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ManSpread 08/28/17 3:47:07 PM #1:	to preface, my girlfriend has stage 3 lupus and PTSD on saturday she had a lupus flare (was in remission for 6 months) and i think this one is going to be bad, like real bad her hips and knees are incredibly swollen, her joints are in immense pain, her skin is starting to break out and not look so good, her toes are swelling up, her kidneys arent processing anything well at all (lots of blood in her stool and urine lately), she couldnt physically move this morning without hurting herself, and shes having some episodes from PTSD due to all the stress from her lupus flare and being unable to work on her business and not being able to take care of herself ive had to take the past few days off of work to care of her and make sure shes getting her proper medicine, shots, rest, etc etc ive been on the phone with her immunologist, a homeopathic specialist, and the rheumatologist to try to get her the help she needs but everyone is booked up and going to have wait at least a week to get her care unless someone cancels she was diagnosed with lupus in her early 20s and from what I recall it can be more fatal in younger women and progress faster into being more severe/fatal shes constantly worried that she could get easily sick within the next few years and die from it just because her body isnt a normal fucking body and it gets me so depressed to see her this way because there's nothing i can really do for her and help her with with lupus being a fickle bitch and her PTSD medicine fucking her up even more i know things are worse for her than it is me, but i am just so incredibly stressed out and full of anxiety because of how dangerous a flare can be, especially in younger women some of my "friends" have been trying to get me to break up with her and focus on myself because they dont think i should be with someone that has so much baggage and things wrong with them i am just so incredibly stressed out from having to miss work and practically be at her side 24/7 but its just something that i have to do i would never, ever wish something like this on anyone --- http://i.imgur.com/7PDx6Ff.jpg http://i.imgur.com/WStMw87.gif http://i.imgur.com/aer0vok.gif http://i.imgur.com/hMt3DpQ.png <cite>ManSpread posted [p:885605523] in this past ... [t:75717385]...</cite> <quote>to preface, my girlfriend has stage 3 lupus and PTSD on saturday she had a lupus flare (was in remission for 6 months) and i think this one is going to be bad, like real bad her hips and knees are incredibly swollen, her joints are in immense pain, her skin is starting to break out and not look so good, her toes are swelling up, her kidneys arent processing anything well at all (lots of blood in her stool and urine lately), she couldnt physically move this morning without hurting herself, and shes having some episodes from PTSD due to all the stress from her lupus flare and being unable to work on her business and not being able to take care of herself ive had to take the past few days off of work to care of her and make sure shes getting her proper medicine, shots, rest, etc etc ive been on the phone with her immunologist, a homeopathic specialist, and the rheumatologist to try to get her the help she needs but everyone is booked up and going to have wait at least a week to get her care unless someone cancels she was diagnosed with lupus in her early 20s and from what I recall it can be more fatal in younger women and progress faster into being more severe/fatal shes constantly worried that she could get easily sick within the next few years and die from it just because her body isnt a normal fucking body and it gets me so depressed to see her this way because there's nothing i can really do for her and help her with with lupus being a fickle bitch and her PTSD medicine fucking her up even more i know things are worse for her than it is me, but i am just so incredibly stressed out and full of anxiety because of how dangerous a flare can be, especially in younger women some of my "friends" have been trying to get me to break up with her and focus on myself because they dont think i should be with someone that has so much baggage and things wrong with them i am just so incredibly stressed out from having to miss work and practically be at her side 24/7 but its just something that i have to do i would never, ever wish something like this on anyone</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpiralDrift 08/28/17 4:08:18 PM #2:	It's not as bad as lupus but I can somewhat relate to your situation. Your own struggles become secondary to the point where you feel bad for even talking about it. It's important to have a place to vent, which makes it that much shittier that your friends aren't being supportive. I'd take it not so much as them not wanting to deal with her as it is them not wanting to deal with you. Ultimately, if you really love her it should easy to make the necessary sacrifices. It still sucks, but the decision is easy at least. Anyway I hope she'll pull through. And hang in there. --- Do unto others what your parents did to you. <cite>SpiralDrift posted [p:885606681] in this past ... [t:75717385]...