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Jen0125 05/28/18 9:22:20 PM #1: |
I wonder what that means.
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green dragon 05/28/18 9:25:45 PM #2: |
He was cold, and just needed a quick spike of your body heat
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dragon504 05/28/18 9:41:10 PM #3: |
gettin' a quick snifferoo in
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JixHedgehog 05/28/18 9:46:57 PM #4: |
Need more details
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xjayguyx 05/28/18 9:48:28 PM #5: |
Sounds like he's not getting lucky elsewhere and is feeling desperate so trying to get back with you? I don't know enough details to give a proper guess though.
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Jen0125 05/28/18 9:48:52 PM #6: |
JixHedgehog posted...
Need more details Yes, we are. He did while I was in treatment for alcoholism. When I got home he said he was confused and wanted to continue to live together to see if his feelings for me would come back. That was 2 weeks ago. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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helIy 05/28/18 9:50:55 PM #7: |
he wants the d
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FinalFantasyVII 05/28/18 9:51:34 PM #8: |
he wants to have non-committal sex with you.
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jsb0714 05/28/18 9:51:36 PM #9: |
He's gauging your reaction and will make his next move accordingly.
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Jen0125 05/28/18 9:52:08 PM #10: |
FinalFantasyVII posted...
he wants to have non-committal sex with you. I'm not doing that. I have some self-respect now. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DrPrimemaster 05/28/18 9:52:29 PM #11: |
The break up was recent so he has lingering feelings and with you guys still living together they're not fading. It becomes easy to slip into old habits. Its also possible that because you stopped drinking you stopped exhibiting the traits that caused him to break up with you in the first place so he is reconsidering restarting the relationship.
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xjayguyx 05/28/18 9:52:59 PM #12: |
Jen0125 posted...
JixHedgehog posted...Need more details Why did he break up with you because of your drinking? We're you violent with him? Or say hurtful things? Did he do anything wrong to you? Maybe you are making progress and he sees it and his feelings still remain for you. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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green dragon 05/28/18 9:54:59 PM #13: |
Or it could just be a hug between friends. I hug my friends sometimes
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xjayguyx 05/28/18 9:55:55 PM #14: |
Best to ask him really.
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Jen0125 05/28/18 9:56:13 PM #15: |
xjayguyx posted...
Yeah, he broke up with me because I was emotionally neglecting him for pretty much our whole relationship save for about 7 months because I'm an alcoholic. We were together for 3.5 years. I was not violent with him. I never said hurtful things but I used to tell him he should leave me because he's too good for me and if I drank in public we usually got in a fight after because he'd get embarrassed about my behavior. He usually just wasn't great at communicating his feelings and kept things to himself until it became a crisis point for him. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jen0125 05/28/18 9:57:55 PM #16: |
xjayguyx posted...
Best to ask him really. I would but I had a conversation with him about what's going on between us two weeks ago and the two options were "live together and see if he wants to be with me" or "move on and see other women" and he didn't really give me a concrete answer but we are living together still and he's not seeing or dating other women. I don't want to have him feel pressured by me constantly bringing up conversations about our relationship or anything. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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xjayguyx 05/28/18 9:58:06 PM #17: |
Jen0125 posted...
xjayguyx posted... Men don't usually talk about their feelings if they are manly type men. Ask him/talk to him about it is your best bet. If you still have feelings for him then he's the person you should be talking to. Best wishes :) ... Copied to Clipboard!
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JixHedgehog 05/28/18 9:58:44 PM #18: |
FinalFantasyVII posted...
he wants to have non-committal sex with you. Sorry Jen, I know its not what you want to hear. Guys dont change.. as much as you want them to. Next he'll be wanting to have sex with other women as an excuse to confirm his feelings for you. Btw, good job for admitting you had a problem and seeked help :) --- Not changing my sig until Nintendo announces the Switch XL 1/12/2017 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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xjayguyx 05/28/18 9:59:23 PM #19: |
Jen0125 posted...
xjayguyx posted...Best to ask him really. Ah ya well give it some more time. A hug is a good sign he still cares about you that's for sure. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jen0125 05/28/18 10:00:33 PM #20: |
xjayguyx posted...
