I've been married 15 years, one to three times a week on average. This thread is for people who married the wrong person and now can't really stand each other, more or less still want to be intimate. Or had kids.
You can say what you want, but I don't buy that. Unless you're a woman. I know too many people in the same boat.
"My wife is disgusted by me and cringes at the thought of sex with me, i REFUSE to believe theres people whos wives actually want them"
Do you have kids, TC? Wife and I have 2, and it can prove challenging for us to get down to business, especially since we made the dire mistake of allowing our son to sleep in the bed with us. He's 4, and we are trying to get him to his big boy bed, but he just want to sleep with mommy and daddy every night, even if we promise to get him a switch for his birthday. He's all "nah, I would rather sleep with you all".
Also, does your wife work outside of the home, and do you work? Stress could be getting to her. Try taking on more house chores to ease the burden that she may have. Also, a little bit of romancing can go a long way. Like, even something small like watching a TV show that you know she likes.
Nah, she has a low sex drive. Honestly I just quit trying to initiate it and started talking to other women. Getting told no over and over again by your own wife is a little discouraging.
Also, lol at the the little kid situation. That sucks.