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DontHateMe 04/12/17 1:15:56 AM #1:	It's a job at a restaurant. My friend works there and is getting me in. He's single and likes flirting so my girlfriend doesn't want me working there because she'll think I'll get involved. What should I do? I'm just trying to save a lot of money to eventually invest. Why are girls like this? There's no bigger picture. --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877029534] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>It's a job at a restaurant. My friend works there and is getting me in. He's single and likes flirting so my girlfriend doesn't want me working there because she'll think I'll get involved. What should I do? I'm just trying to save a lot of money to eventually invest. Why are girls like this? There's no bigger picture.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AlabamaLove 04/12/17 1:17:26 AM #2:	If the roles were reversed it'd be opression ~~it's oppression~~. --- http://i.imgur.com/nAjIv.gif http://i.imgur.com/Gqlg3.gif <cite>AlabamaLove posted [p:877029602] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>If the roles were reversed it'd be opression it's oppression.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DoomtheGrav 04/12/17 1:17:26 AM #3:	It's not like you're in demand after all --- set the controls for the heart of the sun http://www.kingdomofloathing.com <cite>DoomtheGrav posted [p:877029603] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>It's not like you're in demand after all</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DontHateMe 04/12/17 1:20:04 AM #4:	I'm going to do it anyway because my current job is very part time. She said if I do it, she's not gonna be alright about it. I'm looking for opinions or advice because IMO she's crazy, I have no motive. --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877029706] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>I'm going to do it anyway because my current job is very part time. She said if I do it, she's not gonna be alright about it. I'm looking for opinions or advice because IMO she's crazy, I have no motive.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheDarkCircle 04/12/17 1:20:49 AM #5:	what kind of food do they serve? <cite>TheDarkCircle posted [p:877029730] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>what kind of food do they serve?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ulyanyx 04/12/17 1:20:57 AM #6:	leave her tbh if someone wants to hold you back because of a petty issue that they'd be jealous that you flirt, they arent worth your time. --- Twitch.tv/ulyanyxus - No commentary gameplay of vidya current: Hollow Knight next: Nier Automata <cite>Ulyanyx posted [p:877029736] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>leave her tbh if someone wants to hold you back because of a petty issue that they'd be jealous that you flirt, they arent worth your time.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
solid_snake666 04/12/17 1:20:59 AM #7:	LOL good luck getting a job without women on it. Maybe work in a mine? sewers? idk. But really, you should dump her, what else does she have you do? leave the toilet seat down? give her the password of all your accounts? --- HE WHO CONTROLS THE BATTLEFIELD, CONTROLS HISTORY. <cite>solid_snake666 posted [p:877029737] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>LOL good luck getting a job without women on it. Maybe work in a mine? sewers? idk. But really, you should dump her, what else does she have you do? leave the toilet seat down? give her the password of all your accounts?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lightsasori 04/12/17 1:22:16 AM #8:	Dump her, never go for the super jealous types. --- "Yare yare daze" ~ Jotaro Kujo "Children are pure, they know who's the strongest." ~ MaskDeSmith <cite>Lightsasori posted [p:877029780] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>Dump her, never go for the super jealous types.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DontHateMe 04/12/17 1:24:29 AM #9:	Ulyanyx posted... leave her tbh if someone wants to hold you back because of a petty issue that they'd be jealous that you flirt, they arent worth your time. I've been with her for too long for it to be over so quick. Ugh, I almost regret getting into a relationship. I see so many woman randomly throughout the day and it gets me thinking why am I doing this? Why am I stuck to one when I could be single and just date several? --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877029869] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>Ulyanyx posted...</cite> <quote>leave her tbh if someone wants to hold you back because of a petty issue that they'd be jealous that you flirt, they arent worth your time.</quote> I've been with her for too long for it to be over so quick. Ugh, I almost regret getting into a relationship. I see so many woman randomly throughout the day and it gets me thinking why am I doing this? Why am I stuck to one when I could be single and just date several?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DontHateMe 04/12/17 1:25:36 AM #10:	TheDarkCircle posted... what kind of food do they serve? Idk, it's some American Bistro spot. --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877029906] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheDarkCircle posted...</cite> <quote>what kind of food do they serve?</quote> Idk, it's some American Bistro spot.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DontHateMe 04/12/17 1:29:26 AM #11:	solid_snake666 posted... LOL good luck getting a job without women on it. Maybe work in a mine? sewers? idk. But really, you should dump her, what else does she have you do? leave the toilet seat down? give her the password of all your accounts? None of those things, but she feels uncomfortable during sex scenes or nude scenes (nude woman) a lot. She completely turned off a movie we were watching during a nude scene. After that incident, I told her to stop behaving that way, it's immature, we're both adults and so on. Since, it hasn't been bad, just the obvious uncomfort it gives her during those particular things in movies. --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877030042] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>solid_snake666 posted...