Current Events > would you give a woman who turned you down another chance?

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lets say you asked her out and she said no but was a bitch about it, like a year later she asks you out but she seems to have changed. now do you let your ego get in the way of a possible lifetime relationship?

i know so many men preach about keeping your pride and walking away and only give women one chance but ive been thinking the past week about it and how stupid it is to let the past make the choice for you.
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if you're still interested in her, I don't see why not. a year is a long time to hold a grudge over a rejection
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Most likely not, but not out of pride or my own ego. If this situation occurs:

Awesome posted...

you asked her out and she said no but was a bitch about it, like a year later she asks you out but she seems to have changed

I would generally stay away from someone who has changed who they are completely. People generally don't change, and if they do then something outside the norm is going on there. Not saying people can't change just because they want to be better people, but the chances of that are so low that I'd rather not risk it.
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yeah but when you think about it its a year down the drain
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That's exactly what happened to me with that lady who wanted a kid from me several months ago. She had on her okcupid profile that she was looking for friends, and she shared a bunch of my interests, so I messaged her. I wasn't attracted to her at all, but just wanted practice at making friends... At first we just talked, and I got her hooked on netflix's daredevil and Jessica jones. She eventually started talking about sex, a lot. I told her I didn't have much experience in that area, and she told me she would never consider being with me. That I really wasn't worth her time to even consider.

I was fine with that, like I said, I wasn't attracted to her and just wanted a friend anyway. Months pass by and she's talking about how she wants another kid. I happen to mention that I want kids too... Big mistake. >_>
From that point forward, she was hounding me for marriage, and to give her a second kid. She had it all planned out already. I admit though, it was really nice to finally have someone interested. It was something I'd never experienced before, and I was actually tempted to go for it. But I'm not stupid enough to think she actually wanted me at all, she just thought I'd be gullible enough to fall for it, have a kid, then she could tap me for support and likely not even let me see the kid.

Idk if I'd ever give her another chance. We still talk sometimes, but I've got her at arms length.
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no
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How was she a bitch about it? If I was to not give her another chance, that would be the reason for it.
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I'd fuck den dump
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