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Bandit_Keith posted...

I don't know if you are being serious here, or if you truly are this lacking in self awareness. So let me explain it clearly. If you yourself claim you are making an emotional argument and someone responds back to you that your argument on the subject is just to make you feel better, how is that being bashed?

If you don't see the condescending tone in their posts, then I don't know what to tell you. Imagine if you had a personal experience and had an opinion on it, just for someone to demean your opinion instead of the mature option and just say they disagreed, what would you do?

Bandit_Keith posted...

I read through the topic. You completely missed the point of this line. Which is that you accused her of doing something that someone else did. She and others just happen to agree with it. In addition to the fact that you don't seem to understand that self serving statements carry very little weight.

They agreed with it and tried to lob on even more statements, trying to make me look bad. So basically did the same thing. Except, making me look worse.

Bandit_Keith posted...

Again, someone repeating your argument back to you is not an attack.

Right. "Just so you they can spare your feelings", "So your feeling can be spared, got it", isn't condescending at all and is extremely mature to say in a discussion.

Thats literally what sparked the argument in the first place. And all I said back to them was, they were being emotional instead.

So I basically got called out for being emotional because of my opinion, only for me to tell them they're being emotional for lashing out at me being condescending like that. And I'm the only one in the bad? Not to mention I didn't even know their gender, but that shouldn't even matter. Its you guys that made that into a big deal lol.

Well I'm on CE here so of course you guys would think that'll be okay to say in a normal setting.