</cite> <quote>LOL good luck getting a job without women on it. Maybe work in a mine? sewers? idk. But really, you should dump her, what else does she have you do? leave the toilet seat down? give her the password of all your accounts?</quote> None of those things, but she feels uncomfortable during sex scenes or nude scenes (nude woman) a lot. She completely turned off a movie we were watching during a nude scene. After that incident, I told her to stop behaving that way, it's immature, we're both adults and so on. Since, it hasn't been bad, just the obvious uncomfort it gives her during those particular things in movies.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheDarkCircle 04/12/17 1:30:00 AM #12:	DontHateMe posted... TheDarkCircle posted... what kind of food do they serve? Idk, it's some American Bistro spot. Let's see the menu <cite>TheDarkCircle posted [p:877030063] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>DontHateMe posted...</cite> <quote><cite>TheDarkCircle posted...</cite> <quote>what kind of food do they serve?</quote> Idk, it's some American Bistro spot.</quote> Let's see the menu</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blastia 04/12/17 1:38:28 AM #13:	she's a prude on top of being jealous? geez. well, assuming you do care about her, i wouldn't say just outright dump her. have you sat down and explained to her (just like how you told her she's being immature about the nude stuff) that she's being irrationally jealous and that it's simply just a job? --- http://i.imgur.com/abZeWiX.gifv http://i.imgur.com/g6lD6hJ.jpg <cite>Blastia posted [p:877030402] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>she's a prude on top of being jealous? geez. well, assuming you do care about her, i wouldn't say just outright dump her. have you sat down and explained to her (just like how you told her she's being immature about the nude stuff) that she's being irrationally jealous and that it's simply just a job?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Verdekal 04/12/17 1:41:58 AM #14:	It means she doesn't have faith in you and I don't know whose fault that is. --- Don't tease the octopus, kids! <cite>Verdekal posted [p:877030531] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>It means she doesn't have faith in you and I don't know whose fault that is.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DontHateMe 04/12/17 1:42:38 AM #15:	TheDarkCircle posted... DontHateMe posted... TheDarkCircle posted... what kind of food do they serve? Idk, it's some American Bistro spot. Let's see the menu What does it matter? --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877030556] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheDarkCircle posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DontHateMe posted...</cite> <quote><cite>TheDarkCircle posted...</cite> <quote>what kind of food do they serve?</quote> Idk, it's some American Bistro spot.</quote> Let's see the menu</quote> What does it matter?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
solid_snake666 04/12/17 1:45:42 AM #16:	DontHateMe posted... solid_snake666 posted... LOL good luck getting a job without women on it. Maybe work in a mine? sewers? idk. But really, you should dump her, what else does she have you do? leave the toilet seat down? give her the password of all your accounts? None of those things, but she feels uncomfortable during sex scenes or nude scenes (nude woman) a lot. She completely turned off a movie we were watching during a nude scene. After that incident, I told her to stop behaving that way, it's immature, we're both adults and so on. Since, it hasn't been bad, just the obvious uncomfort it gives her during those particular things in movies. Well, the first step is admittedly talking with her and let her know when you're uncorfortable with some things she's doing, but some women react badly to this. If she doesn't have obsessive jealousy (where she'd do stuff like checking your emails and messages, going through your things and generally trying to control what you do) she could be projecting and she's the one cheating on you. Or she could have some childhood trauma, idk. --- HE WHO CONTROLS THE BATTLEFIELD, CONTROLS HISTORY. <cite>solid_snake666 posted [p:877030677] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>DontHateMe posted...</cite> <quote><cite>solid_snake666 posted...</cite> <quote>LOL good luck getting a job without women on it. Maybe work in a mine? sewers? idk. But really, you should dump her, what else does she have you do? leave the toilet seat down? give her the password of all your accounts?</quote> None of those things, but she feels uncomfortable during sex scenes or nude scenes (nude woman) a lot. She completely turned off a movie we were watching during a nude scene. After that incident, I told her to stop behaving that way, it's immature, we're both adults and so on. Since, it hasn't been bad, just the obvious uncomfort it gives her during those particular things in movies.</quote> Well, the first step is admittedly talking with her and let her know when you're uncorfortable with some things she's doing, but some women react badly to this. If she doesn't have obsessive jealousy (where she'd do stuff like checking your emails and messages, going through your things and generally trying to control what you do) she could be projecting and she's the one cheating on you. Or she could have some childhood trauma, idk.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HesOurYou 04/12/17 1:46:52 AM #17:	Next thing she'll say is you can't go outside. --- #SomeLikeItHoth <cite>HesOurYou posted [p:877030720] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>Next thing she'll say is you can't go outside.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DontHateMe 04/12/17 1:47:38 AM #18:	Blastia posted... she's a prude on top of being jealous? geez. well, assuming you do care about her, i wouldn't say just outright dump her. have you sat down and explained to her (just like how you told her she's being immature about the nude stuff) that she's being irrationally jealous and that it's simply just a job? I told her that and she prefers her working, paying rent, bills while I barely do anything. I joked around and said are you gonna give me allowance and she's down for the idea. Weve been together 7* years, I put an asterisk because there were some "break ups". --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877030750] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>Blastia posted...