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IlkhanInsomnia posted...

Her attitude is normal; she's also 36 and has a job. Maybe you should post something discussion worthy or add your perspective.

My perspective is that this sounds like a yellow/red flag. Sarcasm is so tricky to navigate... Sometimes it can come off as completely humorous! Other times it's a passive aggressive comment.... Other times a subtle cry for help... I also think sarcasm is utilized as a poor way to advocate for one's needs. Usually, or perhaps always, sarcasm is hinting at a true feeling within but it's not said directly... so there's a fine line between is she hiding it due to insecurity/suffering or is it due to the nature of a joke which naturally has a natural tendency to be hidden yet accessible. At any rate, it's a lot of things!

In this particular case I feel like... I feel like she wouldn't be very skillful with her words. Would she be sarcastic during times of frustration? Because that would be very toxic. It's a very fine line to walk: to be able to distinguish moments of humor (true sarcasm) with frustration sarcasm (poor advocacy skills/passive aggression, trauma, etc).

Impossible to know without actually having experienced how she speaks in real life but I would say it certainly turns me off based on her brief answer.