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TopicMy wife and I could use some thoughts and prayers, please.
Se7enthrust
01/25/19 8:52:39 AM
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Forceful_Dragon posted...
ScareChan posted...
I would say dont let this topic purge right away

your situation wont just go away so something like this may actual help the healing, and when it does end up purging hopefully it comes at a time where you are in a better stage of healing as well

little things go a long way in situations like this

still sending prayers and energy to you brother, any extra love you need I know myself and others are happy to give it


Yeah, I've read the topic several times now and it puts me in a better mood when I'm getting too much in my own head about it.

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Se7enthrust posted...
Just finally read your update FD.

I feel for you and your wife man.

My wife had 2 miscarriages and was told by the doctor that she'd likely never have a kid because she was diagnosed with PCOS. But then one day she could and we had 3 kids in a row.

I don't know if it was just chance or some sort of miracle but when the time was right it happened. It's very well possible it can happen for you too.

Stay positive and keep your chin up dude.


That must have been really discouraging after the second one too keep pressing on, but then it's very encouraging to hear that it went so well after that. Though if you don't mind me asking, how old were you both?


She was 20-22 and yeah the depression she experienced was pretty severe. She finally had our first son when we were both 23. It took a little bit of time but the circumstances were just right for her I guess. I used to cook for her a lot and we ate tons of protein but I'm not sure if that had anything to do with it.

I'll never forget when we found out that she was pregnant with our 1st kid. She was having a bunch of issues with pain and cramping so we went to the doctor and she came in the room after blood tests and whatnot and said that she was almost 3 months along. We were both in disbelief because she had been previously told that it was unlikely that she'd ever have a baby due the the pcos.

It's not something everyone can afford but I made her quit her job and take it easy for the rest of the pregnancy and she eventually carried full term. Can't say for sure what made the circumstance any different but it was almost like having the first kid to full term cured her as she easily got pregnant 2 and 4 years later with my other 2 kids.

One thing I will say though is never give up. If it's a child you want, you gotta keep focused. Obviously it'll be your job to help her relieve her stress. The less stress she has the more friendly her body will be to an embryo despite all other potential complications. There are some vitamins that she can take to promote uterus health.

Iron. ...
Folic Acid. ...
Vitamin B12. ...
Omega-3 Fatty Acids. ...
Vitamin D. ...
Calcium & Magneisum

All of these are essential in reproductive health. Do your research though if that is something you might be interested in. Sometimes a specific diet could make all of the difference.
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