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Parappa09
07/24/18 3:01:24 AM
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WafflehouseJK
07/24/18 3:22:28 AM
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I get called stubborn a lot. I used to get called too quiet, but I've been getting a lot better about that.

That's pretty much it.
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SSJGodMawile
07/24/18 3:23:01 AM
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I'm extremely quick tempered.
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WilliamPorygon
07/24/18 3:26:40 AM
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...I guess lazy, if I had to narrow it down to just one
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AlabamaLove
07/24/18 3:27:25 AM
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Mistere Man
07/24/18 3:28:30 AM
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Sorry I misunderstood.
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WafflehouseJK
07/24/18 3:28:44 AM
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Oh, I can also be distracted pretty easily, and I'm not always very patient.

I also get called sarcastic alot, but I don't see that as a negative trait.
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Mistere Man
07/24/18 3:30:12 AM
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Forgetful

Well I do have brain damage
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pinky0926
07/24/18 3:31:01 AM
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Ever have one of those moments where someone makes an offhand, inoffensive comment but it hits a big ass nerve and ruins your fucking week and you still think about it from time to time?

I was talking with a friend and mentioned how I couldn't go to X party and it's a shame because a few people wanted me to go, and he said "haha, I wouldn't worry about it [pinky], not exactly like you're the lifebread of the party". Lowkey telling me I'm a boring uncharasmatic person. Fucked me up for a long time.
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DocDelicious
07/24/18 3:31:29 AM
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I get called a "fucking asshole" quite often.
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DocileOrangeCup
07/24/18 3:32:56 AM
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Parappa09
07/24/18 3:33:48 AM
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pinky0926 posted...
Lowkey telling me I'm a boring uncharasmatic person. Fucked me up for a long time.

i hate those small petty remarks that fuck you up

i know 90% of the time it was meant to be a joke but came out badly, but they still get to me
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iClockwork
07/24/18 3:34:12 AM
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I'm regularly told i'm so handsome that it can be hard for people to concentrate on other things
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pegusus123456
07/24/18 3:34:55 AM
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Nosy.
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Kineth
07/24/18 3:35:03 AM
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I'm not punctual.
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Parappa09
07/24/18 3:36:01 AM
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Kineth posted...
I'm not punctual.

bpt
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SSJGodMawile
07/24/18 3:36:57 AM
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DocDelicious posted...
I get called a "fucking asshole" quite often.

honestly just embrace it
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Cranie
07/24/18 3:37:40 AM
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I frequently get asked if I'm drunk

I don't drink.
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Kineth
07/24/18 3:45:31 AM
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Parappa09 posted...
Kineth posted...
I'm not punctual.

bpt


Man, you know some slang I've never heard of. What's that mean?

Wait.. black people time? >_>
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Parappa09
07/24/18 3:48:00 AM
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Kineth posted...
Man, you know some slang I've never heard of. What's that mean?

Wait.. black people time? >_>

lol yeah
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DocDelicious
07/24/18 3:48:07 AM
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SSJGodMawile posted...
DocDelicious posted...
I get called a "fucking asshole" quite often.

honestly just embrace it

Oh believe me I have. I get paid to be an asshole now.
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Kineth
07/24/18 3:50:04 AM
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Parappa09 posted...
Kineth posted...
Man, you know some slang I've never heard of. What's that mean?

Wait.. black people time? >_>

lol yeah


lol hate to say it, but that's one stereotype that's very applicable to me.
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NeoBowser
07/24/18 3:53:36 AM
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Loathing everything
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Letron_James
07/24/18 3:54:41 AM
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Penis too big thus unrelatable
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catboy0_0
07/24/18 3:55:18 AM
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maybe pathetic or something idk or immature
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mattnd2007
07/24/18 3:57:22 AM
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Know it all. It's something I'm always trying to improve on. I don't like that I come off that way. Makes people not like me. It's just speech patterns of mine I guess.
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Kineth
07/24/18 3:58:25 AM
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mattnd2007 posted...
Know it all. It's something I'm always trying to improve on. I don't like that I come off that way. Makes people not like me. It's just speech patterns of mine I guess.


I get this one too. I assume that you're just trying to help people and they don't take it the way you're intending for it to come across?
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catboy0_0
07/24/18 3:59:03 AM
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man, the moment you ever stop improving on yourself you might as well lay down and die tbh
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SoundNetwork
07/24/18 3:59:12 AM
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mattnd2007
07/24/18 4:01:37 AM
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Kineth posted...
mattnd2007 posted...
Know it all. It's something I'm always trying to improve on. I don't like that I come off that way. Makes people not like me. It's just speech patterns of mine I guess.


I get this one too. I assume that you're just trying to help people and they don't take it the way you're intending for it to come across?


Yeah. Pretty much. I'm actually a pretty nice guy. People that actually get to know me will tell you that. But people that don't give me a chance tend to think I'm a know-it-all asshole.
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catboy0_0
07/24/18 4:03:12 AM
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watch out, we got a nice guy over here
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Tappor
07/24/18 4:03:13 AM
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too snarky
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Kineth
07/24/18 4:08:36 AM
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mattnd2007 posted...
Kineth posted...
mattnd2007 posted...
Know it all. It's something I'm always trying to improve on. I don't like that I come off that way. Makes people not like me. It's just speech patterns of mine I guess.


I get this one too. I assume that you're just trying to help people and they don't take it the way you're intending for it to come across?


Yeah. Pretty much. I'm actually a pretty nice guy. People that actually get to know me will tell you that. But people that don't give me a chance tend to think I'm a know-it-all asshole.


