Current Events > Her on 3rd date: "I'm not mean, I'm just honest."

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AmericaTheBrave 09/20/23 4:55:52 PM #1:	What do --- https://imgur.com/h74Kc6W <cite>AmericaTheBrave posted [p:976199169] in Her on 3rd... [t:80572221]...</cite> <quote>What do </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Westernwolf4 09/20/23 4:59:13 PM #2:	It is my experience that people who say that usually are in fact mean, and that honesty is just sugar coating for crappy behavior. It is easy to be honest and still treat the people around you respectfully. --- An opinion does not turn into a fact simply because the person holding it feels strongly about it. <cite>Westernwolf4 posted [p:976199237] in Her on 3rd... [t:80572221]...</cite> <quote>It is my experience that people who say that usually are in fact mean, and that honesty is just sugar coating for crappy behavior.It is easy to be honest and still treat the people around you respectfully. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Irony 09/20/23 5:00:26 PM #4:	I am not cool I am stoked --- See profile pic <cite>Irony posted [p:976199267] in Her on 3rd... [t:80572221]...</cite> <quote>I am not cool I am stoked </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Kradek 09/20/23 5:03:02 PM #7:	Expect to have your self-worth constantly dressed down and berated with pointed criticism you're just expected to take and if you protest being talked to so poorly getting accused of being "overly sensitive". And no, it's not just because it's about a "her", pretty much anybody who says "I'm not mean, just honest" is inevitably a terrible person once they feel like they've been given permission to be (in this case letting you know they're not mean, just honest, and if you stick around then that's their permission). You've gotta decide if her chipping away at your self-esteem/worth is worth the sex. --- My metal band, Ivory King, has 2 songs out now - allmylinks.com/ivorykingtx (all of our links there so you can choose which one you'd prefer to use) <cite>Kradek posted [p:976199322] in Her on 3rd... [t:80572221]...</cite> <quote>Expect to have your self-worth constantly dressed down and berated with pointed criticism you're just expected to take and if you protest being talked to so poorly getting accused of being "overly sensitive".And no, it's not just because it's about a "her", pretty much anybody who says "I'm not mean, just honest" is inevitably a terrible person once they feel like they've been given permission to be (in this case letting you know they're not mean, just honest, and if you stick around then that's their permission). You've gotta decide if her chipping away at your self-esteem/worth is worth the sex. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Goldenguy 09/20/23 5:30:11 PM #8:	"I'm not mean, I'm honest" Usually code for "I'm an asshole" --- Quick to judge, quick to anger, slow to understand. Ignorance, prejudice, and fear walk hand in hand. <cite>Goldenguy posted [p:976199862] in Her on 3rd... [t:80572221]...</cite> <quote>"I'm not mean, I'm honest"Usually code for "I'm an asshole" </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BloodMoon7 09/20/23 5:34:22 PM #9:	Same. We then have a competition to see who cries first. Sorry m'lady but I will not lose. That's why I'm still a virgin, because I never lose. --- My maid will hear about this. <cite>BloodMoon7 posted [p:976199952] in Her on 3rd... [t:80572221]...</cite> <quote>Same. We then have a competition to see who cries first.Sorry m'lady but I will not lose. That's why I'm still a virgin, because I never lose. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EmilyTheCEman 09/20/23 5:35:58 PM #10:	Honestly, I dont give a shit because I just want to bang you. --- You, take a bump. Flatback. <cite>EmilyTheCEman posted [p:976199988] in Her on 3rd... [t:80572221]...</cite> <quote>Honestly, I dont give a shit because I just want to bang you. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sonic_Cannon 09/20/23 5:36:02 PM #11:	Westernwolf4 posted... It is my experience that people who say that usually are in fact mean, and that honesty is just sugar coating for crappy behavior. It is easy to be honest and still treat the people around you respectfully. 100% this. Honesty is good, but it should not be used as an excuse for being an asshole. --- Keep it green. <cite>Sonic_Cannon posted [p:976199991] in Her on 3rd... [t:80572221]...</cite> <quote>Westernwolf4 posted... </cite><quote>It is my experience that people who say that usually are in fact mean, and that honesty is just sugar coating for crappy behavior.It is easy to be honest and still treat the people around you respectfully.</quote>100% this.Honesty is good, but it should not be used as an excuse for being an asshole. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
garan 09/20/23 5:44:12 PM #12:	EmilyTheCEman posted... Honestly, I dont give a shit because I just want to bang you. Lol. I'd probably just be confused about why I was on a date in the first place. <cite>garan posted [p:976200142] in Her on 3rd... [t:80572221]...</cite> <quote>EmilyTheCEman posted...</cite><quote>Honestly, I dont give a shit because I just want to bang you.</quote>Lol.I'd probably just be confused about why I was on a date in the first place.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ai123 09/20/23 5:51:12 PM #13:	'I'm just honest' 'I don't sugar coat it' 'I tell it like it is' 'Politeness is overrated' Translation: 'I am rude and too self-centered to consider other people's feelings. I kid myself that people respect me for being blunt and straight talking, but really they just think I'm a dick'. --- You'll see motivational pictures about working hundred hour weeks/Well, it only applies to those who are operating at a really basic level <cite>ai123 posted [p:976200283] in Her on 3rd... [t:80572221]...</cite> <quote>'I'm just honest''I don't sugar coat it''I tell it like it is''Politeness is overrated'Translation: 'I am rude and too self-centered to consider other people's feelings. I kid myself that people respect me for being blunt and straight talking, but really they just think I'm a dick'. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
samsungsalt 09/20/23 5:51:15 PM #14:	Me too --- my old computer died and i didn't feel like resetting the password to my original account, so i created this one instead. now i only use it when i use my iphone <cite>samsungsalt posted [p:976200284] in Her on 3rd... [t:80572221]...</cite> <quote>Me too </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EthanSilver 09/20/23 5:51:44 PM #15:	Westernwolf4 posted... It is my experience that people who say that usually are in fact mean, and that honesty is just sugar coating for crappy behavior. It is easy to be honest and still treat the people around you respectfully. +1 With peeps in real life I mean. I find it to be the case... "Not to be rude..." continues on to be rude. <cite>EthanSilver posted [p:976200298] in Her on 3rd... [t:80572221]...</cite> <quote>Westernwolf4 posted... </cite><quote>It is my experience that people who say that usually are in fact mean, and that honesty is just sugar coating for crappy behavior.It is easy to be honest and still treat the people around you respectfully.</quote>+1With peeps in real life I mean. I find it to be the case... "Not to be rude..." continues on to be rude. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DrizztLink 09/20/23 5:56:42 PM #16:	"I like your way with words. What do you expect me to say if I wanted to make a good impression? Something along the lines of 'Im not mean, I'm just being honest with myself and everyone else?' That's what people use as an excuse when they want to keep up their saccharine facade while still saying whatever nasty little thoughts soring to mind." --- He/Him http://guidesmedia.ign.com/guides/9846/images/slowpoke.gif https://i.imgur.com/M8h2ATe.png https://i.imgur.com/6ezFwG1.png <cite>DrizztLink posted [p:976200392] in Her on 3rd... [t:80572221]...</cite> <quote>"I like your way with words. What do you expect me to say if I wanted to make a good impression? Something along the lines of 'Im not mean, I'm just being honest with myself and everyone else?' That's what people use as an excuse when they want to keep up their saccharine facade while still saying whatever nasty little thoughts soring to mind." </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Current Events > Her on 3rd date: "I'm not mean, I'm just honest."