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Topic	Do you guys think using "implications" to get sex is rape?
LinkPizza 07/26/19 8:12:38 PM #174:	dioxxys posted... LinkPizza posted... dioxxys posted... But you speak as though all of the peoples rules for sex was written in stone, sex communications are rarely even done on a basic level. In fact, most sex is wild and unplanned and can happen instantaneously, yes even with the expectation of a condom. I have had many girls who want to start with condoms and I eventually convince them to go raw with me, because it feels better for both of us. Also many girls claim to be able to feel the difference. Sure. And you can do that is the US. Just dont do it in Sweden. They have their rules and laws for their own reasons. Maybe stealthing is a big problem there. Maybe it is here, but nobody cares. Also, I can believe some have. But most people seem to either go raw or with condoms. It seems unlikely that a lot of people are starting with condoms and ripping them off halfway through because it feels better. They already knew it would feel better without the condoms. Most of the time, the only ones who dont/wont know that are virgins. Also, in your case, it seems that the female wants it, too. So, theres that. If you cant see where this law is a slippery slope that has room for misinterpretation, I cant get you to see that. In your mind you've seemed to solidify this idea that the only reason someone would forgo a condom is through dishonesty and thats just not right because I have lived the circumstance and know this could be something that unintentionally hurts mens regular sex lives. A lot of laws are slippery slopes. But again, it depends on why they have that law. Its like when they have stupid rules in the military that shouldnt be needed. The reason is because someone did something stupid. If its a big problem over there, then they may need the rule. The law itself doesnt mater as much as how they enforce or deal with it... dioxxys posted... LinkPizza posted... I can understand where hes coming from. It doesnt seem likely that many people want to start with a condom and then tell you to take it off. People seem to like to use them if they dont believe youre clean or as another form of birth control (normally when not on the pill). Or to be safe. And if they made you wear a condom for one of those reasons, it does seem unlikely that they would ask you to take it off because they feel better. Especially if they already had sex before... and knew how it felt with both a condom and without one. Its called building a relationship and once you trust each other you have no qualms about putting your faith in another person, then you can enjoy sex in its purest form. Sure. But that usually doesnt happen in the middle of sex. Usually, it happens before sex where they say something like, You dont need to use one this time. So, I still stand by what I said about it sounding kind of weird. Also, if you have built a relationship with them, you should trust them enough to know they wont call the cops on you for stealthing... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:925231629] in Do you guy... [t:77871100]...</cite> <quote>dioxxys posted...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>dioxxys posted...</cite> <quote>But you speak as though all of the peoples rules for sex was written in stone, sex communications are rarely even done on a basic level. In fact, most sex is wild and unplanned and can happen instantaneously, yes even with the expectation of a condom. I have had many girls who want to start with condoms and I eventually convince them to go raw with me, because it feels better for both of us. Also many girls claim to be able to feel the difference.</quote> Sure. And you can do that is the US. Just dont do it in Sweden. They have their rules and laws for their own reasons. Maybe stealthing is a big problem there. Maybe it is here, but nobody cares. Also, I can believe some have. But most people seem to either go raw or with condoms. It seems unlikely that a lot of people are starting with condoms and ripping them off halfway through because it feels better. They already knew it would feel better without the condoms. Most of the time, the only ones who dont/wont know that are virgins. Also, in your case, it seems that the female wants it, too. So, theres that.</quote> If you cant see where this law is a slippery slope that has room for misinterpretation, I cant get you to see that. In your mind you've seemed to solidify this idea that the only reason someone would forgo a condom is through dishonesty and thats just not right because I have lived the circumstance and know this could be something that unintentionally hurts mens regular sex lives. </quote> A lot of laws are slippery slopes. But again, it depends on why they have that law. Its like when they have stupid rules in the military that shouldnt be needed. The reason is because someone did something stupid. If its a big problem over there, then they may need the rule. The law itself doesnt mater as much as how they enforce or deal with it... dioxxys posted...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>I can understand where hes coming from. It doesnt seem likely that many people want to start with a condom and then tell you to take it off. People seem to like to use them if they dont believe youre clean or as another form of birth control (normally when not on the pill). Or to be safe. And if they made you wear a condom for one of those reasons, it does seem unlikely that they would ask you to take it off because they feel better. Especially if they already had sex before... and knew how it felt with both a condom and without one. </quote> Its called building a relationship and once you trust each other you have no qualms about putting your faith in another person, then you can enjoy sex in its purest form.</quote> Sure. But that usually doesnt happen in the middle of sex. Usually, it happens before sex where they say something like, You dont need to use one this time. So, I still stand by what I said about it sounding kind of weird. Also, if you have built a relationship with them, you should trust them enough to know they wont call the cops on you for stealthing... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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