Poll of the Day > My mom is insane

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Jen0125
07/23/22 1:36:32 PM
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I haven't talked to my parents since May 2020

Today my roommate, who I have not dated since August 2020, tells me my mom heard he was engaged (had to have been from the only brother I talk to) and that he was moving to Miami (which he apparently isn't and I told my brother he MIGHT be moving there). She asked if he wanted to MEET UP FOR DINNER to catch up in a text message.

How insane do you have to be to do this when your daughter hasn't talked to you in over 2 years and she hasn't dated this guy for almost 2?

She always talked shit about my ex behind his back and flirted with him to his face

Idk why I have these orbiters who can't respect my boundaries to let me live in the peaceful life I'm trying to make for myself

And she is telling people she's afraid of ME ahead of my brother's wedding. He said his friends agreed to "drag her out" if she starts any drama at his wedding. How sad do you think it is to have to take measures against your own mother like this? Then she proves you right by acting like a fucking asshole.

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argonautweakend
07/23/22 1:43:13 PM
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At least you recognize this bullshit and don't buy into it.
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Jen0125
07/23/22 1:44:25 PM
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argonautweakend posted...
At least you recognize this bullshit and don't buy into it.

Yeah at this point at least the contact isn't sending me over the edge. It's just annoying. I don't understand the level of narcissism and derangement.
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eating4fun
07/23/22 1:49:38 PM
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Nothing in the world can bother you as much as your own mind, I tell you. In fact, others seem to be bothering you, but it is not other, it is your own mind

Just look away from the screen, like close your eyes.

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Jen0125
07/23/22 1:58:40 PM
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eating4fun posted...
Nothing in the world can bother you as much as your own mind, I tell you. In fact, others seem to be bothering you, but it is not other, it is your own mind

Just look away from the screen, like close your eyes.

What? It wasn't on a screen.
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SoreChasm
07/23/22 1:59:46 PM
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eating4fun posted...
Nothing in the world can bother you as much as your own mind, I tell you. In fact, others seem to be bothering you, but it is not other, it is your own mind
-Adolf Hitler, 1943

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jsb0714
07/23/22 2:00:28 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
She asked if he wanted to MEET UP FOR DINNER to catch up in a text message.

Don't you live some distance from your parents?
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Jen0125
07/23/22 2:02:08 PM
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jsb0714 posted...


Don't you live some distance from your parents?

No, they live like 30 mins from me in a different metro area city.
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HornedLion
07/23/22 2:19:01 PM
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What? No way! White moms have to be the most mentally stable creatures on earth.

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AElaias
07/23/22 2:21:15 PM
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It is best to cease as much interaction as possible, because the more aware of her evildoing, the more it seems like it's out of control. You can be cool headed once again just getting that some people aren't meant for us. Sometimes parents aren't meant to be close to others, just a means to care. We coexist, but them harming others to rob our past and resources means we must keep them away before we hear of it anymore, or it resets our mind we're still there.

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Jen0125
07/23/22 2:22:48 PM
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Yeah I mean I haven't contacted her since May 2020 and I'm certainly not doing it now.

I told my roommate he's an adult and to make his own decision. Both of those parties have nothing to do with my personal life anymore. If they want to meet have fun and leave me out of it
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VampireCoyote
07/23/22 2:59:00 PM
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https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/8/1/5/AAfSRzAADfGX.jpg

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Lokarin
07/23/22 3:10:02 PM
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I thought all mums were insane, like, genetically... to drive people away from the home to be submissive and breedable elsewheres.

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Jen0125
07/23/22 3:28:56 PM
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Lokarin posted...
I thought all mums were insane, like, genetically... to drive people away from the home to be submissive and breedable elsewheres.

Please go shit up someone else's topic and not mine thanks
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Blightzkrieg
07/23/22 3:37:46 PM
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Lokarin posted...
I thought all mums were insane, like, genetically... to drive people away from the home to be submissive and breedable elsewheres.
Why would genetics want I, a 300 pound hairy man with no uterus and whose breasts barely lactate, to be submissive and breedable?