</cite> <quote>she's a prude on top of being jealous? geez. well, assuming you do care about her, i wouldn't say just outright dump her. have you sat down and explained to her (just like how you told her she's being immature about the nude stuff) that she's being irrationally jealous and that it's simply just a job?</quote> I told her that and she prefers her working, paying rent, bills while I barely do anything. I joked around and said are you gonna give me allowance and she's down for the idea. Weve been together 7* years, I put an asterisk because there were some "break ups".</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MakoReizei 04/12/17 1:48:21 AM #19:	tell her to stfu. she doesn't wear the pants, you do. --- http://i.imgur.com/vvAoIk0.gif <cite>MakoReizei posted [p:877030784] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>tell her to stfu. she doesn't wear the pants, you do.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sativa_Rose 04/12/17 1:49:03 AM #20:	DontHateMe posted... solid_snake666 posted... LOL good luck getting a job without women on it. Maybe work in a mine? sewers? idk. But really, you should dump her, what else does she have you do? leave the toilet seat down? give her the password of all your accounts? None of those things, but she feels uncomfortable during sex scenes or nude scenes (nude woman) a lot. She completely turned off a movie we were watching during a nude scene. After that incident, I told her to stop behaving that way, it's immature, we're both adults and so on. Since, it hasn't been bad, just the obvious uncomfort it gives her during those particular things in movies. Wow, and to think I expect to be able to watch porn with my girlfriends --- I may not go down in history, but I will go down on your sister. <cite>Sativa_Rose posted [p:877030802] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>DontHateMe posted...</cite> <quote><cite>solid_snake666 posted...</cite> <quote>LOL good luck getting a job without women on it. Maybe work in a mine? sewers? idk. But really, you should dump her, what else does she have you do? leave the toilet seat down? give her the password of all your accounts?</quote> None of those things, but she feels uncomfortable during sex scenes or nude scenes (nude woman) a lot. She completely turned off a movie we were watching during a nude scene. After that incident, I told her to stop behaving that way, it's immature, we're both adults and so on. Since, it hasn't been bad, just the obvious uncomfort it gives her during those particular things in movies.</quote> Wow, and to think I expect to be able to watch porn with my girlfriends</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blastia 04/12/17 1:50:30 AM #21:	you've dealt with this for 7 years? or is this behavior recent? either way, assuming you really want this job and want to start being independent , then you're obviously gonna have to be assertive with her. If you haven't been already otherwise....i guess just put up with it? or have another break >_> --- http://i.imgur.com/abZeWiX.gifv http://i.imgur.com/g6lD6hJ.jpg <cite>Blastia posted [p:877030860] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>you've dealt with this for 7 years? or is this behavior recent? either way, assuming you really want this job and want to start being independent , then you're obviously gonna have to be assertive with her. If you haven't been already otherwise....i guess just put up with it? or have another break >_></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DontHateMe 04/12/17 1:51:03 AM #22:	Verdekal posted... It means she doesn't have faith in you and I don't know whose fault that is. The only thing I can think of is me dancing with another girl, nothing sexual. This happened about 6 years ago though. She's done worse and I can continue on, but overall, I'm just trying to make money. --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877030880] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>Verdekal posted...</cite> <quote>It means she doesn't have faith in you and I don't know whose fault that is.</quote> The only thing I can think of is me dancing with another girl, nothing sexual. This happened about 6 years ago though. She's done worse and I can continue on, but overall, I'm just trying to make money.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blastia 04/12/17 1:53:09 AM #23:	when you mean worse, do you mean like actual cheating or just active flirting? --- http://i.imgur.com/abZeWiX.gifv http://i.imgur.com/g6lD6hJ.jpg <cite>Blastia posted [p:877030958] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>when you mean worse, do you mean like actual cheating or just active flirting?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DontHateMe 04/12/17 1:56:47 AM #24:	solid_snake666 posted... DontHateMe posted... solid_snake666 posted... LOL good luck getting a job without women on it. Maybe work in a mine? sewers? idk. But really, you should dump her, what else does she have you do? leave the toilet seat down? give her the password of all your accounts? None of those things, but she feels uncomfortable during sex scenes or nude scenes (nude woman) a lot. She completely turned off a movie we were watching during a nude scene. After that incident, I told her to stop behaving that way, it's immature, we're both adults and so on. Since, it hasn't been bad, just the obvious uncomfort it gives her during those particular things in movies. Well, the first step is admittedly talking with her and let her know when you're uncorfortable with some things she's doing, but some women react badly to this. If she doesn't have obsessive jealousy (where she'd do stuff like checking your emails and messages, going through your things and generally trying to control what you do) she could be projecting and she's the one cheating on you. Or she could have some childhood trauma, idk. That's the thing though. I'm such a laid back guy. I don't put restrictions on her, I don't care if she watched gay porn or whatever. She's not obsessive like that at all, just mostly when it comes to females. I have no female friend because of this and at this age, I'm fine with that. --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877031084] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>solid_snake666 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DontHateMe posted...