Ask him/talk to him about it is your best bet. If you still have feelings for him then he's the person you should be talking to. Best wishes :) I'm planning to talk to him in two more weeks. That'll be a month after our first conversation so it won't seem like I'm hounding him about trying to commit to something. It'll just be a check in from our previous conversation. JixHedgehog posted...
What do you mean guys don't change as much as I want them to? What am I expecting to change in this scenario? --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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FinalFantasyVII 05/28/18 10:07:25 PM #21: |
Jen0125 posted...
FinalFantasyVII posted...he wants to have non-committal sex with you. Lovely. But I hope your question is answered. He wants to know if he can still sway you. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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helIy 05/28/18 10:08:21 PM #22: |
and that's dumb anyways
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Jen0125 05/28/18 10:08:23 PM #23: |
FinalFantasyVII posted...
Lovely. But I hope your question is answered. He wants to know if he can still sway you. That just seems to be one of a few different opinions. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SkynyrdRocker 05/28/18 10:09:00 PM #24: |
helIy posted...
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Blightzkrieg 05/28/18 10:12:37 PM #25: |
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Jen0125 05/28/18 10:12:58 PM #26: |
Blightzkrieg posted...
Maybe it was his twjn This seems to be the most likely option so far. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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JixHedgehog 05/28/18 10:17:20 PM #27: |
Jen0125 posted...
xjayguyx posted...Ask him/talk to him about it is your best bet. If you still have feelings for him then he's the person you should be talking to. Best wishes :) Whether his feelings would come back or not. After 2 weeks he'd have a pretty good idea on whether or not the person he was officially together with before (and currently living with) was worth another shot or not. --- Not changing my sig until Nintendo announces the Switch XL 1/12/2017 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Blightzkrieg 05/28/18 10:17:27 PM #28: |
Wouldn't it be sweet if your twin and his twin got married
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OhhhJa 05/28/18 10:20:23 PM #29: |
Y'all need to either fuck or move out and get on with your lives
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Jen0125 05/28/18 10:20:51 PM #30: |
JixHedgehog posted...
I don't know. Have you ever been in a situation like this? It's complicated. We were together for 3.5 years. But I'll talk to him in a couple weeks and move forward from there. He may just be being cautious or maybe his feelings aren't growing any stronger and it's over. Either way, it's his choice what happens. Blightzkrieg posted... Wouldn't it be sweet if your twin and his twin got married That should become a Lifetime movie. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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wwinterj25 05/28/18 10:29:45 PM #31: |
So just to clarify you actually want to be back in a relationship with him yes?
As for the question it's probably a force of habit. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SushiSquid 05/28/18 10:30:27 PM #33: |
So much crap happens in relationships because one or both people won't just communicate. Talk to him about this, not us. A relationship that long is probably worth saving, but that's up to both of you to figure out.
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DeathMagnetic80 05/28/18 10:31:32 PM #34: |
having lived with an ex, post breakup once before.. that's a recipe for disaster. Props for getting sober though, it isn't easy.
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Jen0125 05/28/18 10:34:35 PM #35: |
wwinterj25 posted...
So just to clarify you actually want to be back in a relationship with him yes? Yes, I do for sure. But if he doesn't want to I'm obviously willing to accept that. I don't think so because we have not been affectionate with each other at all since I've been back. SushiSquid posted... So much crap happens in relationships because one or both people won't just communicate. Talk to him about this, not us. A relationship that long is probably worth saving, but that's up to both of you to figure out. Yeah, like I said my plan is to wait a month to talk to him because I already had a conversation as soon as I got home. I don't want to hound him about it because I don't want him to feel pressured about having a relationship with me. That's in two weeks. I just thought it'd be a goofy topic to speculate with. Nothing serious. DeathMagnetic80 posted... having lived with an ex, post breakup once before.. that's a recipe for disaster. Props for getting sober though, it isn't easy. I've lived with one previously already before. But this isn't so bad. We aren't on bad terms or anything. But I'm not planning on doing this long term. Just while we figure out if we're getting back together or not. If we're not getting back together I'm planning on moving out. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LinkPizza 05/28/18 10:40:58 PM #36: |
green dragon posted...
