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pnut027 posted...

Your mother did not want your pregnant sister to have an ac unit. In the summer heat. You felt compelled to go behind her back in order to ensure the safety of your pregnant sister and her unborn child. You do not see the issue with that? If you didnt, you would not have come here seeking validation on whether what you were going to do was wrong or not. The fact that you even had that line of though shows that deep down in your heart, you know something is fucked up about your mothers decision.

Im guessing youre a relatively young adult. Trust me, at 18/19, I just threw money and resources at my family after I joined the military when they needed a bill paid here, a phone turned back on there. Then, when I hit some dire times in my mid 20s and foreclosed on my first home, no one was there. I couldnt call in a favor. I couldnt call in those loans I gave out. 18 year old me had to learn hard lessons that 34 year old me will never forget.

Im not trolling you. Im giving you advice so you dont repeat my dumbass mistakes.

Youre not wrong for caring about the wellbeing of your sister and her unborn child. But you are wrong to go behind your mothers back after she dictated the rules of her home. And she is wrong for wanting to deny your sister comfort when she needs it. Those are not mutually exclusive.

Just Shut the fuck up

I don't want to listen to you anymore ffs

Also, the fact that you're bringing up age makes you sound like a child, legitimately.