</cite> <quote><cite>solid_snake666 posted...</cite> <quote>LOL good luck getting a job without women on it. Maybe work in a mine? sewers? idk. But really, you should dump her, what else does she have you do? leave the toilet seat down? give her the password of all your accounts?</quote> None of those things, but she feels uncomfortable during sex scenes or nude scenes (nude woman) a lot. She completely turned off a movie we were watching during a nude scene. After that incident, I told her to stop behaving that way, it's immature, we're both adults and so on. Since, it hasn't been bad, just the obvious uncomfort it gives her during those particular things in movies.</quote> Well, the first step is admittedly talking with her and let her know when you're uncorfortable with some things she's doing, but some women react badly to this. If she doesn't have obsessive jealousy (where she'd do stuff like checking your emails and messages, going through your things and generally trying to control what you do) she could be projecting and she's the one cheating on you. Or she could have some childhood trauma, idk.</quote> That's the thing though. I'm such a laid back guy. I don't put restrictions on her, I don't care if she watched gay porn or whatever. She's not obsessive like that at all, just mostly when it comes to females. I have no female friend because of this and at this age, I'm fine with that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DontHateMe 04/12/17 1:58:23 AM #25:	HesOurYou posted... Next thing she'll say is you can't go outside. I actually laughed at this. It's so ridiculous, but we never know. --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877031148] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>HesOurYou posted...</cite> <quote>Next thing she'll say is you can't go outside.</quote> I actually laughed at this. It's so ridiculous, but we never know.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
solid_snake666 04/12/17 2:00:11 AM #26:	DontHateMe posted... solid_snake666 posted... DontHateMe posted... solid_snake666 posted... LOL good luck getting a job without women on it. Maybe work in a mine? sewers? idk. But really, you should dump her, what else does she have you do? leave the toilet seat down? give her the password of all your accounts? None of those things, but she feels uncomfortable during sex scenes or nude scenes (nude woman) a lot. She completely turned off a movie we were watching during a nude scene. After that incident, I told her to stop behaving that way, it's immature, we're both adults and so on. Since, it hasn't been bad, just the obvious uncomfort it gives her during those particular things in movies. Well, the first step is admittedly talking with her and let her know when you're uncorfortable with some things she's doing, but some women react badly to this. If she doesn't have obsessive jealousy (where she'd do stuff like checking your emails and messages, going through your things and generally trying to control what you do) she could be projecting and she's the one cheating on you. Or she could have some childhood trauma, idk. That's the thing though. I'm such a laid back guy. I don't put restrictions on her, I don't care if she watched gay porn or whatever. She's not obsessive like that at all, just mostly when it comes to females. I have no female friend because of this and at this age, I'm fine with that. Being laid back all the time is NOT good. People will take advantage of you. You need to stand your ground every now and then. --- HE WHO CONTROLS THE BATTLEFIELD, CONTROLS HISTORY. <cite>solid_snake666 posted [p:877031231] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>DontHateMe posted...</cite> <quote><cite>solid_snake666 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DontHateMe posted...</cite> <quote><cite>solid_snake666 posted...</cite> <quote>LOL good luck getting a job without women on it. Maybe work in a mine? sewers? idk. But really, you should dump her, what else does she have you do? leave the toilet seat down? give her the password of all your accounts?</quote> None of those things, but she feels uncomfortable during sex scenes or nude scenes (nude woman) a lot. She completely turned off a movie we were watching during a nude scene. After that incident, I told her to stop behaving that way, it's immature, we're both adults and so on. Since, it hasn't been bad, just the obvious uncomfort it gives her during those particular things in movies.</quote> Well, the first step is admittedly talking with her and let her know when you're uncorfortable with some things she's doing, but some women react badly to this. If she doesn't have obsessive jealousy (where she'd do stuff like checking your emails and messages, going through your things and generally trying to control what you do) she could be projecting and she's the one cheating on you. Or she could have some childhood trauma, idk.</quote> That's the thing though. I'm such a laid back guy. I don't put restrictions on her, I don't care if she watched gay porn or whatever. She's not obsessive like that at all, just mostly when it comes to females. I have no female friend because of this and at this age, I'm fine with that.</quote> Being laid back all the time is NOT good. People will take advantage of you. You need to stand your ground every now and then.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Haldol 04/12/17 2:03:41 AM #27:	DoomtheGrav posted... It's not like you're in demand after all <cite>Haldol posted [p:877031384] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>DoomtheGrav posted...