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LinkPizza posted...

dioxxys posted...

But you speak as though all of the peoples rules for sex was written in stone, sex communications are rarely even done on a basic level. In fact, most sex is wild and unplanned and can happen instantaneously, yes even with the expectation of a condom. I have had many girls who want to start with condoms and I eventually convince them to go raw with me, because it feels better for both of us. Also many girls claim to be able to feel the difference.

Sure. And you can do that is the US. Just dont do it in Sweden. They have their rules and laws for their own reasons. Maybe stealthing is a big problem there. Maybe it is here, but nobody cares. Also, I can believe some have. But most people seem to either go raw or with condoms. It seems unlikely that a lot of people are starting with condoms and ripping them off halfway through because it feels better. They already knew it would feel better without the condoms. Most of the time, the only ones who dont/wont know that are virgins. Also, in your case, it seems that the female wants it, too. So, theres that.

If you cant see where this law is a slippery slope that has room for misinterpretation, I cant get you to see that. In your mind you've seemed to solidify this idea that the only reason someone would forgo a condom is through dishonesty and thats just not right because I have lived the circumstance and know this could be something that unintentionally hurts mens regular sex lives.

LinkPizza posted...

I can understand where hes coming from. It doesnt seem likely that many people want to start with a condom and then tell you to take it off. People seem to like to use them if they dont believe youre clean or as another form of birth control (normally when not on the pill). Or to be safe. And if they made you wear a condom for one of those reasons, it does seem unlikely that they would ask you to take it off because they feel better. Especially if they already had sex before... and knew how it felt with both a condom and without one.

Its called building a relationship and once you trust each other you have no qualms about putting your faith in another person, then you can enjoy sex in its purest form.