Current Events > Holy shit that's what cat was up to!

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Knew this girl named Cat.

First girl I asked out.
We never went out because I was too nervous.

Saw her at her work a long time ago, and she gave me a hug and was so happy to see me. Anyways, she was dating someone at the time so I thought nothing of it and I had gained a ton of weight since we last spoke..

Her dad died ...she's been missing for a year almost. Posts after post of people concerned about her...apologizing for pushing religion and God on her. Anyways she's alive...at the least..

Fucking Cat...I wonder if she was in a mental hospital or something <_<?
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Contact her.
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--kresnik-- posted...

Contact her.

I'll try to.

Why would she want to talk to me?
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Nayr how are you?
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I've actually been trying to find a good friend of mine from high school for awhile. I could contact her brother but I'm worried she OD'ed or something which wouldn't have been too far fetched since I last saw her :(
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GuyCarlPeterson posted...

Nayr how are you?

Not really good tbh.

There's a topic about it that I think is still active..just got off of a suicide hold. Still trying to adjust..phone call after phone call asking how I'm doing. Being honest with them on how of a low point I was at..what brought me to the hospital was it voluntary or involuntary. Plans for treatment..etc Them telling me they have felt the same way to the point where they're crying in a dark room alone..like that would've helped a long time ago.

I thought getting out I would have this moment of clarity, and everything at home and with family would be better but so far the days have been dragging along and I'm not okay with being alone right now.
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CrimsonAngeI posted...

I've actually been trying to find a good friend of mine from high school for awhile. I could contact her brother but I'm worried she OD'ed or something which wouldn't have been too far fetched since I last saw her :(

I've got a similar fear, too. Dated a girl named Summer early in high school and she dropped off all social media a few years after we broke up (almost ten years ago now). She isn't on any of her family's accounts nor have I ever seen any of them mention her even after talking to them both online and in person through out the years.

CrimsonAngeI posted...

I've actually been trying to find a good friend of mine from high school for awhile. I could contact her brother but I'm worried she OD'ed or something which wouldn't have been too far fetched since I last saw her :(

Damn.

It's weird how on Facebook you follow these peoples lives, and they're always in the back of your mind even though you haven't seen them in years. When I posted about my hospitalization there were comments from people who I haven't really talked to since elementary school. Very weird..how you can have people who care about you just by viewing them on a screen.

Yeah, I remember her telling me she used to live somewhere else so I was checking death records. Wasn't sure if her name was Cathy, Catherine or if it was legally Cat so that didn't help <_<.

PokeRocksUSA posted...

CrimsonAngeI posted...

I've actually been trying to find a good friend of mine from high school for awhile. I could contact her brother but I'm worried she OD'ed or something which wouldn't have been too far fetched since I last saw her :(

I've got a similar fear, too. Dated a girl named Summer early in high school and she dropped off all social media a few years after we broke up (almost ten years ago now). She isn't on any of her family's accounts nor have I ever seen any of them mention her even after talking to them both online and in person through out the years.

Damn man.

I never even dated her. Must suck...did you love her?
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Been trying to contact my ex on and off for a year now. She last posted on Facebook in February and last I heard she got arrested for trespassing.
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nayr626 posted...

GuyCarlPeterson posted...

Nayr how are you?

Not really good tbh.

There's a topic about it that I think is still active..just got off of a suicide hold. Still trying to adjust..phone call after phone call asking how I'm doing. Being honest with them on how of a low point I was at..what brought me to the hospital was it voluntary or involuntary. Plans for treatment..etc Them telling me they have felt the same way to the point where they're crying in a dark room alone..like that would've helped a long time ago.

I thought getting out I would have this moment of clarity, and everything at home and with family would be better but so far the days have been dragging along and I'm not okay with being alone right now.

You always hear people talk about how after they failed a suicide they realized it was a huge mistake. They usually have a pretty good life they were throwing away though. Rarely do you hear someone say "I realized my minimum wage job and lonely apartment were all I wanted in life!" I hope the people helping you understand that getting better is gonna take more than having people tell you they care about you. This takes real work and change to overcome. You gotta want to change it and then be able to force yourself to make it happen.
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GuyCarlPeterson posted...

You always hear people talk about how after they failed a suicide they realized it was a huge mistake. They usually have a pretty good life they were throwing away though. Rarely do you hear someone say "I realized my minimum wage job and lonely apartment were all I wanted in life!" I hope the people helping you understand that getting better is gonna take more than having people tell you they care about you. This takes real work and change to overcome. You gotta want to change it and then be able to force yourself to make it happen.