</cite> <quote>It's not like you're in demand after all</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DontHateMe 04/12/17 2:05:45 AM #28:	Blastia posted... you've dealt with this for 7 years? or is this behavior recent? either way, assuming you really want this job and want to start being independent , then you're obviously gonna have to be assertive with her. If you haven't been already otherwise....i guess just put up with it? or have another break >_> I haven't been dealing with it consistently for 7 years. Majority of the times it's when females are involved. I remember one time I told her about some girl approaching me at attempting to bite at my neck, but I avoided it. She blamed me for letting her get that close, wtf?? I do want this job. I told her it's either I work and you deal with it or I work and move back to my parents. That's a bluff though, I really don't wanna move back with my parents. --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877031470] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>Blastia posted...</cite> <quote>you've dealt with this for 7 years? or is this behavior recent? either way, assuming you really want this job and want to start being independent , then you're obviously gonna have to be assertive with her. If you haven't been already otherwise....i guess just put up with it? or have another break >_></quote> I haven't been dealing with it consistently for 7 years. Majority of the times it's when females are involved. I remember one time I told her about some girl approaching me at attempting to bite at my neck, but I avoided it. She blamed me for letting her get that close, wtf?? I do want this job. I told her it's either I work and you deal with it or I work and move back to my parents. That's a bluff though, I really don't wanna move back with my parents.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DontHateMe 04/12/17 2:12:13 AM #29:	Blastia posted... when you mean worse, do you mean like actual cheating or just active flirting? She got with someone during our break. We thought it was over for good. We cut off all communication and I promised myself I'll never text or want to know of her again. I think 5-6 months later she texts me and somehow we got back. I'm fair to say I personally don't think it was cheating at all though. She has flirted once, but I called her out on it, it stopped. --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877031716] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>Blastia posted...</cite> <quote>when you mean worse, do you mean like actual cheating or just active flirting?</quote> She got with someone during our break. We thought it was over for good. We cut off all communication and I promised myself I'll never text or want to know of her again. I think 5-6 months later she texts me and somehow we got back. I'm fair to say I personally don't think it was cheating at all though. She has flirted once, but I called her out on it, it stopped.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DontHateMe 04/12/17 2:15:23 AM #30:	solid_snake666 posted... DontHateMe posted... solid_snake666 posted... DontHateMe posted... solid_snake666 posted... LOL good luck getting a job without women on it. Maybe work in a mine? sewers? idk. But really, you should dump her, what else does she have you do? leave the toilet seat down? give her the password of all your accounts? None of those things, but she feels uncomfortable during sex scenes or nude scenes (nude woman) a lot. She completely turned off a movie we were watching during a nude scene. After that incident, I told her to stop behaving that way, it's immature, we're both adults and so on. Since, it hasn't been bad, just the obvious uncomfort it gives her during those particular things in movies. Well, the first step is admittedly talking with her and let her know when you're uncorfortable with some things she's doing, but some women react badly to this. If she doesn't have obsessive jealousy (where she'd do stuff like checking your emails and messages, going through your things and generally trying to control what you do) she could be projecting and she's the one cheating on you. Or she could have some childhood trauma, idk. That's the thing though. I'm such a laid back guy. I don't put restrictions on her, I don't care if she watched gay porn or whatever. She's not obsessive like that at all, just mostly when it comes to females. I have no female friend because of this and at this age, I'm fine with that. Being laid back all the time is NOT good. People will take advantage of you. You need to stand your ground every now and then. I can't help it. I just don't care. We've been good for a while, it's just the whole jealous/not allowing me to even look at a woman attitude. I question if I love her at times like these. --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877031831] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>solid_snake666 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DontHateMe posted...</cite> <quote><cite>solid_snake666 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DontHateMe posted...</cite> <quote><cite>solid_snake666 posted...</cite> <quote>LOL good luck getting a job without women on it. Maybe work in a mine? sewers? idk. But really, you should dump her, what else does she have you do? leave the toilet seat down? give her the password of all your accounts?</quote> None of those things, but she feels uncomfortable during sex scenes or nude scenes (nude woman) a lot. She completely turned off a movie we were watching during a nude scene. After that incident, I told her to stop behaving that way, it's immature, we're both adults and so on. Since, it hasn't been bad, just the obvious uncomfort it gives her during those particular things in movies.</quote> Well, the first step is admittedly talking with her and let her know when you're uncorfortable with some things she's doing, but some women react badly to this. If she doesn't have obsessive jealousy (where she'd do stuff like checking your emails and messages, going through your things and generally trying to control what you do) she could be projecting and she's the one cheating on you. Or she could have some childhood trauma, idk.</quote> That's the thing though. I'm such a laid back guy. I don't put restrictions on her, I don't care if she watched gay porn or whatever. She's not obsessive like that at all, just mostly when it comes to females. I have no female friend because of this and at this age, I'm fine with that.</quote> Being laid back all the time is NOT good. People will take advantage of you. You need to stand your ground every now and then.