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RAAAWWWRRR posted...

I'm 27 and never had a GF. It's hard... can't lie. But i'm slowly giving up tbh.

But that doesn't mean that I'm not going to take care of myself. I have tons of hobbies, go the gym several days a week, very social, etc. I'm actually happy being single for a long time. But I would like to have someone to spend time with.

I hate to be a downer here.. but the "go to the gym bro! be more social! take care of yourself! use dating apps!" doesn't really guarantee you a GF nowadays... sure, it can give you more chances, but it's not a 100% guarantee (duh). This is what I've learned and it hit me like a train. Been taking care of myself since my early 20's. Still no GF.. lmao.

Doesn't help that others around me are less social, no social hangouts like bars/clubbing (even tho I don't drink), etc. Only place I can meet someone is.. my gym.. hahahah.

Don't give up. I was your age when I first dated. And it was with like one person and one date. I blew it. Then I had an in and off thing with someone 2 years later. u didn't really take dating seriously until my early 30s..
.The more dates you go to and learn from them, the more comfortable and confident you will feel talking to women. You can also try talking to friends of friends and other people/groups outside of online dating.