</cite> <quote>It's not as bad as lupus but I can somewhat relate to your situation. Your own struggles become secondary to the point where you feel bad for even talking about it. It's important to have a place to vent, which makes it that much shittier that your friends aren't being supportive. I'd take it not so much as them not wanting to deal with her as it is them not wanting to deal with you. Ultimately, if you really love her it should easy to make the necessary sacrifices. It still sucks, but the decision is easy at least. Anyway I hope she'll pull through. And hang in there.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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weapon_d00d816 08/28/17 4:16:30 PM #4:	UnhndredDescole posted... @weapon_d00d816 Feel shitty now? Why did you mention me? What does this have to do with me? --- SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SlG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SIG SlG <cite>weapon_d00d816 posted [p:885607151] in this past ... [t:75717385]...</cite> <quote><cite>UnhndredDescole posted...</cite> <quote>@weapon_d00d816 Feel shitty now?</quote> Why did you mention me? What does this have to do with me?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ShotgunSilencer 08/28/17 4:19:10 PM #5:	It might not mean much coming from some random dude on the internet but I think you're a good guy for sticking with her and helping her. I hope for the best for you guys. --- Big Blue! <cite>ShotgunSilencer posted [p:885607304] in this past ... [t:75717385]...</cite> <quote>It might not mean much coming from some random dude on the internet but I think you're a good guy for sticking with her and helping her. I hope for the best for you guys.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ManSpread 08/28/17 4:33:32 PM #6:	weapon_d00d816 posted... UnhndredDescole posted... @weapon_d00d816 Feel shitty now? Why did you mention me? What does this have to do with me? i mean you were saying i had an imaginary girlfriend the other day --- http://i.imgur.com/7PDx6Ff.jpg http://i.imgur.com/WStMw87.gif http://i.imgur.com/aer0vok.gif http://i.imgur.com/hMt3DpQ.png <cite>ManSpread posted [p:885608099] in this past ... [t:75717385]...</cite> <quote><cite>weapon_d00d816 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>UnhndredDescole posted...</cite> <quote>@weapon_d00d816 Feel shitty now?</quote> Why did you mention me? What does this have to do with me?</quote> i mean you were saying i had an imaginary girlfriend the other day</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ManSpread 08/28/17 6:36:21 PM #7:	ManSpread posted... weapon_d00d816 posted... UnhndredDescole posted... @weapon_d00d816 Feel shitty now? Why did you mention me? What does this have to do with me? i mean you were saying i had an imaginary girlfriend the other day @weapon_d00d816 thats why you got tagged, lol --- http://i.imgur.com/7PDx6Ff.jpg http://i.imgur.com/WStMw87.gif http://i.imgur.com/aer0vok.gif http://i.imgur.com/hMt3DpQ.png <cite>ManSpread posted [p:885614966] in this past ... [t:75717385]...</cite> <quote><cite>ManSpread posted...</cite> <quote><cite>weapon_d00d816 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>UnhndredDescole posted...</cite> <quote>@weapon_d00d816 Feel shitty now?</quote> Why did you mention me? What does this have to do with me?</quote> i mean you were saying i had an imaginary girlfriend the other day</quote> @weapon_d00d816 thats why you got tagged, lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zikten 08/28/17 6:37:48 PM #8:	sorry man. I hope she lives <cite>Zikten posted [p:885615034] in this past ... [t:75717385]...</cite> <quote>sorry man. I hope she lives</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GiftedACIII 08/29/17 11:51:22 PM #9:	I'm really sorry to hear that man. All of my condolences. --- </topic> <cite>GiftedACIII posted [p:885695429] in this past ... [t:75717385]...</cite> <quote>I'm really sorry to hear that man. All of my condolences.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cookie Bag 08/29/17 11:53:22 PM #10:	ManSpread posted... ManSpread posted... weapon_d00d816 posted... UnhndredDescole posted... @weapon_d00d816 Feel shitty now? Why did you mention me? What does this have to do with me? i mean you were saying i had an imaginary girlfriend the other day @weapon_d00d816 thats why you got tagged, lol might as well as @Volkswagen_Bros too --- https://i.imgtc.com/8dguHIr.png <cite>Cookie Bag posted [p:885695522] in this past ... [t:75717385]...</cite> <quote><cite>ManSpread posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ManSpread posted...