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Topic	Percent of men under 30 reporting no sex triples to record highs.
Twin3Turbo 07/22/19 7:12:35 PM #29:	Prismsblade posted... Twin3Turbo posted... spanky1 posted... Hypergamy sounds so red pillish and incellish that I hate bringing it up, but it's true and it exists and its probably a big part of the explanation for why men are having less sex. I mean, if a red piller said "The sky is blue" that doesn't mean that they are automatically wrong. At the end of the day, I think both women AND men tend to play a role in hypergamy though. Women looking for men with wealth / not respecting men that they make more money than. And men looking for women that make less money than them cause otherwise they feel embarrassed or emasculated. And just in general not caring how much their SO makes as long as she's hot. Both sides are in part to blame, so it annoys me when people act like it's all women's fault. You are projecting hard. It doeasnt matter to most man how little or much a woman makes in their eyes becuase they dont give a f*. They value youth and beauty above all. I know media likes to paint guys as being intimidated by the big bad career woman but.....no, they arent. Those womans standards are just to high is why they cant get a man. Due to hypergamy they wont marry down. And even if they did those relationship tend not to last becuase ultimately woman prefer a man who can take of them, and their children, not the other way around. Particularly if he's a strong believe in historical gender roles. Contrary to popular belief humanity has not escaped its lizard brains as much as they think. I literally mentioned that as a reason for one. For two, I'm not sure why you think there can't be multiple reasons. For most of these social types of issues, rarely is there one reason, even if one reason tends to take precedent over another. Next, I said what I said and I'm sticking by it. There are plenty enough men out there that are uncomfortable with their women making more than them (and vice versa) that the statement has merit. Particularly when the disparity is large. And I definitely don't deny that a large percent of women won't marry down, I even mentioned it. That's actually the point I was making, both sexes play a role in the situation. Lastly, it's interesting that you brought up the argument of women wanting a man that can take care of them and their children without fully fleshing it out, particularly from a mans point of view. The whole idea of a man taking care of and providing for his family is ingrained into society, that's historically supposed to be a mans role and a large percentage of the population still plays into those roles. If a man makes less than his SO, particularly if he makes significantly less, you don't think that plays into his psyche at all? Like "Man I'm supposed to be the one providing for them but she's the main one doing it". --- https://imgur.com/PHWbltB <cite>Twin3Turbo posted [p:925043862] in Percent of... [t:77882141]...</cite> <quote><cite>Prismsblade posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Twin3Turbo posted...</cite> <quote><cite>spanky1 posted...</cite> <quote>Hypergamy sounds so red pillish and incellish that I hate bringing it up, but it's true and it exists and its probably a big part of the explanation for why men are having less sex.</quote> I mean, if a red piller said "The sky is blue" that doesn't mean that they are automatically wrong. At the end of the day, I think both women AND men tend to play a role in hypergamy though. Women looking for men with wealth / not respecting men that they make more money than. And men looking for women that make less money than them cause otherwise they feel embarrassed or emasculated. And just in general not caring how much their SO makes as long as she's hot. Both sides are in part to blame, so it annoys me when people act like it's all women's fault.</quote> You are projecting hard. It doeasnt matter to most man how little or much a woman makes in their eyes becuase they dont give a f*. They value youth and beauty above all. I know media likes to paint guys as being intimidated by the big bad career woman but.....no, they arent. Those womans standards are just to high is why they cant get a man. Due to hypergamy they wont marry down. And even if they did those relationship tend not to last becuase ultimately woman prefer a man who can take of them, and their children, not the other way around. Particularly if he's a strong believe in historical gender roles. Contrary to popular belief humanity has not escaped its lizard brains as much as they think.</quote> I literally mentioned that as a reason for one. For two, I'm not sure why you think there can't be multiple reasons. For most of these social types of issues, rarely is there one reason, even if one reason tends to take precedent over another. Next, I said what I said and I'm sticking by it. There are plenty enough men out there that are uncomfortable with their women making more than them (and vice versa) that the statement has merit. Particularly when the disparity is large. And I definitely don't deny that a large percent of women won't marry down, I even mentioned it. That's actually the point I was making, both sexes play a role in the situation. Lastly, it's interesting that you brought up the argument of women wanting a man that can take care of them and their children without fully fleshing it out, particularly from a mans point of view. The whole idea of a man taking care of and providing for his family is ingrained into society, that's historically supposed to be a mans role and a large percentage of the population still plays into those roles. If a man makes less than his SO, particularly if he makes significantly less, you don't think that plays into his psyche at all? Like "Man I'm supposed to be the one providing for them but she's the main one doing it". --- https://imgur.com/PHWbltB</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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