been trying to get pregnant for almost a year.
Clearly I hate you so much that I just want to troll you. Do you realize how dumb that sounds?
I have experience with this. I have been dealing with it for a long time, my wife has been on multiple medications and has had various proceedures. I've spent more money on her medical bills in the last 7 years than I have on anything else.
I am speaking to you as an adult with knowledge of what you are speaking of. You don't want to believe me? You want to assume I am just trolling you? Fine, thats fine.
You are the one that has to live with this, not me.
You posted a topic about a real life issue but you didn't want anyone to chime in with real life experience? Then go away.
If this is true then you would know that every case is different. The fact that your wife required surgery for her IC only further proves my point that my girlfriend cannot handle pregnancy.
If she got that procedure (I know which one you are talking about), then yeah maybe she could carry the child. But the fact is that she didn't get the surgery, and now it's obviously too late.
Multiple doctors have told her that the next 9 months will be miserable for her because of her disease. Sure that doesn't make me feel absolved of any guilt, but I would appreciate not being judged for making a decision to spare her torture.
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