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KogaSteelfang posted...

I know, and it shows they're more desirable than I am. I've seen unattractive people be happily married, same with people with hideous attitudes.

I'll be totally honest here. I've asked out 1 person, and she said yes. It never actually happened due to unfortunate timing with Covid hitting USA at the same time.

But there are other ways to be rejected rather than me having to ask them.

This is really depressing me, and it's late. I'm going to bed. If you have any more questions I'll answer tomorrow.

only advice I can give you is: its not the fault of other people, or some cosmic force hell bent on harming you. It COULD be sheer bad luck; in the end, relationships are a matter of change, even though you can stack the deck in your favor.

There is something you can be doing to stack that deck, you just need to identify what it is. Those people you say are more desirable than you are more desirable because theyve done the work to be more desirable.