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DocDelicious posted...

No_U_L7 posted...

i talk, see how she's taking what i say, see what she's putting out and i adjust.

That's the problem right there.

You should always be unapologetically yourself and should never have to "adjust" anything, for anyone.
Doing otherwise is disingenuous and purposefully misleading.

no, being a pick up artist is about learning how to adjust your inputs while still being yourself, understanding the perspective of the other side and how to come to a mutually beneficial union

-i'm not treating every encounter like a game...but that doesn't mean there aren't "better" moves than others. like if a girl is in a large group, it's "better" to wait until the group breaks down a bit rather than intrude right into the group. is it creepy to know that and capitalize on it?
-i don't put in a "few inputs". i talk, see how she's taking what i say, see what she's putting out and i adjust. it'd be creepier if people didn't adjust and calibrate. i just happen to adjust better than most people
-girls don't give me "exactly what i want", it takes 2 people to have sex...the goal is for us to reach a mutually beneficial end. she just needs to realize why i'm a good partner and it is my job to convey that properly.


so you're just going to ignore the part where i CLEARLY state you still have to be yourself, which is in the exact same post you quoted? You're going to really just cherry pick whatever serves your argument?

there is a MASSIVE difference between adjusting and being fake. people are complicated and intricate (i definitely am). if i find a girl is more of a party girl, i'll play up my party boy side a bit more. if i find a girl is more intellectual, i'll play up my engineer side a bit more. nothing wrong with that...and it's the smart/optimal move. adjusting doesn't mean you're being fake, it means you're understanding better how to connect with the girl
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