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Coolppl Owns 06/13/17 9:21:58 AM #1: |
is this bad
obviously i have female acquaintances and coworkers but i don't have any females who i consider good friends --- _.-=/Got Coolppl?\=-._ =-._\Got Coolppl?/_.-= ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Darkman124 06/13/17 9:24:49 AM #2: |
eh
not really what is a good friend anyway? i have female activity partners and male activity partners and a few close friends but i dont want to know the gossip in peoples lives and i sure as hell dont want them to know mine --- And when the hourglass has run out, eternity asks you about only one thing: whether you have lived in despair or not. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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green butter 06/13/17 9:28:06 AM #3: |
i do not have any female friends either, it's weird. that's what happens when you get into a relationship in your 20s
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MegaTech 06/13/17 9:31:14 AM #4: |
I have some female friends I hang out with regularly but they are total Bros in my mind. You're not missing out on anything honestly. You have the ones that count most
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Darkman124 06/13/17 9:55:48 AM #6: |
green butter posted...
i do not have any female friends either, it's weird. that's what happens when you get into a relationship in your 20s yeah i feel like you have 'friends of your wife who are nice to you' and 'women who enjoy doing activities you also enjoy' which is often what qualifies for female friends to women too but post-college i talk about my feelings to precisely 0 people and listen to talk about feelings from approximately 3 people idk. i am a very emotionally closed off person. when i experience anger i know how to channel it. when i experience sadness i go do something i enjoy until i am no longer sad. i think this is true of a lot of men. my wife is constantly talking to people on fb messenger and i'm just like "why" --- And when the hourglass has run out, eternity asks you about only one thing: whether you have lived in despair or not. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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green butter 06/13/17 9:58:02 AM #7: |
Darkman124 posted...
green butter posted...i do not have any female friends either, it's weird. that's what happens when you get into a relationship in your 20s post college, the quality of the friendships you make are garbage anyway, it's either people you work with that you're cordial with, or they're "couples friends" (ugh) --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Darkman124 06/13/17 10:04:56 AM #8: |
green butter posted...
post college, the quality of the friendships you make are garbage anyway, it's either people you work with that you're cordial with, or they're "couples friends" (ugh) i enjoy 'couples friends' and we have tried to make more of those but it can be hard when one of the two is down to earth and the other sucks --- And when the hourglass has run out, eternity asks you about only one thing: whether you have lived in despair or not. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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drunkmuggle 06/13/17 10:06:50 AM #9: |
green butter posted...
Darkman124 posted...green butter posted...i do not have any female friends either, it's weird. that's what happens when you get into a relationship in your 20s I think the only friends I've made post college are from here on gamefaqs and our barber --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Darkman124 06/13/17 10:24:18 AM #11: |
i think i have had a net loss of friends since college
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MegaTech 06/13/17 10:25:59 AM #12: |
I've only been getting more. I became way more outgoing after college strangely enough.
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BlazinBlue88 06/13/17 10:27:16 AM #13: |
Darkman124 posted...
green butter posted...post college, the quality of the friendships you make are garbage anyway, it's either people you work with that you're cordial with, or they're "couples friends" (ugh) Agreed. Both you and your partner have to like the couple which can be hard. We have one "couple friends" and they are related to us. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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drunkmuggle 06/13/17 10:29:15 AM #14: |
leverageblargh posted...
There are few things more intimate than a human being cutting your hair lol, it mostly helps that we like the same music so we will go to shows occasionally so I can consider him a friend outside of me paying money to get my hair cut but the largest concentration of people I've met after college have come from gamefaqs which I am grateful for, also kinda eye opening why's it feel hard to meet people and make friends? --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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teepan95 06/13/17 10:52:15 AM #17: |
The only women in my life I talk to regularly are family
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green butter 06/13/17 10:55:43 AM #18: |
Darkman124 posted...
green butter posted...post college, the quality of the friendships you make are garbage anyway, it's either people you work with that you're cordial with, or they're "couples friends" (ugh) fuck couples friends usually the way it works is that your girl finds another girl that she gets along with or has some kind of a shared interest/lifestyle/etc, and then you're paired up with the other girl's boyfriend/husband/whatever, and you spend the night making cordial small talk because the only thing that you both have in common is that you are tied to the two women that are chatting in the other room --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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clearaflagrantj 06/13/17 10:56:00 AM #19: |
Leaving college and moving halfway across the country has destroyed my social health. I went from being surrounded by best friends and hanging out multiple times a week to having a girlfriend I met on a dating app (that I love), and two barely-friends I have awkward interactions with.
When we meet I never know if we're fucking fist bumping or shaking hands or anything. Meanwhile when I met my NY friends two months ago we all hugged each other and had a blast. Life after college fucking sucks. You grind away 50 hours every week at work and then you're too fucking exhausted to do anything else. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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clearaflagrantj 06/13/17 10:56:38 AM #20: |
green butter posted...
