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usui88 09/21/17 11:10:25 PM #1: |
and neither of us are super stoked on why
He doesn’t have a car right now, so he and his roommates are having to all share one. Unfortunately the dude who owns it has just not been making the payments and didn’t tell anyone, and it just got repossessed. Since there’s now there’s no car, he can’t get to work (roommates are able to get rides), which means either I move in for at least a while so he can use mine or he has to quit his job and move back home, two hours away, in what is a very small and shitty town. And for various reasons I can’t stay over there so we would basically never see each other Tbf, I stay there usually like 5 nights a week as it is so it wouldn’t be too different, but it’s still a step we shouldn’t have to be forced into taking, and it puts a lot of pressure on me. It’s hard to believe this isn’t going to fuck with our relationship too Apologies for the blogfaqs, but I don’t have too many people I like to talk to about personal shit and I just needed to put this somewhere This is just such bullshit man --- Living like this is a full-time business. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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RCtheWSBC 09/21/17 11:12:35 PM #2: |
Ooof big life change. Gonna be stressful. Best of luck.
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Stupid Pirate Guy 09/21/17 11:12:53 PM #3: |
Sounds like you're getting played. Run before it's too late.
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RCtheWSBC 09/21/17 11:13:45 PM #4: |
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DrPrimemaster 09/21/17 11:28:38 PM #5: |
Can he move in with you?
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HelIWithoutSin 09/21/17 11:37:30 PM #6: |
He has a job and multiple roommates but can't afford a car? What is he spending his money on?
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SushiSquid 09/21/17 11:37:55 PM #7: |
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Jen0125 09/21/17 11:47:15 PM #8: |
Yeah how long have you been together? How are you going to get around without your car? Are you just gonna sit around all day while he's at work?
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SmokeMassTree2 09/22/17 12:00:11 AM #9: |
Y'all are acting like this is real
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usui88 09/22/17 12:21:09 AM #10: |
RCtheWSBC posted...
Ooof big life change. Gonna be stressful. Best of luck. Thanks Stupid Pirate Guy posted... Sounds like you're getting played. Run before it's too late. He was already looking for a car before this, he’s just financially fucked atm so it’s not been easy RCtheWSBC posted... How long have y'all been together? We met three months ago DrPrimemaster posted... Can he move in with you? Nope. Had to drop $2500 to replace the turbo on my car last month so I decided to spend this semester at home to save money. I live like an hour from where he works too HelIWithoutSin posted... He has a job and multiple roommates but can't afford a car? What is he spending his money on? He works minimum wage at a cafe, and he’s been saving up for a car. His roommates blow it all on weed and he’s had to help them with their share of the rent the past three months too. I’ve seen his account balance. He literally barely has enough for food right now Edit: Also its a three bedroom in New Orleans. Rents not exactly cheap Jen0125 posted... Yeah how long have you been together? How are you going to get around without your car? Are you just gonna sit around all day while he's at work? I just take him myself or let him use it already. His roommates work different shifts so they would pick the car up before he gets off and sometimes he has to wait over an hour to get a ride home But yeah no matter what I just chill and do school work and study. I have a heavy workload this semester so it’s fine. Same as I do when I’m home SmokeMassTree2 posted... Y'all are acting like this is real Got me --- Living like this is a full-time business. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SushiSquid 09/22/17 12:23:10 AM #11: |
usui88 posted...
We met three months ago Get out. Of the relationship, that is. Run. usui88 posted... He works minimum wage at a cafe, and he's been saving up for a car. His roommates blow it all on weed and he's had to help them with their share of the rent the past three months too. I've seen his account balance. He literally barely has enough for food right now See above. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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RCtheWSBC 09/22/17 12:25:11 AM #12: |
usui88 posted...
We met three months ago Hard pass. --- http://i.imgur.com/1yl1fH0.jpg the White-Sounding Black Chick ... Copied to Clipboard!
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usui88 09/22/17 12:36:01 AM #13: |
^ I really don’t want to give up on this relationship though. It’s not costing me anything to do this, and he’s already saving up for a new car so it’s not permanent either
Not like I can’t just pack my shit up and peace out later Plus his roommates smoke me out for free so there’s that Edit: Also I moved in with a previous bf after two months and we were together over two years I move fast I guess --- Living like this is a full-time business. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Smarkil 09/22/17 12:39:21 AM #14: |
Jesus Christ abort. Abort now. Pull your chute.
usui88 posted... He works minimum wage at a cafe, and he’s been saving up for a car. His roommates blow it all on weed and he’s had to help them with their share of the rent the past three months too. I’ve seen his account balance. He literally barely has enough for food right now If he's working some garbage minimum wage job, why not just find one that's closer to where he lives? --- "We're not even close" - Romans building Rome at the end of Day 1 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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usui88 09/22/17 12:55:16 AM #15: |
Smarkil posted...