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Lokarin
07/23/22 3:40:57 PM
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Blightzkrieg posted...
Why would genetics want I, a 300 pound hairy man with no uterus and whose breasts barely lactate, to be submissive and breedable?

It takes two to moistcritical

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jsb0714
07/23/22 4:25:10 PM
#18:


Jen0125 posted...
No, they live like 30 mins from me in a different metro area city.
Ah, so the dinner between mom and the ex is possible.
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Cacciato
07/23/22 4:28:07 PM
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jsb0714 posted...
Ah, so the dinner between mom and the ex is possible.
Astounding detective work.
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OhhhJa
07/23/22 4:37:15 PM
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Yeah that's annoying. My mom still talks to an ex of mine from over a decade ago and insists on giving me updates about her life even though I tell her every time that I don't care lol
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Lil_Bit83
07/23/22 4:42:52 PM
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Sorry to hear it. You can't choose your family, but you can choose how much time you don't spend with them after a certain point. So there's comfort in that at least. I haven't talked to my mom in well over a decade, so I understand.

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eating4fun
07/23/22 4:44:18 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
What? It wasn't on a screen.

dangit, its a metaphor

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synth_real
07/23/22 5:23:00 PM
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Blightzkrieg posted...
Why would genetics want I, a 300 pound hairy man with no uterus and whose breasts barely lactate, to be submissive and breedable?
You know, you can increase that if you just milk them regularly

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ZangsBeard
07/23/22 5:24:49 PM
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https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/8/9/8/AAVgnZAADfHq.jpg

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Jen0125
07/23/22 5:37:30 PM
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Lil_Bit83 posted...
Sorry to hear it. You can't choose your family, but you can choose how much time you don't spend with them after a certain point. So there's comfort in that at least. I haven't talked to my mom in well over a decade, so I understand.

It just is really annoying when she keeps showing me exactly why I want her to stay out of my life. She can't respect my basic boundaries and never has been able to.
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Cruddy_horse
07/23/22 6:34:00 PM
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Lokarin posted...
I thought all mums were insane, like, genetically... to drive people away from the home to be submissive and breedable elsewheres.


Lok what the absolute fuck is wrong with you, it's like you have the social ability level of chris chan.
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MabinogiFan
07/23/22 6:39:56 PM
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Jen0125 posted...


And she is telling people she's afraid of ME ahead of my brother's wedding. He said his friends agreed to "drag her out" if she starts any drama at his wedding. How sad do you think it is to have to take measures against your own mother like this? Then she proves you right by acting like a fucking asshole.
Drag you out or your mom? Are you going to the wedding?

Also I'm starting to think that having good parents is some kind of anomaly. Mine aren't perfect but I count myself extremely lucky.
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Ozmose
07/23/22 6:42:57 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
It just is really annoying when she keeps showing me exactly why I want her to stay out of my life. She can't respect my basic boundaries and never has been able to.
That's the vast majority of moms right there. My mom is VERY religious, so she really tries to push it on me sometimes. That's my cut off point with her. I would never outright eject her from my life, because I know she loves me in her own fucked up way. We used to fight a lot, but now we get along pretty good. Mainly due to the fact that I've gotten good at knowing when it's time to dip from a conversation. I wouldn't bet on your mom doing any changing to make you happy. If you want to have her in your life, you kinda need to put the boundaries on yourself. That's the only real way to have control over the situation.

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Jen0125
07/23/22 6:49:41 PM
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MabinogiFan posted...
Drag you out or your mom? Are you going to the wedding?

Also I'm starting to think that having good parents is some kind of anomaly. Mine aren't perfect but I count myself extremely lucky.

Yes, I am. But I told my brother if my mom starts anything with me I'm just going to leave so him and I have a plan too. And it's sad we have to. I said today I hope she can keep it cool and not ruin ONE event (his wedding) because she has ruined every special event in our lives. And he replied "doubt it"
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Jen0125
07/23/22 6:50:48 PM
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Ozmose posted...
If you want to have her in your life, you kinda need to put the boundaries on yourself.