Heh, I understand that all too well. Part of my growth in overcoming my social anxiety disorder was channeling the asshole nature of my "hot takes" so that the earnest concern of the advice was much more discernible. If they see me being jaded, frank and/or curt, they're less likely to assume I'm hiding some deep-seated maliciousness, especially when juxtaposed with the nature of the message I'm conveying.

At the same time though, some people are idiots and you can only cast pearls before swine for so long before it's a waste of your time.
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catboy0_0
07/24/18 4:11:16 AM
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sometimes you just can't convince people, you can only carry on
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mattnd2007
07/24/18 4:19:20 AM
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Kineth posted...
mattnd2007 posted...
Kineth posted...
mattnd2007 posted...
Know it all. It's something I'm always trying to improve on. I don't like that I come off that way. Makes people not like me. It's just speech patterns of mine I guess.


I get this one too. I assume that you're just trying to help people and they don't take it the way you're intending for it to come across?


Yeah. Pretty much. I'm actually a pretty nice guy. People that actually get to know me will tell you that. But people that don't give me a chance tend to think I'm a know-it-all asshole.


Heh, I understand that all too well. Part of my growth in overcoming my social anxiety disorder was channeling the asshole nature of my "hot takes" so that the earnest concern of the advice was much more discernible. If they see me being jaded, frank and/or curt, they're less likely to assume I'm hiding some deep-seated maliciousness, especially when juxtaposed with the nature of the message I'm conveying.

At the same time though, some people are idiots and you can only cast pearls before swine for so long before it's a waste of your time.


This is really solid advice. I think phrasing, body language, and tone are extremely important. I'm a little blunt sometimes. Don't try to be. And what comes out is much less blunt than what was in my mind of course. But yeah I will definitely try to work on my message sounding more like I really am just trying to help
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UnholyMudcrab
07/24/18 4:27:37 AM
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Parappa09
07/24/18 4:42:47 AM
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UnholyMudcrab posted...
I often talk too quietly to be heard clearly

does that stem from shyness?
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pres_madagascar
07/24/18 4:44:43 AM
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"are you ok? You look sad"

I have EXTREME resting bitch face.
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UnholyMudcrab
07/24/18 4:46:10 AM
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Parappa09 posted...
UnholyMudcrab posted...
I often talk too quietly to be heard clearly

does that stem from shyness?

Nah, I've just never been a loud talker
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mattnd2007
07/24/18 4:47:51 AM
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UnholyMudcrab posted...
Parappa09 posted...
UnholyMudcrab posted...
I often talk too quietly to be heard clearly

does that stem from shyness?

Nah, I've just never been a loud talker


I had a co-worker like that. Always had to ask him to repeat himself. Real nice dude. Never got annoyed. He knew he didn't talk loud enough. But couldn't seem to do anything to improve.
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haloiscoolisbak
07/24/18 4:56:27 AM
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oversensitive
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Parappa09
07/24/18 5:02:10 AM
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haloiscoolisbak posted...
oversensitive

people dont say this about me but i know im definitely oversensitive
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YOUHAVENOHOPE
07/24/18 5:02:42 AM
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MasterOfSex
07/24/18 5:03:28 AM
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too bad boy , many girls said this to me
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ClockworkHare
07/24/18 5:27:17 AM
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what one negative quality do people say you are irl?

I'm considered "too neutral" on certain subjects. I'm very boring to debate with in person due to a lack of interest and a lean towards individual pragmatism, not communal.

People who feel a need to validate themselves through stirring up debates, rallying to slay "dragons", craving competition, or looking for a philosophical echo can't stand being around me for long. My nonchalant behavior tends to make me pretty popular with folk in need of a pick-me-up and sanctuary. However, argumentative people typically veer away from any social oasis I habitually create. They're constantly looking for validation and life answers. I'm not. I have very little to offer them.

You can lead a horse to water, but...
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R_Jackal
07/24/18 5:32:29 AM
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Rude/Selfish. I tend to just do whatever I want in social situations. If I don't care about what's going on I'll typically wander off without warning and do whatever I want.

Most noteworthy one I get in trouble for is, when I was dragged into a debate about politics I pretended to have an opinion and just put headphones on and walked away.
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catboy0_0
07/24/18 5:34:16 AM
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YOUHAVENOHOPE posted...
>one

you're supposed to pick the overwhelming one
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TheCyborgNinja
07/24/18 5:56:25 AM
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Umm... probably that I'm callous.
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The23rdMagus
07/24/18 6:15:09 AM
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Coin toss between tense and uptight, even when I'm relaxed. I suffer from RBF.
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haloiscoolisbak
07/24/18 6:16:42 AM
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ClockworkHare posted...
what one negative quality do people say you are irl?

I'm considered "too neutral" on certain subjects. I'm very boring to debate with in person due to a lack of interest and a lean towards individual pragmatism, not communal.

People who feel a need to validate themselves through stirring up debates, rallying to slay "dragons", craving competition, or looking for a philosophical echo can't stand being around me for long. My nonchalant behavior tends to make me pretty popular with folk in need of a pick-me-up and sanctuary. However, argumentative people typically veer away from any social oasis I habitually create. They're constantly looking for validation and life answers. I'm not. I have very little to offer them.

You can lead a horse to water, but...


this sounds like it'd only be a problem online, maybe even exclusively on CE. i can't imagine my friends IRL ever thinking my non-extreme views would be annoying or a negative trait
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