Darkman124 posted...green butter posted...post college, the quality of the friendships you make are garbage anyway, it's either people you work with that you're cordial with, or they're "couples friends" (ugh) And they're always pussy whipped boring fucks. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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green butter 06/13/17 10:59:46 AM #21: |
clearaflagrantj posted...
green butter posted...Darkman124 posted...green butter posted...post college, the quality of the friendships you make are garbage anyway, it's either people you work with that you're cordial with, or they're "couples friends" (ugh) normally what i end up with is that the guy is usually something like an ex-marine or a construction worker or some kind of career where i am basically in a different world than this dude, and outside of that we have absolutely no mutual interests or compatibility. so it's basically small talk about our commutes to work or something because i unfortunately dont know dick about sports and that is all that 90% of guys seem to know about outside of work. often the guy is like 10 years older than me as well these are the highest quality friendships i've made since college. my social skills at this point have degraded pretty badly; i am now at a level where i can easily communicate and "socialize" with people but it's all entirely superflous bullshit and is entirely devoid of any sort of honesty. i pretty much play a character 24/7 now --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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clearaflagrantj 06/13/17 11:03:07 AM #22: |
green butter posted...
these are the highest quality friendships i've made since college. my social skills at this point have degraded pretty badly; i am now at a level where i can easily communicate and "socialize" with people but it's all entirely superflous bullshit and is entirely devoid of any sort of honesty. i pretty much play a character 24/7 now Which is why we're all on CE because this is the only place we communicate honestly to ourselves. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Darkman124 06/13/17 11:04:33 AM #23: |
it goes the other way too
we visit my old college roommate once a year and my wife and his wife have very little in common what happens now is we go, do some stuff as a group of four, and some of the time he and i go shooting/ATVing/etc while my wife goes to a lindy hop class and his wife reads a book so long as the group is together in one place i usually am ok with everything --- And when the hourglass has run out, eternity asks you about only one thing: whether you have lived in despair or not. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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drunkmuggle 06/13/17 11:06:08 AM #24: |
clearaflagrantj posted...
green butter posted...these are the highest quality friendships i've made since college. my social skills at this point have degraded pretty badly; i am now at a level where i can easily communicate and "socialize" with people but it's all entirely superflous bullshit and is entirely devoid of any sort of honesty. i pretty much play a character 24/7 now maybe this is why I've devolved into being a fucking nerd who doesn't want to leave his house --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Coolppl Owns 06/13/17 11:12:26 AM #25: |
clearaflagrantj posted...
Leaving college and moving halfway across the country has destroyed my social health. I went from being surrounded by best friends and hanging out multiple times a week to having a girlfriend I met on a dating app (that I love) How long have you been with her now? --- _.-=/Got Coolppl?\=-._ =-._\Got Coolppl?/_.-= ... Copied to Clipboard!
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clearaflagrantj 06/13/17 11:37:13 AM #27: |
Coolppl Owns posted...
clearaflagrantj posted...Leaving college and moving halfway across the country has destroyed my social health. I went from being surrounded by best friends and hanging out multiple times a week to having a girlfriend I met on a dating app (that I love) 10 months ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Coolppl Owns 06/13/17 11:51:32 AM #28: |
clearaflagrantj posted...
Coolppl Owns posted...clearaflagrantj posted...Leaving college and moving halfway across the country has destroyed my social health. I went from being surrounded by best friends and hanging out multiple times a week to having a girlfriend I met on a dating app (that I love) man, i've been with my gf for just about 6 months thinking about the l-word but i feel like i need to hold out longer how did you know when you loved her? @clearaflagrantj --- _.-=/Got Coolppl?\=-._ =-._\Got Coolppl?/_.-= ... Copied to Clipboard!
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clearaflagrantj 06/13/17 11:54:39 AM #29: |
Coolppl Owns posted...
clearaflagrantj posted...Coolppl Owns posted...clearaflagrantj posted...Leaving college and moving halfway across the country has destroyed my social health. I went from being surrounded by best friends and hanging out multiple times a week to having a girlfriend I met on a dating app (that I love) I don't know after we banged for a few months? I said it only like four months in because I don't really care, it's not a big word to me. I am horribly afraid of marriage and kids though, fuck that noise. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Haldol 06/13/17 12:04:16 PM #30: |
I personally don't talk to any unrelated women unless they are just that cool or I'm trying to fuck
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Coolppl Owns 06/13/17 12:16:45 PM #31: |
clearaflagrantj posted...
Coolppl Owns posted...clearaflagrantj posted...Coolppl Owns posted...clearaflagrantj posted...Leaving college and moving halfway across the country has destroyed my social health. I went from being surrounded by best friends and hanging out multiple times a week to having a girlfriend I met on a dating app (that I love) Does she know that? --- _.-=/Got Coolppl?\=-._ =-._\Got Coolppl?/_.-= ... Copied to Clipboard!
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clearaflagrantj 06/13/17 12:18:14 PM #32: |
Kids yes, marriage no.
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GunmaN1905 06/13/17 12:19:47 PM #33: |
Well, if you're in a relationship and unless you plan on cheating, there's no reason to talk to women outside of your family.
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