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| Topic | trying to decide whether to tell me gf i cheated on her |
| Ultima Dragon 12/13/19 9:58:41 AM #14: | EndOfDiscOne posted... I saw a psychologist on the morning news not too long ago saying to not tell. If it was in the past and you're not going to do it again, it's best to not bring it up. It's insanely scummy but it basically comes down to "What she doesn't know won't hurt her." I think we would all say that we would want to know if we got cheated on (most likely so we could dump their ass). But that's a lot to sort through, especially when it happened so long ago. You've got to deal with trust issues in the future and the fact that a big part of your life was basically a "lie." Assuming you were 100% faithful to that person during that time. Edit: Best case scenario would have been to come clean right after it happened and then she either kicks you to the curb or you work past it. Right now it's either fuck her up and she dumps you or just live with it, keep up the "act" and pray that she never finds out what you did for the remainder of the relationship. --- "We know things can move faster than the speed of light because liberal tears are on the ground before something offensive even happens" - Coffeebeanz ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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