</quote> I can't help it. I just don't care. We've been good for a while, it's just the whole jealous/not allowing me to even look at a woman attitude. I question if I love her at times like these.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Offworlder1 04/12/17 2:20:10 AM #31:	She has some serious jealousy issues, and if they have been an on going issue in the relationship you need work these out ASAP cause they are no little thing. Go to a relationship consoler cause she is only going to get worse, the job is a perfect example. --- "Always two there are, a master and an apprentice" <cite>Offworlder1 posted [p:877031977] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>She has some serious jealousy issues, and if they have been an on going issue in the relationship you need work these out ASAP cause they are no little thing. Go to a relationship consoler cause she is only going to get worse, the job is a perfect example.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Drasilor 04/12/17 2:22:53 AM #32:	Don't let a bitch tell you what to do. --- #mypresidentistrump <cite>Drasilor posted [p:877032071] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>Don't let a bitch tell you what to do.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DontHateMe 04/12/17 2:29:14 AM #33:	Offworlder1 posted... She has some serious jealousy issues, and if they have been an on going issue in the relationship you need work these out ASAP cause they are no little thing. Go to a relationship consoler cause she is only going to get worse, the job is a perfect example. It has been like blocking girls from Facebook or the situation occurring. It might be dumb of me to say, but I'm not letting some man/woman in on our relationship. She's the one with these problems, shouldn't she go to therapy? And if it even gets that far where she needs therapy to deal with her jealousy issues, I won't wanna deal with it. --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877032291] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>Offworlder1 posted...</cite> <quote>She has some serious jealousy issues, and if they have been an on going issue in the relationship you need work these out ASAP cause they are no little thing. Go to a relationship consoler cause she is only going to get worse, the job is a perfect example.</quote> It has been like blocking girls from Facebook or the situation occurring. It might be dumb of me to say, but I'm not letting some man/woman in on our relationship. She's the one with these problems, shouldn't she go to therapy? And if it even gets that far where she needs therapy to deal with her jealousy issues, I won't wanna deal with it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solid Snake07 04/12/17 2:29:44 AM #34:	you're gf is acting crazy. tell her to get the fuck over it --- "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time" -Detective Rust Cohle <cite>Solid Snake07 posted [p:877032315] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>you're gf is acting crazy. tell her to get the fuck over it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DontHateMe 04/12/17 2:37:04 AM #35:	Solid Snake07 posted... you're gf is acting crazy. tell her to get the fuck over it I could get the job and live with my parents, but I would really like to avoid that. --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877032558] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>Solid Snake07 posted...</cite> <quote>you're gf is acting crazy. tell her to get the fuck over it</quote> I could get the job and live with my parents, but I would really like to avoid that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solid Snake07 04/12/17 2:43:25 AM #36:	DontHateMe posted... Solid Snake07 posted... you're gf is acting crazy. tell her to get the fuck over it I could get the job and live with my parents, but I would really like to avoid that. Okay, well after reading this whole topic she sounds like a total weirdo and your relationship sounds dysfunctional as fuck. I suggest you run. Run and do not look back. --- "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time" -Detective Rust Cohle <cite>Solid Snake07 posted [p:877032757] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>DontHateMe posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Solid Snake07 posted...</cite> <quote>you're gf is acting crazy. tell her to get the fuck over it</quote> I could get the job and live with my parents, but I would really like to avoid that.</quote> Okay, well after reading this whole topic she sounds like a total weirdo and your relationship sounds dysfunctional as fuck. I suggest you run. Run and do not look back.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DontHateMe 04/12/17 2:48:16 AM #37:	Solid Snake07 posted... DontHateMe posted... Solid Snake07 posted... you're gf is acting crazy. tell her to get the fuck over it I could get the job and live with my parents, but I would really like to avoid that. Okay, well after reading this whole topic she sounds like a total weirdo and your relationship sounds dysfunctional as fuck. I suggest you run. Run and do not look back. She's the dysfunctional one. It sucks because I'm talking all this shit, but aside from the jealousy issues..it seems like she really appreciates/loves me. She buys me things, has held it down for us when I was unemployed for a while, randomly kisses and hugs me and such. It's just the jealous thing almost counteracts all of that. --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877032914] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>Solid Snake07 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DontHateMe posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Solid Snake07 posted...</cite> <quote>you're gf is acting crazy. tell her to get the fuck over it</quote> I could get the job and live with my parents, but I would really like to avoid that.</quote> Okay, well after reading this whole topic she sounds like a total weirdo and your relationship sounds dysfunctional as fuck. I suggest you run. Run and do not look back.