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TopicTinder/Bumble/Grindr/etc General: Progress Edition
scar the 1
06/23/19 2:21:16 PM
#151:


Boo_Guy posted...
Bro, I don't know what else to tell you about the online dating market being a game most men can't win. An ugly girl will get way more messages than a hot guy. There are countless studies and stats out there that show just how skewed online dating is. It's basically purgatory for a man who is not stellar in looks. There are better pictures, angles, and bios you can write, but it will not take you much further. If your experience is different and you're not a really hot guy, you're getting all kinds of pretty girls in a week, then you're just insanely lucky or live in some mystical city where the women outnumber men 10 to 1. Or you exaggerate the women's looks.

https://qz.com/1051462/these-statistics-show-why-its-so-hard-to-be-an-average-man-on-dating-apps/

https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a

I know full well that the male and female Tinder experiences are really different. But I also know that a lot of men can barely go two messages without asking to hook up, so a lot of competition is fairly trivial to outmatch if you're trying.

And again: it's less about being born handsome than it is about investing in your image. Once you've spent similar amounts of time and money into your image, you'll very likely be matching with the people you quite reductively rank at the top.
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