Yep. Like with just gay rights alone, back when I would first debate whether it's right or wrong (Mid/Late 2000s-Early 2010s), I did calmly explain that various arguments don't hold up due to double standards in terms of what we do permit within society.
And the anti-gay people don't even consider the points, just react with "Still wrong".
Also going to lay this out. Trump winning the White House in 2016 is cause of trying to be nice to the bigots.
Back then even with some of the support for him, some of us felt that in the end that he would never win the election given how bad he is.
But then he still got cheered on even when saying that there are good people on both sides (other side being white supremists).
And for all claims of concern that gay people are predators, Trump jokes in public he'd do.... I mean date his daughter if they weren't related and the crowd yucks it up rather than heckling him and treating him as a spectacle.