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Topic	How do you deal with self centered loved ones?
wpot 02/04/23 1:42:12 PM #4:	Well...if everyone is functioning at a relatively high level the right answer would be to sit down and plan out what's fair and what isn't with those that are most affected. Without conversation/boundaries mooching is way too easy...and once moochers get used to mooching they feel attacked if you stop enabling them (often to increasing degrees). I'm not sure you're really in the position to do that, though: it might be your parents' job. You're not wrong to be annoyed unless there are legitimate excuses/other factors. --- Pronounced "Whup-pot". Say it. Use it. <cite>wpot posted [p:971322906] in How do you... [t:80335633]...</cite> <quote>Well...if everyone is functioning at a relatively high level the right answer would be to sit down and plan out what's fair and what isn't with those that are most affected. Without conversation/boundaries mooching is way too easy...and once moochers get used to mooching they feel attacked if you stop enabling them (often to increasing degrees).I'm not sure you're really in the position to do that, though: it might be your parents' job.You're not wrong to be annoyed unless there are legitimate excuses/other factors. --- Pronounced "Whup-pot". Say it. Use it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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