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Coolppl Owns
05/26/17 9:49:06 AM
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Still flying on this honeymoon phase high. New relationships are fun
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emblem boy
05/26/17 9:49:54 AM
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Have you pooped in front of each other yet
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Coolppl Owns
05/26/17 10:00:01 AM
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emblem boy posted...
Have you pooped in front of each other yet


not yet but i farted in my sleep, she got a good waft of it, and was surprisingly still interested in fooling around afterwards lol
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DoctorPiranha3
05/26/17 10:04:08 AM
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MegaButterfree posted...
Has anyone here met an older woman (like 15-20+ years older than you) on an online dating site/app? I'm interested in dating someone older than me but I don't really know where to find women who'd be interested (I'm 21).

I've wondered the same. Most apps and websites encourage similar age matches. I don't know any good cougar finders, lol.
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gna647
05/26/17 11:42:39 AM
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Coolppl Owns posted...
Still flying on this honeymoon phase high. New relationships are fun


I wish this was me and Halloween girl
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DoctorPiranha3
05/26/17 12:32:38 PM
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MegaButterfree posted...
DoctorPiranha3 posted...
MegaButterfree posted...
Has anyone here met an older woman (like 15-20+ years older than you) on an online dating site/app? I'm interested in dating someone older than me but I don't really know where to find women who'd be interested (I'm 21).

I've wondered the same. Most apps and websites encourage similar age matches. I don't know any good cougar finders, lol.


Well I do know that OkCupid has it so you can set the age ranges you match with or whatever. Assuming I end up making a profile I'll probably set it for like 35-45 & see what happens.

I believe they've recently added a thing where you won't even shown profiles of women who don't have you in their age range. Which means, a lot of guys in their early-mid 20s are cut off, even though these women would be open to it, but are ashamed to put it so low, or their age cut off is just nebulous.

That dwindles the options by quite a large amount.
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DoctorPiranha3
05/26/17 1:05:04 PM
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MegaButterfree posted...
Wow, that's pretty lame. <_<

I'm not ready to date anyone right now anyway since I'm going through a bad break-up. I'm really shy & introverted so these kinds of sites I think would be great for me to meet someone. Age doesn't really matter but I kind of like the idea of dating a hot older lady haha.

I dated a hot older lady for a while. After we split, I did see her profile on OKC (before they changed where you can't see people who don't have you in their age range), and her age cut-off was like, 4 years older than I am. I know for a fact she's open to younger, but that just goes to show you those cut-offs are dumb.
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EnragedSlith
05/26/17 9:00:06 PM
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I'm seeing my ex tomorrow. I'm genuinely surprised that she's so cool about it. I don't expect much and I think she'd just like to broach if we can be friends, and I'm interested to see how I'll react to seeing her. I'll take any and all ridicule.
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DarthAragorn
05/26/17 9:21:28 PM
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Sent my first message to a girl last night

No response yet smh
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gna647
05/27/17 8:15:07 AM
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Got back with Cuban polish girl

Took her out for boba and Dave n busters
Made out for a bit in my room



Got a second date with blonde girl today though.


18 year old started implying I take her out, idk if I want to
Her dad knows me real well

Halloween girl is still texting me about movies.
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EnragedSlith
05/27/17 5:31:56 PM
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JustMyOpinion posted...
EnragedSlith posted...
I'm seeing my ex tomorrow. I'm genuinely surprised that she's so cool about it. I don't expect much and I think she'd just like to broach if we can be friends, and I'm interested to see how I'll react to seeing her. I'll take any and all ridicule.



I'll take you up on that offer once I see how things shake out.

Actually went well. Very chill, just talked for two hours. Seems like we might start hanging out here and there again, so that'll just be a look and see how it goes.
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gna647
05/27/17 6:12:24 PM
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halloween girl texted me first and sent me a meme today


okay.

about the whole stringing along thing. I mean she knows I like her a lot....at this point idk her intentions at all.
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drunkmuggle
05/27/17 8:54:13 PM
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Dammit gna stop responding to her, she just fishes
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gna647
05/28/17 9:37:48 AM
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So what if out of nowhere she just asks me to go out with her somewhere?
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EnragedSlith
05/28/17 9:52:50 AM
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gna647 posted...
So what if out of nowhere she just asks me to go out with her somewhere?

People are just giving you solid advice from experience. But the truth is that there are no right or wrong answers, and you have to open yourself to mistakes to learn feom them. So if she asks you out, you know exactly what you'll do and why, so just go for it and lean on your friends if it bites you again
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EnragedSlith
05/28/17 9:57:29 PM
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So to provide my clarity on meeting up with my ex. Girl is lonely. Hasn't met anyone since we broke up. Still has the same friends in the area. Hasn't dated. I'm apparently the first guy she's ever actually traditionally dated in the sense of meeting a stranger. Every relationship she's had (and she's had a sizeable number) was long distance or a situation where she got to know them through friends before ever actually going out on a date. So she's in this position where she's actually scared to go out and meet guys because she has no idea what she's doing.