I don't want her in my life. She's physically, emotionally and mentally abusive. It just took me getting over my addiction and getting tons of therapy to see it. I excised her and my dad from my life for many reasons but they think I belong to them or something
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jsb0714
07/23/22 7:34:30 PM
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Cacciato posted...
Astounding detective work.
I know.
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Lokarin
07/23/22 7:55:12 PM
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Cruddy_horse posted...
Lok what the absolute fuck is wrong with you, it's like you have the social ability level of chris chan.

wut? Doesn't everyone have a crazy mum? The rest of the comment was just carry-on joke, but ya - mums are crazy, no?

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Jen0125
07/23/22 7:57:29 PM
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Lokarin I'm really close to blocking you
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Jen0125
07/23/22 8:02:28 PM
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I can't imagine why you'd think breeder jokes are funny when half the country I live in just lost the protection to have an abortion which you know about

You need to get a fucking clue
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VampireCoyote
07/23/22 8:04:29 PM
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the worst is when abusive parents act like traumatic events didnt happen or deny them outright

its like wtf I struggle with this constantly and its nothing to you

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Jen0125
07/23/22 8:08:47 PM
#37:


VampireCoyote posted...
the worst is when abusive parents act like traumatic events didnt happen or deny them outright

its like wtf I struggle with this constantly and its nothing to you

I'm sure if you ask my mom she was abused by us kids when we were kids and teenagers. She always said she was our "punching bag"

She's.. Just so narcissistic and mentally ill. I wish she'd leave me alone. I'm honestly dreading my brother's wedding because of her and I hate that she has this power over me still. I've come a long way but still not far enough.
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Cruddy_horse
07/23/22 11:28:36 PM
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VampireCoyote posted...
the worst is when abusive parents act like traumatic events didnt happen or deny them outright

its like wtf I struggle with this constantly and its nothing to you

I hate this, my mother has an inability to apologize to my siblings, whenever they try to get an apology for something she did as a kid she always follows it with "I'm sure I had a good reason to do it" instead of just apologizing like a normal person.
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FatalAccident
07/24/22 12:01:18 AM
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Jen0125 posted...


He said his friends agreed to "drag her out" if she starts any drama at his wedding.

fucking hell hopefully it doesnt actually come to this

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DrPrimemaster
07/24/22 12:35:09 AM
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Yo, we need new Jen drama this is getting old. I want the Jen in Korea saga.

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JigsawTDCII
07/24/22 1:15:13 AM
#41:


DrPrimemaster posted...
Yo, we need new Jen drama this is getting old. I want the Jen in Korea saga.

apparently that story arc has been canceled
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Jen0125
07/24/22 7:29:11 AM
#42:


DrPrimemaster posted...
Yo, we need new Jen drama this is getting old. I want the Jen in Korea saga.

I wish my mom would let this drama get old lol
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Blightzkrieg
07/24/22 7:40:22 AM
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I have been waiting YEARS for the Jen in Korea saga the producers didn't have the budget for it and they knew it

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Jen0125
07/24/22 8:25:25 AM
#44:


Blightzkrieg posted...
I have been waiting YEARS for the Jen in Korea saga the producers didn't have the budget for it and they knew it

Dude I'm not moving some place that just elected a misogynist president. I already have to live in political turmoil here. I'd rather stay where I know the turmoil than move where there is new turmoil. Learning a new type of anxiety is too much for me lmao.
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Blightzkrieg
07/24/22 8:46:29 AM
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Jen0125 posted...
Dude I'm not moving some place that just elected a misogynist president. I already have to live in political turmoil here. I'd rather stay where I know the turmoil than move where there is new turmoil. Learning a new type of anxiety is too much for me lmao.
This could be a classic white saviour tale where you teach the Far East the value of treating women as almost equals

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