</quote> She's the dysfunctional one. It sucks because I'm talking all this shit, but aside from the jealousy issues..it seems like she really appreciates/loves me. She buys me things, has held it down for us when I was unemployed for a while, randomly kisses and hugs me and such. It's just the jealous thing almost counteracts all of that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solid Snake07 04/12/17 2:54:12 AM #38:	DontHateMe posted... Solid Snake07 posted... DontHateMe posted... Solid Snake07 posted... you're gf is acting crazy. tell her to get the fuck over it I could get the job and live with my parents, but I would really like to avoid that. Okay, well after reading this whole topic she sounds like a total weirdo and your relationship sounds dysfunctional as fuck. I suggest you run. Run and do not look back. She's the dysfunctional one. It sucks because I'm talking all this shit, but aside from the jealousy issues..it seems like she really appreciates/loves me. She buys me things, has held it down for us when I was unemployed for a while, randomly kisses and hugs me and such. It's just the jealous thing almost counteracts all of that. Okay, this is just as big of an issue as the jealousy thing. In fact, I'm pretty sure they're both intertwined. Seems like she just wants to baby you and make you dependent on her and keep you away from other people. that shit isn't normal man --- "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time" -Detective Rust Cohle <cite>Solid Snake07 posted [p:877033088] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>DontHateMe posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Solid Snake07 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DontHateMe posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Solid Snake07 posted...</cite> <quote>you're gf is acting crazy. tell her to get the fuck over it</quote> I could get the job and live with my parents, but I would really like to avoid that.</quote> Okay, well after reading this whole topic she sounds like a total weirdo and your relationship sounds dysfunctional as fuck. I suggest you run. Run and do not look back.</quote> She's the dysfunctional one. It sucks because I'm talking all this shit, but aside from the jealousy issues..it seems like she really appreciates/loves me. She buys me things, has held it down for us when I was unemployed for a while, randomly kisses and hugs me and such. It's just the jealous thing almost counteracts all of that.</quote> Okay, this is just as big of an issue as the jealousy thing. In fact, I'm pretty sure they're both intertwined. Seems like she just wants to baby you and make you dependent on her and keep you away from other people. that shit isn't normal man</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Milkman5 04/12/17 2:58:10 AM #39:	Dump her imo <cite>Milkman5 posted [p:877033204] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>Dump her imo</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ColdOne666 04/12/17 3:02:33 AM #40:	DontHateMe posted... I told her that and she prefers her working, paying rent, bills while I barely do anything. I joked around and said are you gonna give me allowance and she's down for the idea. Weve been together 7* years, I put an asterisk because there were some "break ups". Your girlfriend wants you to live of her money while she does the work, where do i sign up? --- FFX is the best game of all time. The only good Nintendo franchises are Pokemon and Fire Emblem. Comics are for kids. https://i.imgur.com/LJ3WSyB.gif <cite>ColdOne666 posted [p:877033343] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>DontHateMe posted...</cite> <quote>I told her that and she prefers her working, paying rent, bills while I barely do anything. I joked around and said are you gonna give me allowance and she's down for the idea. Weve been together 7* years, I put an asterisk because there were some "break ups". </quote> Your girlfriend wants you to live of her money while she does the work, where do i sign up?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DontHateMe 04/12/17 3:05:59 AM #41:	Solid Snake07 posted... DontHateMe posted... Solid Snake07 posted... DontHateMe posted... Solid Snake07 posted... you're gf is acting crazy. tell her to get the fuck over it I could get the job and live with my parents, but I would really like to avoid that. Okay, well after reading this whole topic she sounds like a total weirdo and your relationship sounds dysfunctional as fuck. I suggest you run. Run and do not look back. She's the dysfunctional one. It sucks because I'm talking all this shit, but aside from the jealousy issues..it seems like she really appreciates/loves me. She buys me things, has held it down for us when I was unemployed for a while, randomly kisses and hugs me and such. It's just the jealous thing almost counteracts all of that. Okay, this is just as big of an issue as the jealousy thing. In fact, I'm pretty sure they're both intertwined. Seems like she just wants to baby you and make you dependent on her and keep you away from other people. that shit isn't normal man She would probably love that. She's also a cryer. Cries when I get a bit loud or prove my point in anything really. And me? Idk. I feel like I'm not an emotional guy. I can't handle the crying. I hug her and try making her feel better, but it doesn't seem genuine to me. It almost feels like a front, like this is the part where I'm supposed to show her I care, but I don't. It sucks, I wish I wasn't like this. --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877033459] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>Solid Snake07 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DontHateMe posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Solid Snake07 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DontHateMe posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Solid Snake07 posted...</cite> <quote>you're gf is acting crazy. tell her to get the fuck over it</quote> I could get the job and live with my parents, but I would really like to avoid that.</quote> Okay, well after reading this whole topic she sounds like a total weirdo and your relationship sounds dysfunctional as fuck. I suggest you run. Run and do not look back.</quote> She's the dysfunctional one. It sucks because I'm talking all this shit, but aside from the jealousy issues..it seems like she really appreciates/loves me. She buys me things, has held it down for us when I was unemployed for a while, randomly kisses and hugs me and such. It's just the jealous thing almost counteracts all of that.