And it honestly explains a lot about her being 25/26 but treating our relationship like something out of high school. It explains her not knowing how to pace herself.

And it's disappointing, frankly, because it's means less that she actually came out and met with me. It would be one thing if she had gone on a couple dates and realized that I'm not so easily replaced, but it's like if we start hanging out again and things actually go somewhere, it'd be for the wrong reasons. It doesn't matter if it could work otherwise if she'll continue harboring doubt.

On the one hand, it's adorable that she's so inexperienced, but on the other, I'm a little annoyed.

Edit: And this girl is fun, bubbly, and gorgeous, by the way, so it's not like there wouldn't be suitors.
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emblem boy
05/28/17 11:14:35 PM
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How long have guy guys been broken up?
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gna647
05/28/17 11:46:30 PM
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gna647
05/29/17 9:03:08 PM
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gna647
05/30/17 1:37:31 AM
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Got drinks
Talked for two hours

Both of us incapable of driving

Ended up walking around the neighborhood for about 2 more hours.

Idk her game, she didn't seem to flirt at all or anything. Oh well
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gna647
05/30/17 8:29:56 AM
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Yeah, she gave obvious hints that she just wants to be friends


Like talking about girls she can hook me up with >___>
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emblem boy
05/30/17 8:31:42 AM
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gna647 posted...
Yeah, she gave obvious hints that she just wants to be friends


Like talking about girls she can hook me up with >___>


Better go for it bro
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Monolith1676
05/30/17 8:43:57 AM
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Online dating sucks now.
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krazychao5
05/30/17 9:35:47 AM
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Monolith1676 posted...
Online dating sucks now.

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Monolith1676
05/30/17 9:43:28 AM
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What does "Enable Discovery" mean on Tinder?
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emblem boy
05/30/17 9:45:10 AM
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Monolith1676 posted...
What does "Enable Discovery" mean on Tinder?


Think that has to do with if you want tinder to set your location as somewhere else, like a different city.
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Monolith1676
05/30/17 9:49:28 AM
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emblem boy posted...
Monolith1676 posted...
What does "Enable Discovery" mean on Tinder?


Think that has to do with if you want tinder to set your location as somewhere else, like a different city.


Ah okay. Thanks.
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emblem boy
05/30/17 9:51:07 AM
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At least, that's what it says for me when I see Discovery Settings. I don't see an actual option called enable discovery on the Android version.
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Monolith1676
05/30/17 10:14:31 AM
#392:


How do I see who liked me on this thing.
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Monolith1676
05/30/17 11:52:35 AM
#393:


Bump
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emblem boy
05/30/17 12:07:23 PM
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Tinder isn't complicated to use bro. You'll see it in the matches section. Far right window if using Android
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Monolith1676
05/30/17 12:33:20 PM
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I got a message that someone liked me, but i checked and nothing was there. Do you have to like the same person for it to show up there?
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emblem boy
05/30/17 1:36:41 PM
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Monolith1676 posted...
I got a message that someone liked me, but i checked and nothing was there. Do you have to like the same person for it to show up there?


On tinder right?

It won't tell you there's a match unless you've both already liked each other.

If it said there was a match but it's now gone, she might have unmatched you
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Monolith1676
05/30/17 1:39:09 PM
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emblem boy posted...
Monolith1676 posted...
I got a message that someone liked me, but i checked and nothing was there. Do you have to like the same person for it to show up there?


On tinder right?

It won't tell you there's a match unless you've both already liked each other.

If it said there was a match but it's now gone, she might have unmatched you


Nah, it just said in a notification on the top of my screen that someone liked me. Nothing about a match.
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Monolith1676
05/30/17 3:49:54 PM
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Fuck, no luck anywhere yet.
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DarthAragorn
05/30/17 4:35:19 PM
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I'm stressing way too hard over sending a single damn message

Help
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DarthAragorn
05/30/17 4:49:42 PM
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JustMyOpinion posted...
DarthAragorn posted...
I'm stressing way too hard over sending a single damn message

Help



Follow your heart.

That doesn't help at all.
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emblem boy
05/30/17 5:04:36 PM
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What's the message?
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DarthAragorn
05/30/17 5:06:04 PM
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I don't know yet that's the problem
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Monolith1676
05/30/17 5:19:57 PM
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DarthAragorn posted...
I'm stressing way too hard over sending a single damn message

Help


You can do it. I've sent two with no responses.
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