Jesus Christ abort. Abort now. Pull your chute. Probably easier said than done. He lives in a gated complex set back in a mostly residential area, and he likes where he works I don’t necessarily mind doing it for him. I was already starting to leave shit there so I wouldn’t have to go home as often, and we were on our way to that point anyway. I just resent the circumstances under which we got there Besides, like I said I can back out at any time if it gets to be too much. I really want to at least try to make this work :/ Trust me neither of us are happy about this --- Living like this is a full-time business. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Doctor Foxx 09/22/17 12:59:22 AM #16: |
usui88 posted...
I don’t necessarily mind doing it for him. I was already starting to leave shit there so I wouldn’t have to go home as often, and we were on our way to that point anyway. I just resent the circumstances under which we got there that is poison to a relationship I wish you the best with this, but it seems hasty What would he have done if he got in this mess and wasn't dating you for 3 months? I imagine he'd figure that shit out. --- Never write off the Doctor! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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usui88 09/22/17 1:08:54 AM #17: |
Doctor Foxx posted...
usui88 posted...I don’t necessarily mind doing it for him. I was already starting to leave shit there so I wouldn’t have to go home as often, and we were on our way to that point anyway. I just resent the circumstances under which we got there I know. I’ve stress-smoked an entire pack today over this shit today He would have just moved back home probably. That’s what he initially said he was going to do, until he kind of half-asked and I half-offered to do this. I know he had already been considering it until we met bc his roommates are exactly this way And thanks. My love life has always been messy and extra af so this isn’t even the weirdest thing that’s ever happened. Maybe that’s why I’m not seeing it in the same way as y’all are --- Living like this is a full-time business. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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wwinterj25 09/22/17 1:15:12 AM #18: |
Why doesn't he just get a bike or something while he saves up for a car? Although if you're cool with living together than I suppose it works.
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usui88 09/22/17 1:48:59 AM #19: |
wwinterj25 posted...
Why doesn't he just get a bike or something while he saves up for a car? Although if you're cool with living together than I suppose it works. You legit need a car to get anywhere here unless you happen to live near a street car line or something that runs nearby. Public transport here is stupid. There aren’t even any bike lanes in that area --- Living like this is a full-time business. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mover_of_Zigs 09/22/17 1:55:15 AM #20: |
usui88 posted...
Trust me neither of us are happy about this That flag there is looking rather red ... Copied to Clipboard!
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usui88 09/22/17 1:57:02 AM #21: |
Mover_of_Zigs posted...
usui88 posted...Trust me neither of us are happy about this The reason for, not necessarily the fact that For better or worse it got serious fast --- Living like this is a full-time business. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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GunslingerGunsl 09/22/17 2:10:23 AM #22: |
RCtheWSBC posted...
usui88 posted...We met three months ago ... Copied to Clipboard!
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HellHole_ 09/22/17 2:11:38 AM #23: |
usui88 posted...
We met three months ago dump him. --- are you not sick of playing games, sick of giving blame sick of f***in' living like the world has never given you a life defining day? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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wwinterj25 09/22/17 2:12:18 AM #24: |
usui88 posted...
You legit need a car to get anywhere here unless you happen to live near a street car line or something that runs nearby. Public transport here is stupid. There aren’t even any bike lanes in that area That sucks. I would suggest walking but perhaps it would take a while. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - http://i.imgur.com/kDysIcd.gif ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Snuggletoof 09/22/17 9:08:14 PM #25: |
Hey man, it'll work out. You clearly care enough about each other. And like you said, it's just temporary (ideally). I guess just try not to let it fall into a permanent thing out of necessity. Lay down your expectations for each other and try to keep communicating.
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TheCyborgNinja 09/22/17 9:19:04 PM #26: |
Sometimes being forced to take the plunge is a good thing. That's how I started living with my wife (then girlfriend). She wanted to go to school 2000 miles away, so it was that or pick somebody here, which I didn't want to do. We moved back out west when she was done and it all worked out pretty well in the long run.
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Action53 09/22/17 9:22:59 PM #27: |
How old are both of you?
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Revelation34 09/22/17 9:25:31 PM #28: |
usui88 posted...
