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Pointless_Topic 11/08/23 6:17:08 PM #52: |
A_Good_Boy posted...
Part of working on one's social ineptitude is learning to recognize when your attempt at a conversation is going nowhere and figuring out how to transition to a different topic or when to step away and talk to someone else. It doesn't come without putting in the work, stepping out of your comfort zone, and talking to people.Nah, that just means they aren't interested. Someone who is into you will always find a way to keep conversing with you. You can be the most social person in the world, but that means nothing if the other person A. Feigns interest(it's easy to tell when someone isn't compatible in a convo or is pretending to follow what you're saying) B. Isn't interested --- Ok we get it:you created an account with the username "Pointless Topic" and are purposely posting pointless topics.that's so funny!-Cyber Akuma Zero ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Solar_Crimson 11/08/23 6:18:54 PM #53: |
So I guess this topic attracted a full-on incel.
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Unknown5uspect 11/08/23 6:19:07 PM #54: |
Excuse after excuse after excuse. I'm convinced Pointless_Topic is the person in the OP.
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Pointless_Topic 11/08/23 6:19:47 PM #55: |
Solar_Crimson posted...
So I guess this topic attracted a full-on incel.You don't need to be an incel to come to terms with the reality that many people have disadvantages in life. And that nothing is guaranteed, no matter how much you work hard or try --- Ok we get it:you created an account with the username "Pointless Topic" and are purposely posting pointless topics.that's so funny!-Cyber Akuma Zero ... Copied to Clipboard!
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VeggetaX 11/08/23 6:21:29 PM #56: |
I don't think he's an incel. I just think he's a gloomer.
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Punished_Blinx 11/08/23 6:22:19 PM #57: |
Pointless_Topic posted...
Holding a conversation means nothing if the other person isn't interested in you or gives one word responses. That isn't holding a conversation. That's talking at someone and not reading the room. Pointless_Topic posted... You don't need to be an incel to come to terms with the reality that many people have disadvantages in life. And that nothing is guaranteed, no matter how much you work hard or try Of course nothing is guaranteed. People and relationships are completely dynamic. Pointless_Topic posted... Nah, that just means they aren't interested. Someone who is into you will always find a way to keep conversing with you. You can be the most social person in the world, but that means nothing if the other person If someone isn't able to hold a conversation with almost anyone then chances are there isn't going to be anything for anyone to be into. --- A Fallen Mascot ... Copied to Clipboard!
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A_Good_Boy 11/08/23 6:23:28 PM #58: |
Pointless_Topic posted...
Nah, that just means they aren't interested. Someone who is into you will always find a way to keep conversing with you. You can be the most social person in the world, but that means nothing if the other personThat's not necessarily true. Sometimes the other person can also be socially inept and also suck in engaging in conversation (same as you), but may still express an interest in talking to you. A function of working on your own social ineptitude is learning how to recognize when that may be the case. That way you can learn how to adjust so the conversation is still pleasant for both parties. There's no hard or fast rule for talking to a person, but it gets easier with practice and failure and successes. --- Who is? I am! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pointless_Topic 11/08/23 6:28:45 PM #59: |
sure
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BloodMoon7 11/08/23 6:46:17 PM #60: |
Solar_Crimson posted...
So I guess this topic attracted a full-on incel.Wdym I barely posted in this topic --- My maid will hear about this. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Phoro 11/08/23 7:39:33 PM #61: |
invertedlegdrop posted...
Whenever I hear about short men having troubles dating I remember this old ABC 20/20 story: God, people suck. Interesting video tho! --- It's called the American Dream because you have to be asleep to believe it. - George Carlin ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Punished_Blinx 11/08/23 8:04:16 PM #63: |
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Keep in mind we are often talking to people here who don't really understand social dynamics between people in general. Their perception of effort may be different to yours. --- A Fallen Mascot ... Copied to Clipboard!
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potdnewb 11/09/23 2:35:06 AM #65: |
mercurydude posted...
