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| Topic | can someone explain to me how my pick up advice is creepy? |
| No_U_L7 06/24/19 5:53:10 AM #3: | YookaLaylee posted... Being a pick up artists is creepy. Its manipulative and weird because youre treating every encounter like a game or something where you put in a few inputs and everyone is supposed to give you exactly what you want. no, being a pick up artist is about learning how to adjust your inputs while still being yourself, understanding the perspective of the other side and how to come to a mutually beneficial union -i'm not treating every encounter like a game...but that doesn't mean there aren't "better" moves than others. like if a girl is in a large group, it's "better" to wait until the group breaks down a bit rather than intrude right into the group. is it creepy to know that and capitalize on it? -i don't put in a "few inputs". i talk, see how she's taking what i say, see what she's putting out and i adjust. it'd be creepier if people didn't adjust and calibrate. i just happen to adjust better than most people -girls don't give me "exactly what i want", it takes 2 people to have sex...the goal is for us to reach a mutually beneficial end. she just needs to realize why i'm a good partner and it is my job to convey that properly. so again, what is so creepy about what i just said? --- ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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