Yeah.

My sister is telling me to come up with a plan. Already told her I'm in an out patient program, and I plan to get therapy when I move out.

My Aunt didn't really help...she has the best intentions. It doesn't help when she keeps calling me my brothers name on accident..it doesn't help telling me my Mom wouldn't want me to feel like this. I know that. I don't want to be reminded of that.

Dreading the phone call from my Uncle because he always has to lecture me on how to live my life. I don't think anyone understands that I'm not as strong as people think I am..I'm not able to do certain things

Going away party for my sister next weekend, and I sure as hell don't want the weekend to be about me. It should be about her..thinking of just not going but I'd get even more flack for that.

Someone suggested taking a break from video games, art, etc until it becomes fun again. Gonna try limiting my hobbies until it gets better.


Duncanwii posted...

Been trying to contact my ex on and off for a year now. She last posted on Facebook in February and last I heard she got arrested for trespassing.

Just wondering, why do you always talk about your EX's, crushes, but not your Fiance? Do you not like her? If so, you should probably let her know before you take it any further...
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nayr626 posted...

GuyCarlPeterson posted...

You always hear people talk about how after they failed a suicide they realized it was a huge mistake. They usually have a pretty good life they were throwing away though. Rarely do you hear someone say "I realized my minimum wage job and lonely apartment were all I wanted in life!" I hope the people helping you understand that getting better is gonna take more than having people tell you they care about you. This takes real work and change to overcome. You gotta want to change it and then be able to force yourself to make it happen.

Yeah.

My sister is telling me to come up with a plan. Already told her I'm in an out patient program, and I plan to get therapy when I move out.

My Aunt didn't really help...she has the best intentions. It doesn't help when she keeps calling me my brothers name on accident..it doesn't help telling me my Mom wouldn't want me to feel like this. I know that. I don't want to be reminded of that.

Dreading the phone call from my Uncle because he always has to lecture me on how to live my life. I don't think anyone understands that I'm not as strong as people think I am..I'm not able to do certain things

Going away party for my sister next weekend, and I sure as hell don't want the weekend to be about me. It should be about her..thinking of just not going but I'd get even more flack for that.

Someone suggested taking a break from video games, art, etc until it becomes fun again. Gonna try limiting my hobbies until it gets better.


Duncanwii posted...

Been trying to contact my ex on and off for a year now. She last posted on Facebook in February and last I heard she got arrested for trespassing.

Just wondering, why do you always talk about your EX's, crushes, but not your Fiance? Do you not like her? If so, you should probably let her know before you take it any further...

I talk about my Fiancee all the time, and she's the world to me.
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Wait, your post doesn't line up with your title.

First you indicate you discovered what "Cat" was up to, then you spend three paragraphs telling us you have no idea what happened to "Cat".

Who is after you?
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Dash_Harber posted...

Wait, your post doesn't line up with your title.

First you indicate you discovered what "Cat" was up to, then you spend three paragraphs telling us you have no idea what happened to "Cat".

I just felt like making a joke.

I know she's alive..that's it.

Duncanwii posted...

I talk about my Fiancee all the time, and she's the world to me.

My bad.

Maybe I just don't go into those topics.
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ehhwhatever posted...

Who is after you?

Romantically?

No one. I get attached to girls who are more broken than I am and push away people who I find that are too normal. I seem to ignore the glaring flaws in girls I like, and scrutinize the girls that actually do have an interest in me.

It's a defense mechanism. Don't want to be the non normal one in a relationship...
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nayr626 posted...

First girl I asked out.
We never went out because I was too nervous.

The hard part was already over!
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SSJKirby posted...

The hard part was already over!

Yeah..asked her out and she said yes.

So happy I literally forgot to get her number that day <_<.
Got it the next day, and she started texting me a lot.

Never really brought the date up again..hate to think that she was really that interested in me.
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ahh ok so you are seeking and nobody is hunting you.
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ehhwhatever posted...

ahh ok so you are seeking and nobody is hunting you.

Yeah.

It's part of the depression right now. The whole work on yourself shit..feel like I've been doing that all my life. People always ask me when I'm going to bring a nice girl over, and they know damn well I haven't had a girlfriend. I know they're trying to help..my brother had to ask if I was a virgin the other day like do you really have to ask?

He's been joking about how I'll get laid in college. For some reason my brother and friends think I'm going to get a girl pregnant on a one night stand and then commit to them <_<.
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The issue is vast. You even have an inner home but you forget.
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ehhwhatever posted...

The issue is vast. You even have an inner home but you forget.

Not sure what you're getting at?
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