That's how they do. There's nothing that infuriates an incel more than for their bullshit, shallow talking points about appearance to be disproved.... it forces them to consider that maybe it's not how they look, but how they are as a person that's the reason why no woman wants to get with them; It means that they're to blame for their situation themselves, which doesn't allow them room to play the victim.and exactly why the term involuntary celibate or incel is completely wrong especially considering that the definition of celibacy is choosing to not have sex --- https://youtu.be/mSgnC5eQ5u0?si=lh_nzFRDz4j4jhc8 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Carljank 11/09/23 2:48:00 AM #66: |
Disgusting contemptible animals.
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Glob 11/09/23 2:56:01 AM #67: |
Pointless_Topic posted... Expanding your social circle and dating prospects are two different things. You don't need a social circle to date. And it's not uncommon for many people to have little to no friends, or to have work life and gym be their main focus Making friends and getting with girls are basically the same skill set. Its not a coincidence that most incels are short on friends. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dark_Arbron 11/09/23 2:56:44 AM #68: |
Pointless_Topic posted...
You don't need to be an incel to come to terms with the reality that many people have disadvantages in life. And that nothing is guaranteed, no matter how much you work hard or try Cant argue there. But Im ever mindful that my inherent flaws are no ones fault. Thats what separates me from the textbook incel. That plus an overall lack of interest. --- "The US is not a single country. It is ~20 developed countries being held hostage by ~25 developing countries and ~5 failed states." -Calintares ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Guide 11/09/23 3:13:51 AM #69: |
Would be nice for there to be reliable resources for socially inept people to be less socially inept, but also I'm not sure how viable that could even be. Like, it took me over a year of dedicated daily time to get my hikineet friend out of her room. Can you fund and manage that sort of thing for the public?
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Guide 11/09/23 4:40:58 PM #71: |
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...Which one party may not understand. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pointless_Topic 11/09/23 9:47:15 PM #72: |
Glob posted...
Making friends and getting with girls are basically the same skill set. Its not a coincidence that most incels are short on friends. This isn't even close to true.
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Glob 11/09/23 10:03:54 PM #73: |
Pointless_Topic posted... This isn't even close to true.
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Pointless_Topic 11/09/23 10:10:05 PM #74: |
Glob posted...
1. High school virgins arent incels. But yes, they often lack the maturity to understand that talking to opposite sex is just the same as talking to the same sex. Cant blame them, theyre lacking in experience. Whats your excuse?Both are completely different. Men generally talk to other men about certain stuff, or bond with other men with certain stuff because they go through the same things or experience the same stuff. Both genders go through and experience life completely differently in societal aspects and economic aspects. Actually, they completely are. A casual friendship is easy to have. And thats using friendship in the loosest way possible in terms of being able to have a good conversation or talk about common things in the location you are at(job/event/friend group) Dating/relationship is different. You're not competing for friendship. You are however, competing in the dating world when there are tons of men trying to talk to the same person, and the other individual being more selective due to the plethora of options available. Said options lead to high standards. Dating sites and apps are an example of this. In which all the men are essentially competing with each other and need to essentially be the best or one of the best. Furthermore, I'm not going to get rejected for being "short" for a friend group. Maybe made fun of, but being a friend of sam isnt the same as being in a relationship with sam. But in a relationship or dating: It's preferential and often mandatory to be a certain height. Along with having a certain level of income. Certain features(not being skinny or not being buff), having hair, etc. In other words, there are high standards for dating/relationships. Not much so for simple friendships suggests that their attitude, demeanour or social skills are lacking, which would explain why women arent interested in them.Why do people continuously try to ignore that income level, or physical appearance or "types" are also factors for being rejected? Yes those you listed are factors, but so are other things. Or just people have preferences as well. --- Ok we get it:you created an account with the username "Pointless Topic" and are purposely posting pointless topics.that's so funny!-Cyber Akuma Zero ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Guide 11/09/23 10:34:44 PM #76: |
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You seem to be talking about a personal issue rather than what was actually being said, so I'm just gonna sidestep that. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Inohira 11/09/23 10:50:47 PM #78: |
People don't get that for men your range of allowed personality traits is correlated with your looks.
A tall guy can get away with both being large and in charge as well as being quiet and submissive. But a short guy is expected to strike a perfect balance. If he's too assertive he's a Napoleon complex manlet, but if he's too passive he's not noticed at all. Plus regardless of what he does his dating pool is smaller than the tall guy's, because unlike how many men specifically find each height a woman can have sex there are barely any women who specifically prefer short men over tall or average men. You're always fighting an uphill battle and often being settled for physically. It really kills the idea of being yourself for non-genetically blessed men. And that's what gets incels mad. --- 1 line break(s), 121 characters allowed ... Copied to Clipboard!