Or it could just be a hug between friends. I hug my friends sometimes I hug my friends all the time... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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wwinterj25 05/28/18 10:44:13 PM #37: |
Jen0125 posted...
Yes, I do for sure. But if he doesn't want to I'm obviously willing to accept that. I thought as much. Just don't be a doormat and read into things too much. I'm sure you already know that though. Jen0125 posted... I don't think so because we have not been affectionate with each other at all since I've been back. I mean unless he sit's down and talks with you or shows more affection then a hug it could mean anything so I'm just shooting the breeze. Jen0125 posted... I just thought it'd be a goofy topic to speculate with. Nothing serious. Whoops. I guess I missed that. -_- --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MICHALECOLE 05/28/18 10:44:47 PM #38: |
Maybe you have changed for the better and he has noticed
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Firewood18 05/28/18 10:49:09 PM #39: |
His sock has been neglecting him.
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Greenfox111 05/28/18 11:00:39 PM #40: |
He pickpocketed you, please check your wallet
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Jen0125 05/28/18 11:02:37 PM #41: |
MICHALECOLE posted...
Maybe you have changed for the better and he has noticed I have definitely changed for the better. I'm not drinking and I'm doing a lot of therapy to help with my self esteem and self worth so I'm not as negative. I'm also taking medication to manage my depression and anxiety. Firewood18 posted... His sock has been neglecting him. hehehe Greenfox111 posted... He pickpocketed you, please check your wallet My credit card is missing! :o --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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dragon504 05/28/18 11:05:07 PM #42: |
I thought we
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Jen0125 05/28/18 11:08:23 PM #43: |
dragon504 posted...
I thought we No, I didn't. I was going to wait to get home from treatment to talk to him about the living situation and figure it out from there. That's when he said he was confused about what he wanted to do because he thought he didn't have romantic feelings for me but after he saw me when I got home he realized he might still have them. But he's healing and he's very hurt from my alcoholism so I'm trying to be very sensitive to his needs right now. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ferko420 05/28/18 11:11:10 PM #44: |
Didn't read, I ate shrimps with the wife 20min ago
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Jen0125 05/28/18 11:13:44 PM #45: |
I like shrimps.
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Jen0125 05/28/18 11:39:53 PM #46: |
I texted him that Ernie was borking at a dog that was borking at the tv and he replied "aw I miss you guys."
Hmmmm the plot thickens. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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solid_kush 05/29/18 12:10:18 AM #47: |
The D.E.N.N.I.S. System
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MICHALECOLE 05/29/18 12:10:54 AM #48: |
solid_kush posted...
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JixHedgehog 05/29/18 12:12:04 AM #49: |
Jen0125 posted...
JixHedgehog posted... Yup, about the same amount of time together and things went south, we were on and off while still living together and just like DeathMagnetic said, it was hell Thankfully the post break up period didnt last very long. Lease was up and we ended up living separately and that really sped up the end of whatever it was we were doing. Anyway, you know you like him, you're sure of that and that's good, we just hope his heart is in the right place --- Not changing my sig until Nintendo announces the Switch XL 1/12/2017 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jen0125 05/29/18 12:14:44 AM #50: |
JixHedgehog posted...
Yup, about the same amount of time together and things went south, we were on and off while still living together and just like DeathMagnetic said, it was hell It's not the time together. It's more to do with the alcoholism than the time. That's what I meant when I asked if you had been in a situation like this. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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