LogFAQs > #975937756

well, it does sound selfish of her, but it's also just how people are. we get tired of things. plans change. we grow, we get older, we realize there's only one life, etc. though the last thing you want to do is stay in a relationship where the other person is done. so it's for the best.

it makes sense that you feel it's unfair, especially if you've given and contributed more to the relationship than the other person, but unless there was some official agreement between the two of you where everything had to be equal, it's not really something you can really complain about after the fact. just realize that your efforts aren't appreciated, which is more reason for you to be ok with it ending.

maybe they haven't thought through the change, but it seems like they have thought through the relationship, and they don't seem to want it anymore. again, there's no reason to stay with someone who thinks this way. might be best to focus your effort on making sure you're ok and figuring out what you want for yourself other than this relationship.