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hereforemnant 11/09/23 10:51:28 PM #79: |
Kimberly posted...
<username> wants to chatI don't use the messages on there at all so if I see this I know there's about to be some bullshit lmao --- 3DS Friend Code: FC: 0318-7199-1150 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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hereforemnant 11/09/23 10:56:14 PM #80: |
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The problem is that a lot of women relationship advice/therapists admit this is doing more damage in the relationship sphere than it's helping. Ghosting by either party instead of communicating problems or misgivings basically means you're passing down the issues of whoever you're talking to down to the next person. If a guy was kinda weird, or rude, or said something off cuff or had a flaw of some kind, & you just ghost that guy, most of us are too ignorant of what it was that turned the woman off. Then he goes & likely does that to the next girl & she's dealing with it, then rinse & repeat. Open dialogue between the sexes is the best way to clear up misconceptions & problems, ghosting is kicking the can down the road. We don't even have to talk about obviously abusive behavior, that's out of line & ridiculous regardless of whose doing it. But if a date occured & then anyone is just being ghosted & that's it, it's making the dating scene worse for everyone. --- 3DS Friend Code: FC: 0318-7199-1150 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MartavisBryant 11/09/23 11:00:00 PM #81: |
Inohira posted...
People don't get that for men your range of allowed personality traits is correlated with your looks.It hasn't worked for me. I'm not complaining, as I know I'm not worth being with. --- I know it might be wrong, but I'm in love with Frank Gore's dong ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Prismsblade 11/09/23 11:01:09 PM #82: |
While height certainly does help woman date enough PoS guys that they should know by now that looks arent everything.
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Pointless_Topic 11/09/23 11:07:13 PM #83: |
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No need to. I have no need or desire for friends. And accept that I rely on myself and only myself. I trust no one. Feel bad for those who are good people, who actively try to be social or to get into the dating world or to have friends. but instead get screwed, have their confidence shot down, or actively ghosted by people . Those are the people you should feel bad for. Because their light fades away anytime they continue to get rejected or manipulated. --- Ok we get it:you created an account with the username "Pointless Topic" and are purposely posting pointless topics.that's so funny!-Cyber Akuma Zero ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pointless_Topic 11/09/23 11:11:11 PM #85: |
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No, it's a Mcdonalds --- Ok we get it:you created an account with the username "Pointless Topic" and are purposely posting pointless topics.that's so funny!-Cyber Akuma Zero ... Copied to Clipboard!
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A_Good_Boy 11/09/23 11:13:01 PM #86: |
Pointless_Topic posted...
No need to. I have no need or desire for friends. And accept that I rely on myself and only myself. I trust no one.Don't give up man. You may have had a few bad experiences but there's still plenty of reason to improve your social skills. You may have no desire to pursue dating or friendship, but social skills still help out a lot in other ways; such as making it easier to navigate through relationships at work, dealing with people as a customer, or talking to people that you can't avoid speaking to while in public. --- Who is? I am! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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nocturnal_traveler 11/09/23 11:14:17 PM #87: |
A lot of women are pretty short. Height shouldn't be THAT much of an issue. Unless you're a little man, in which case you should seek out little women.
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KogaSteelfang 11/09/23 11:14:25 PM #88: |
Smackems posted... Getting a gf is really not that hardFor some of us it is. v_v ... Copied to Clipboard!
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nocturnal_traveler 11/09/23 11:15:26 PM #89: |
KogaSteelfang posted...
For some of us it is. v_vHave you tried looking for unattractive women? --- --I understand your opinion. I just don't care about it. ~Jedah-- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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A_Good_Boy 11/09/23 11:18:03 PM #90: |
nocturnal_traveler posted...
A lot of women are pretty short. Height shouldn't be THAT much of an issue. Unless you're a little man, in which case you should seek out little women.They want someone that can reach high shelves and the top of the refrigerator. So it makes sense why some women would want a partner taller than they are. --- Who is? I am! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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nocturnal_traveler 11/09/23 11:20:08 PM #91: |
A_Good_Boy posted...
