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Topic	can someone explain to me how my pick up advice is creepy?
gp1829 06/24/19 6:52:33 AM #27:	No_U_L7 posted... gp1829 posted... Yeah order, be friendly enough, and move along. The cashier does not want a 5 minute conversation with some dude. Trying to pick up someone while they work is a bad look. how do you know what the cashier wants? maybe you're her dream guy and she'd be upset if you didn't talk to her. i'm not saying to lock into the 5 minute conversation...but as i explicitly said, try testing the waters to see if she's into it. if you compliment her hair color and she launches into a conversation...maybe she's into you and you should continue the conversation. if she says thanks and looks away...you can leave and "only inconvenienced her for 5 seconds". it's not a binary thing. i said you'll have the opportunity for a 4-5 min convo, not that it will happen. More than likely the hot girl at Burger King gets hit on all day by "pick up artist" I dont know for sure if wants a convo or not but I choose not to bother someone who would feel stuck in the situation because they are working and would feel obligated to be friendlier and nicer to a customer than they may want to. I think its sleazy to try and hit on someone while they are working. <cite>gp1829 posted [p:923765494] in can someon... [t:77814796]...</cite> <quote><cite>No_U_L7 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>gp1829 posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah order, be friendly enough, and move along. The cashier does not want a 5 minute conversation with some dude. Trying to pick up someone while they work is a bad look.</quote> how do you know what the cashier wants? maybe you're her dream guy and she'd be upset if you didn't talk to her. i'm not saying to lock into the 5 minute conversation...but as i explicitly said, try testing the waters to see if she's into it. if you compliment her hair color and she launches into a conversation...maybe she's into you and you should continue the conversation. if she says thanks and looks away...you can leave and "only inconvenienced her for 5 seconds". it's not a binary thing. i said you'll have the opportunity for a 4-5 min convo, not that it will happen.</quote> More than likely the hot girl at Burger King gets hit on all day by "pick up artist" I dont know for sure if wants a convo or not but I choose not to bother someone who would feel stuck in the situation because they are working and would feel obligated to be friendlier and nicer to a customer than they may want to. I think its sleazy to try and hit on someone while they are working.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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