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| Topic | Have you/would you ever decline to see a family member on their last days? |
| lww99 05/03/23 8:19:02 AM #1: | My grandma is dying. Her doctors say that she has the worst Dementia theyve probably ever seen. She lost all faculties in just a couple months. I havent seen her in a few weeks, but I guess violent and sexual outbursts are somewhat common for her at this point. During one of my final visits, she was squeezing my ass and kissing on my neck. I know she doesnt realize whats going on, but its hard seeing her like that She fell recently and her face is really banged up. I dont want my last memory of her to be seeing her like that, and asking who I am. Obviously the right thing to do would be go see her, but I just think its going to do more harm than good for me. And shes not going to know I was ever there, it would basically just be for my own closure. anyone deal with a similar situation before? Still going to the service but just not sure if seeing her now will be good. --- http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h239/nhottbarbwire/owningroad_zps2333f502.gif ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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