They want someone that can reach high shelves and the top of the refrigerator. So it makes sense why some women would want a partner taller than they are.Oh yeah. Reaching the top shelf is pretty important to them. --- --I understand your opinion. I just don't care about it. ~Jedah-- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Glob 11/09/23 11:25:57 PM #92: |
Pointless_Topic posted... Both are completely different. Men generally talk to other men about certain stuff, or bond with other men with certain stuff because they go through the same things or experience the same stuff. Both genders go through and experience life completely differently in societal aspects and economic aspects.If you can only talk to people with similar experiences to you, you should branch out and get better at talking to people with different backgrounds and lifestyles. This is good for talking to both sexes. Actually, they completely are. A casual friendship is easy to have. And thats using friendship in the loosest way possible in terms of being able to have a good conversation or talk about common things in the location you are at(job/event/friend group)A casual sexual relationship is also easy to have. Dating/relationship is different. You're not competing for friendship. You are however, competing in the dating world when there are tons of men trying to talk to the same person, and the other individual being more selective due to the plethora of options available. Said options lead to high standards. Dating sites and apps are an example of this. In which all the men are essentially competing with each other and need to essentially be the best or one of the best.Dont rely on dating sites. Ive never had trouble with getting women and have been on a dating site for all of one month in my entire adult life. They give you a skewed perception of how people really are. Also, yes, you are competing for friendship. There are only so many hours in the day so while I might not tell somebody to fuck off if they dont come across as desirable enough for me, Im not going to choose to spend time with them. If you dont choose to spend time together or interact with each other, you arent friends. Youre acquaintances. Furthermore, I'm not going to get rejected for being "short" for a friend group. Maybe made fun of, but being a friend of sam isnt the same as being in a relationship with sam. But in a relationship or dating: It's preferential and often mandatory to be a certain height. Along with having a certain level of income. Certain features(not being skinny or not being buff), having hair, etc. In other words, there are high standards for dating/relationships. Not much so for simple friendshipsIt is not mandatory to be a certain height. It never has been. Every shorter guy who has ever had a girlfriend, and there are plenty of them, debunks that nonsense. Yes, women can reject you for a number of different reasons, and for some of them its height. Or money or whatever. But most women wont care about all these things and even many of those that do will care about them less if you get them to like you. Why do people continuously try to ignore that income level, or physical appearance or "types" are also factors for being rejected? Yes those you listed are factors, but so are other things. Or just people have preferences as well. Yeah, but youre applying single rejections to an entire gender. Nobody is saying that you cant get rejected for being poor or short or whatever. But you cant blame it for being unable to get a girlfriend. Its not like you only get one shot. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KogaSteelfang 11/09/23 11:27:53 PM #93: |
nocturnal_traveler posted... Have you tried looking for unattractive women?I don't like describing it that way, because I generally don't have very high standards to begin with. I tend to be more attracted to personality more than anything. So yes, I've tried matching with people that probably wouldn't normally be considered attractive. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pointless_Topic 11/09/23 11:28:25 PM #94: |
I'm replying tomorrow
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Inohira 11/09/23 11:37:33 PM #96: |
Glob posted...
A casual sexual relationship is also easy to have. That's a tall guy thing unless you're extremely charming. --- 1 line break(s), 121 characters allowed ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Glob 11/09/23 11:39:32 PM #97: |
Inohira posted... That's a tall guy thing unless you're extremely charming. I dont agree. Plenty of my friends arent tall or extremely charming and its never been an issue. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NPC 11/09/23 11:41:46 PM #98: |
KogaSteelfang posted... For some of us it is. v_vYup older virgin here. Not sure of your story but I bet you're like me and asking out every other women and they just turn us down without a second thought. After being rejected 100 times in a month you almost become... numb to it. How many women turned you down this month? I usually try and approach at the bar. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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nocturnal_traveler 11/09/23 11:54:14 PM #100: |
NPC posted...
Yup older virgin here. Not sure of your story but I bet you're like me and asking out every other women and they just turn us down without a second thought. After being rejected 100 times in a month you almost become... numb to it. How many women turned you down this month? I usually try and approach at the bar.100?! Geez! Sorry to hear that. --- --I understand your opinion. I just don't care about it. ~Jedah-- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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