Current Events > Girl I like who left me for another guy and put me in friendzone just asked me..

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If I was still looking for a girlfriend. Like, wtf do I tell her? This could be interpreted in many different ways. Is she asking me this because things didn't work out with the other guy? Or is she merely asking as a concerned friend? And what do I say? If I say no, and she's available, that would ruin my chances. If I yes, she might take it the wrong way and think I'm looking at other girls, not​ her. Women are so overly complicated. You really don't know what the hell to say to them.
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why are you even considering this?
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"Definitely ain't looking for one like you, bitch. Go die in a fire."

Tell her that.
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NOM posted...

"Definitely ain't looking for one like you, bitch. Go die in a fire."

Tell her that.

say yes, then see what goes from there, like an adult

if it's her she's mentioning, politely decline. else she just gave you a hookup with a friend

this isn't quantum mechanics
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Yeah be honest whatever be happy a girl wants to talk to you
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"Who posted?"
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NOM posted...

"Definitely ain't looking for one like you, bitch. Go die in a fire."

Tell her that.

lol that's petty.

OP, Tell her you aren't looking but you're open to the idea if things work out.

Keep her around to fuck her and when she brings up the "what are we?" question tell her you aren't interested because of her actions in the past, you don't trust her not to cheat, etc.
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I know this is a joke topic but why can't you be looking at other girls? You're single.
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Try to make her feel sorry for you. Say something like:

"No not really. I've given up. Everytime I've tried it never worked out. Girls leave me for other guys like you did. I don't think I'm good enough"
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Darmik posted...

I know this is a joke topic but why can't you be looking at other girls? You're single.

Yeah seriously. Not like you were keeping yourself for her.
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You guys can't read, OP is still interested in her
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faizan_faizan posted...

You guys can't read, OP is still interested in her

So? Just because he's still interested in her doesn't mean he can't look at other girls? Especially considering what that one did.
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Guy_Fieri posted...

"Who posted?"

lol
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stone posted...

faizan_faizan posted...

You guys can't read, OP is still interested in her

So? Just because he's still interested in her doesn't mean he can't look at other girls? Especially considering what that one did.

I was referring to the first few posts
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faizan_faizan posted...

stone posted...

faizan_faizan posted...

You guys can't read, OP is still interested in her

So? Just because he's still interested in her doesn't mean he can't look at other girls? Especially considering what that one did.

I was referring to the first few posts

They likely don't think he should get back with her. Presuming she was ever his actual girlfriend which I wouldn't be surprised if she wasn't.
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say yeah

because she might be trying to hook you up with someone

but if she intends to get with you
turn that shit down quit
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"No, but I'm looking for a blowjob"
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She might be asking for a single friend.

Just ask her why she wants to know
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Say yes, maybe she has a friend she's setting you up with. If it's for her because she broke up, then you can figure it out from there how you wanna deal with her.
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Solid Snake07 posted...

Just ask her why she wants to know

This, better than locking yourself into a definite yes or no right off the bat in case she's not asking for the reason you think she is.
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KogaSteelfang posted...

If it's for her because she broke up, then you can figure it out from there how you wanna deal with her.

if its this case

i'd drop her. Cause if the guy dumped her and had a change of heart and wants her back...

she'll drop you for him.
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Assuming this is through text I wouldn't even dignify the question with a response
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Well I told her that I was still looking. Here's what she said

"The time you give up I believe that is the time she's going to come"

So I guess she wasn't talking about herself. Dammit. :/
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Well damn what a bitch, she asked just to say that uncalled for crap?
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Tadamoto12 posted...

"The time you give up I believe that is the time she's going to come"

yeah thats uncalled for on her part

you can tell her its kinda none of her business.

And technically everyone is "looking." So I don't get what she means.
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Tadamoto12 posted...

Well I told her that I was still looking. Here's what she said

"The time you give up I believe that is the time she's going to come"

So I guess she wasn't talking about herself. Dammit. :/

just ignore her

and continue ignoring her. you don't need her in your life. move on
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