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TopicMy wife is applying for MAID (Medical assistance in death).
Jeff_AKA_Snoopy
05/24/23 8:15:45 PM
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SHRlKE posted...
Youre an inspiration. Youre going to feel whatever youre going to feel. There is no rule book. The fact youve kept it together this long is a tribute to your character. When you need help dont be afraid to reach out. There is no shame in that. Yes youre wife is going through hell but so are you. I can only speak of personal experience but when I had a relative who was in hospital on end of life care for a few months its mentally exhausting and those feelings you mention are completely normal. Its weird. When you see someone you love going through this I felt the grieving process started before they were even gone. For me every time I saw my family member it was like going through that pain every time. There will be a sadness if youre wife does go but there will also be a certain weight lifted as well. Speaking to friends and family this is also natural and not something to beat yourself up over if the time comes.

Absolutely. I've been in grief since I created this topic... so like 8 months now?

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