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ryudo500 posted...

@Zonbei sorry t hear about that can I ask how you got over it or no?

and thank you that makes a lot of sense

I havent fully got over it, its fairly recent, but Ive had my heart broken a lot. Its just time and acceptance, really, and understanding there are other people out there. Im also poly though, so my other partner was very supportive.

As for the anxious attachment stuff, you just need to understand that worrying about people leaving is more likely to make them leave than anything else. Overthinking isnt conducive to a good relationship. You want to learn to love the people that love you back. I dont chase people anymore; anyone Im with, Im with because theyve showed just as much interest as me from moment one, and they are clear about it. If people want to spend time with you, they will when they can. Sometimes they will have other things to do, and thats okay too.