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Topic	When you get married, sex ends.
ChocoboMog123 06/24/19 6:17:20 PM #89:	Rypt posted... There's always some excuse from her when I try to talk to her about it. "I don't feel good, my back hurts, having pain, I'm tired, etc." It sure sounds like she doesn't like having sex with you. Even if she "gets something out of it," (again, you're focused on yourself, not what she actually wants), that might not be what she's looking for. At this point, either she's over you or she needs something else. If you guys can't fix your issues on your own, the problem is just going to fester and grow into resentment from both sides. If you can't open two-way communication see a therapist or something. Rypt posted... And yeah most women act like they dont enjoy sex. If you ask one of them about it straight up, even if you know them or are dating them, most will be like, "excuse me?" or "is that all I am to you?" Again and again, this is your personal experience. If I asked most women about it (that I can approach about the subject), they would definitely say they do. Either you're bringing up the subject in the wrong way or you've just surrounded yourself with people who can take your negativity. Don't be pushy, listen better. Rypt posted... The_Freecs posted... I cant speak for anyone else, but if you arent getting any sex thats pretty weird imo. Women have needs too you know, its not only guys that enjoy sex. well i do, but it started happening a lot less after marriage. once you get married, women know they have you. This attitude is your problem. Again, why do you think marriage makes a difference? --- "You're sorely underestimating the power of nostalgia goggles." - adjl http://www.smbc-comics.com/comics/20110218.gif <cite>ChocoboMog123 posted [p:923790393] in When you g... [t:77815655]...</cite> <quote><cite>Rypt posted...</cite> <quote> There's always some excuse from her when I try to talk to her about it. "I don't feel good, my back hurts, having pain, I'm tired, etc." </quote> It sure sounds like she doesn't like having sex with you. Even if she "gets something out of it," (again, you're focused on yourself, not what she actually wants), that might not be what she's looking for. At this point, either she's over you or she needs something else. If you guys can't fix your issues on your own, the problem is just going to fester and grow into resentment from both sides. If you can't open two-way communication see a therapist or something. <cite>Rypt posted...</cite> <quote> And yeah most women act like they dont enjoy sex. If you ask one of them about it straight up, even if you know them or are dating them, most will be like, "excuse me?" or "is that all I am to you?"</quote> Again and again, this is your personal experience. If I asked most women about it (that I can approach about the subject), they would definitely say they do. Either you're bringing up the subject in the wrong way or you've just surrounded yourself with people who can take your negativity. Don't be pushy, listen better. <cite>Rypt posted...</cite> <quote><cite>The_Freecs posted...</cite> <quote>I cant speak for anyone else, but if you arent getting any sex thats pretty weird imo. Women have needs too you know, its not only guys that enjoy sex.</quote> well i do, but it started happening a lot less after marriage. once you get married, women know they have you.</quote> This attitude is your problem. Again, why do you think marriage makes a difference? --- "You're sorely underestimating the power of nostalgia goggles." - adjl http://www.smbc-comics.com/comics/20110218.gif</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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