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| Topic | can someone explain to me how my pick up advice is creepy? |
| No_U_L7 06/24/19 6:58:06 AM #31: | gp1829 posted... More than likely the hot girl at Burger King gets hit on all day by "pick up artist" I dont know for sure if wants a convo or not but I choose not to bother someone who would feel stuck in the situation because they are working and would feel obligated to be friendlier and nicer to a customer than they may want to. I think its sleazy to try and hit on someone while they are working. what you are doing is called projecting. you don't know that's how she's feeling. you're projecting how you think she feels onto her. i'd prefer to just start chatting and find out myself. BTW projecting is an unhealthy habit and leads to you being very judgemental. tons of people are guilty of it and i had to purposely snap myself out of that behavior. i prefer to focus on what i actually know. i don't know she doesn't want to talk to people. if i start talking to her and she seems super tired...i know she probably doesn't want to talk to people and i'll stop. it's much healthier behavior --- ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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