Lol. It would have been cheaper to buy a used car. --- Gamertag: Kegfarms, BF code: 2033480226, Treasure Cruise code 318,374,355 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jen0125 09/22/17 9:34:29 PM #29: |
GunslingerGunsl posted...
RCtheWSBC posted...usui88 posted...We met three months ago --- http://i.imgur.com/4ihiyS2.jpg "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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mastermix3000 09/22/17 9:37:59 PM #30: |
Get out, trust. Do not stay in that relationship
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usui88 09/23/17 12:21:01 AM #31: |
Update: He decided to move back home because said he didn’t want to have to use me like that (with those two chucklehead roommates I’m sure there would have been more problems later on too), but his sister is looking for a place for them both there now. Even though she’s apparently not my biggest fan atm I’ll at least be able to sleep over when I visit
Still gonna suck since I won’t get to see him as much, but this is probably the best solution Action53 posted... How old are both of you? I’m 29, he just turned 23 Revelation34 posted... usui88 posted... Yeah Volkswagen’s are expensive to maintain. Shit had to be specially ordered but I like my car so eh Thanks everyone --- Living like this is a full-time business. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Metal_Mario99 09/23/17 1:17:13 AM #32: |
Wait a minute, are you a dude?
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usui88 09/23/17 1:27:23 AM #33: |
Metal_Mario99 posted...
Wait a minute, are you a dude? Last I checked --- Living like this is a full-time business. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Cacciato 09/23/17 1:37:14 AM #34: |
Metal_Mario99 posted...
Wait a minute, are you a dude? Should change your name to Detective Mario. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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spooky96 09/23/17 1:52:18 AM #35: |
I like how everyone suddenly becomes a relationship expert in topics like this, its always hilarious.
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Metal_Mario99 09/23/17 2:02:38 AM #36: |
usui88 posted...
Metal_Mario99 posted...Wait a minute, are you a dude? Well, in that case, you definitely shouldn't move in with him. --- The GameFAQs mods are terrible at their job. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Foppe 09/23/17 2:17:05 AM #37: |
Metal_Mario99 posted...
usui88 posted...Metal_Mario99 posted...Wait a minute, are you a dude? They should move together when both are ready for it, no matter if both are dudes or not. --- GameFAQs isn't going to be merged in with GameSpot or any other site. We're not going to strip out the soul of the site. -CJayC ... Copied to Clipboard!
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usui88 09/23/17 2:54:15 AM #38: |
Metal_Mario99 posted...
usui88 posted...Metal_Mario99 posted...Wait a minute, are you a dude? And why is that? --- Living like this is a full-time business. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mover_of_Zigs 09/23/17 9:26:07 AM #39: |
usui88 posted...
Metal_Mario99 posted...usui88 posted...Metal_Mario99 posted...Wait a minute, are you a dude? Because your relationship makes somebody you don't know uncomfortable, and that is more important than what either of you want, of course. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Foppe 09/23/17 9:29:03 AM #40: |
I recognize your name, you dont happen to have a twin brother?
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PoIl6177 09/23/17 9:48:11 AM #41: |
it's funny people think this is real.
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My_Unit 09/23/17 9:54:56 AM #42: |
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SushiSquid 09/23/17 10:08:04 AM #43: |
usui88 posted...
I’m 29, he just turned 23 RCtheWSBC posted... Hard pass. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mover_of_Zigs 09/23/17 10:23:38 AM #44: |
PoIl6177 posted...
it's funny people think this is real. I know I'm not real Foppe posted... I recognize your name, you dont happen to have a twin brother? Who, me? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SpeeDLeemon 09/23/17 11:49:00 AM #45: |
Lmao what.
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Jen0125 09/23/17 11:50:24 AM #46: |
PoIl6177 posted...
it's funny people think this is real. There's literally nothing farfetched about this scenario. --- http://i.imgur.com/4ihiyS2.jpg "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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My_Unit 09/23/17 11:57:15 AM #47: |
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Mover_of_Zigs 09/23/17 12:21:05 PM #48: |
My_Unit posted...
Im pooping as i type this I was pooping as I read that ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Foppe 09/23/17 2:24:16 PM #49: |
Mover_of_Zigs posted...
PoIl6177 posted...it's funny people think this is real. Usui. --- GameFAQs isn't going to be merged in with GameSpot or any other site. We're not going to strip out the soul of the site. -CJayC ... Copied to Clipboard!
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wwinterj25 09/23/17 2:26:28 PM #50: |
Jen0125 posted...
There's literally nothing farfetched about this scenario. This. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - http://i.imgur.com/kDysIcd.gif ... Copied to Clipboard!
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