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CaptainOfCrush posted...

Jakyl25 posted...

How is anyone this thirsty

I've had struggles with this before, I'm ashamed to say. The desire for the "newness" of an unexplored sexual tryst (be it physical, over the phone, online, whatever) can be overpowering. The guys who are criticizing him for cheating on his wife with a less attractive woman don't really understand that part of it - it has very little to do with how pretty they are.

I'm with Yo on this one. It doesn't excuse the behavior at all but I totally get why people do it.

I mean it's why relationships have that 'honeymoon' period where everything is fantastic. It's the newness. There's a very different dynamic in a longterm relationship compared to when you first start talking to someone. Even if it's only talking and very mild flirting. Like how many texts/pms/whatever do you send when you're newly flirting or dating with someone? Compared to how little you text when you're in a long term relationship. The difference is huge.

I mean what this Projared dude has done is on another level but I can see where the behavior is rooted. Especially when he essentially has a position of power. It's like groupies with bands and the such. Again doesn't excuse it and obviously deserves to go down for this shit.