</cite> <quote><cite>weapon_d00d816 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>UnhndredDescole posted...</cite> <quote>@weapon_d00d816 Feel shitty now?</quote> Why did you mention me? What does this have to do with me?</quote> i mean you were saying i had an imaginary girlfriend the other day</quote> @weapon_d00d816 thats why you got tagged, lol</quote> might as well as @Volkswagen_Bros too</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RebelElite791 08/29/17 11:56:21 PM #11:	Damn dude. Sorry to hear all that, really hope everything works out okay --- http://i.imgur.com/MS5SvzN.gif https://i.imgur.com/ahQpG57.jpg <cite>RebelElite791 posted [p:885695653] in this past ... [t:75717385]...</cite> <quote>Damn dude. Sorry to hear all that, really hope everything works out okay</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kingdrake2 08/29/17 11:56:47 PM #12:	we'll get him next provide evidence. --- Chapped ass sucks. Deliver me sweet release, Kaopectate-.Alucard188 <cite>kingdrake2 posted [p:885695677] in this past ... [t:75717385]...</cite> <quote>we'll get him next provide evidence.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ManSpread 08/30/17 8:39:08 PM #13:	@RebelElite791 posted... Damn dude. Sorry to hear all that, really hope everything works out okay Its getting better. She can get up and move, shes just slow and cant walk or be active for very long before the pain becomes too much. Honestly the worst part is how randomly long (or short) flares can last --- http://i.imgur.com/7PDx6Ff.jpg http://i.imgur.com/WStMw87.gif http://i.imgur.com/aer0vok.gif http://i.imgur.com/hMt3DpQ.png <cite>ManSpread posted [p:885746487] in this past ... [t:75717385]...</cite> <quote><cite>@RebelElite791 posted...</cite> <quote>Damn dude. Sorry to hear all that, really hope everything works out okay</quote> Its getting better. She can get up and move, shes just slow and cant walk or be active for very long before the pain becomes too much. Honestly the worst part is how randomly long (or short) flares can last</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ManSpread 09/03/17 2:49:11 PM #15:	Wherethisfeom posted... I wish your GF and you luck Thanks. The doc prescribed her some new medicine for her C-PTSD that has been giving her mood swings but is making her stress more manageable (stress being like the worst thing for lupus) --- http://i.imgur.com/7PDx6Ff.jpg http://i.imgur.com/WStMw87.gif http://i.imgur.com/aer0vok.gif http://i.imgur.com/hMt3DpQ.png <cite>ManSpread posted [p:885954211] in this past ... [t:75717385]...</cite> <quote><cite>Wherethisfeom posted...</cite> <quote>I wish your GF and you luck</quote> Thanks. The doc prescribed her some new medicine for her C-PTSD that has been giving her mood swings but is making her stress more manageable (stress being like the worst thing for lupus)</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Paper_Okami 09/04/17 8:40:05 PM #17:	Sorry man, hope everything gets better for her. My dog is 14 years old and he looks like he's about at the end of his rope, not the same as a GF of course but still tough. And my mom just had heart surgery --- "Conceit, arrogance and egotism are the essentials of patriotism"- Emma Goldman "Wimmy Wham Wham Wozzle!" -Slurms MacKenzie <cite>Paper_Okami posted [p:886029973] in this past ... [t:75717385]...</cite> <quote>Sorry man, hope everything gets better for her. My dog is 14 years old and he looks like he's about at the end of his rope, not the same as a GF of course but still tough. And my mom just had heart surgery</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ManSpread 09/04/17 10:13:14 PM #18:	Wherethisfeom posted... ManSpread posted... Wherethisfeom posted... I wish your GF and you luck Thanks. The doc prescribed her some new medicine for her C-PTSD that has been giving her mood swings but is making her stress more manageable (stress being like the worst thing for lupus) So she's been getting better? That's awesome news Yup, according to the doc in another week or her body should be used to the new meds --- http://i.imgur.com/7PDx6Ff.jpg http://i.imgur.com/WStMw87.gif http://i.imgur.com/aer0vok.gif http://i.imgur.com/hMt3DpQ.png <cite>ManSpread posted [p:886035500] in this past ... [t:75717385]...</cite> <quote><cite>Wherethisfeom posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ManSpread posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Wherethisfeom posted...</cite> <quote>I wish your GF and you luck</quote> Thanks. The doc prescribed her some new medicine for her C-PTSD that has been giving her mood swings but is making her stress more manageable (stress being like the worst thing for lupus)</quote> So she's been getting better? That's awesome news</quote> Yup, according to the doc in another week or her body should be used to the new meds</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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