</quote> Okay, this is just as big of an issue as the jealousy thing. In fact, I'm pretty sure they're both intertwined. Seems like she just wants to baby you and make you dependent on her and keep you away from other people. that shit isn't normal man</quote> She would probably love that. She's also a cryer. Cries when I get a bit loud or prove my point in anything really. And me? Idk. I feel like I'm not an emotional guy. I can't handle the crying. I hug her and try making her feel better, but it doesn't seem genuine to me. It almost feels like a front, like this is the part where I'm supposed to show her I care, but I don't. It sucks, I wish I wasn't like this.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Marklar 04/12/17 3:06:28 AM #42:	I don't see a problem <cite>Marklar posted [p:877033472] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>I don't see a problem</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DontHateMe 04/12/17 3:06:59 AM #43:	Milkman5 posted... Dump her imo It's very hard to do in my situation. --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877033481] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>Milkman5 posted...</cite> <quote>Dump her imo</quote> It's very hard to do in my situation.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DontHateMe 04/12/17 3:08:45 AM #44:	ColdOne666 posted... DontHateMe posted... I told her that and she prefers her working, paying rent, bills while I barely do anything. I joked around and said are you gonna give me allowance and she's down for the idea. Weve been together 7* years, I put an asterisk because there were some "break ups". Your girlfriend wants you to live of her money while she does the work, where do i sign up? I don't wanna rely on her money. I want my own money to save, to eat whenever, buy things whenever and so on. --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877033527] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>ColdOne666 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DontHateMe posted...</cite> <quote>I told her that and she prefers her working, paying rent, bills while I barely do anything. I joked around and said are you gonna give me allowance and she's down for the idea. Weve been together 7* years, I put an asterisk because there were some "break ups". </quote> Your girlfriend wants you to live of her money while she does the work, where do i sign up?</quote> I don't wanna rely on her money. I want my own money to save, to eat whenever, buy things whenever and so on.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solid Snake07 04/12/17 3:39:36 AM #45:	ColdOne666 posted... DontHateMe posted... I told her that and she prefers her working, paying rent, bills while I barely do anything. I joked around and said are you gonna give me allowance and she's down for the idea. Weve been together 7* years, I put an asterisk because there were some "break ups". Your girlfriend wants you to live of her money while she does the work, where do i sign up? IwannaBeYourBitchBoy.com --- "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time" -Detective Rust Cohle <cite>Solid Snake07 posted [p:877034321] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>ColdOne666 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DontHateMe posted...</cite> <quote>I told her that and she prefers her working, paying rent, bills while I barely do anything. I joked around and said are you gonna give me allowance and she's down for the idea. Weve been together 7* years, I put an asterisk because there were some "break ups". </quote> Your girlfriend wants you to live of her money while she does the work, where do i sign up?</quote> IwannaBeYourBitchBoy.com</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lonestar2000 04/12/17 3:57:39 AM #46:	She's cheating on you. --- Rumble Roses. Someone enters the room. Them: O_O Me: What?! I always play games without my pants on!- Inmate 922335 #ImpeachTrump <cite>Lonestar2000 posted [p:877034756] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>She's cheating on you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NinjaPirateDood 04/12/17 12:55:51 PM #47:	she's a lil cray-cray, but she's paying your way. mmm, envious. wish I had a meal ticket. --- Not even God can find a lost opportunity. <cite>NinjaPirateDood posted [p:877054364] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>she's a lil cray-cray, but she's paying your way. mmm, envious. wish I had a meal ticket.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DontHateMe 04/12/17 2:01:59 PM #48:	Lonestar2000 posted... She's cheating on you. I highly doubt it. There's no signs or suspicions. She has no friends herself. I told her to try getting some girlfriends, but she can't. --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877058545] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lonestar2000 posted...</cite> <quote>She's cheating on you.</quote> I highly doubt it. There's no signs or suspicions. She has no friends herself. I told her to try getting some girlfriends, but she can't.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DontHateMe 04/12/17 2:03:28 PM #49:	NinjaPirateDood posted... she's a lil cray-cray, but she's paying your way. mmm, envious. wish I had a meal ticket. Lol, no man. I don't care if she's willing to pay for rent and bills, I need my own freedom and money too. --- Too Complicated. <cite>DontHateMe posted [p:877058639] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote><cite>NinjaPirateDood posted...</cite> <quote>she's a lil cray-cray, but she's paying your way. mmm, envious. wish I had a meal ticket.</quote> Lol, no man. I don't care if she's willing to pay for rent and bills, I need my own freedom and money too.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Medz8606 04/12/17 2:04:19 PM #50:	Yell a co worker's name next time you are doing the sex and see how long you can ride her until she bumps you off. --- Hi <cite>Medz8606 posted [p:877058690] in Girlfriend... [t:75227826]...</cite> <quote>Yell a co worker's name next time you are doing the sex and see how long you can ride her until she bumps you off.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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