Poll of the Day > man it's like my mom wants me to be a liar

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"what are you guys doing tonight"

well mom it's saturday and more than likely i don't want to do whatever it is you're gonna ask me to do with you

so now you're gonna make me LIE and make up plans so i can not hurt your feelings.
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Answer honestly?
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nah my mom is one of those moms. like bnvshark's mom. who throws a toddler shit fit when you hurt her feelings. and her feelings get hurt when you don't wanna do what she does. then she does stuff like ask you to hang out on a saturday night when she knows you don't want to just to create drama.

so it saves a lot of headache to just lie to her to be honest. i don't need that kind of negativity in my life.
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Jen0125 posted...

so it saves a lot of headache to just lie to her to be honest. i don't need that kind of negativity in my life.

Ah. I'm way too honest for those type of people. :3
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wwinterj25 posted...

Jen0125 posted...

so it saves a lot of headache to just lie to her to be honest. i don't need that kind of negativity in my life.

Ah. I'm way too honest for those type of people. :3

i usually am because i don't care about other people but i feel morally obligated to deal with my mom and family so i lie to her. other people i just don't talk to if i don't want to be around them.
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Have you told her how you feel about the way she responds to your honesty? Have you ever actually tried to hang out with her on a Saturday night? If you haven't, maybe doing it every once in a while will help her settle down a bit.

sorry mom I can't, I'm getting crunk tonight

I suppose "each other" isn't the correct response to your mother when asked this question.
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GunslingerGunsl posted...

Have you told her how you feel about the way she responds to your honesty? Have you ever actually tried to hang out with her on a Saturday night? If you haven't, maybe doing it every once in a while will help her settle down a bit.

yes everyone has told her several times and she doesn't care. she's an emotional black hole of a woman.

and i hang out with her saturday afternoons when she wants to waste our time with a family day which she tries to turn into a family weekend which she then suggests we should do every weekend. it's never enough so i try to do is as rarely as possible.
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Jen0125 posted...

yes everyone has told her several times and she doesn't care. she's an emotional black woman.

Whoa, what the fuck is that supposed to mean?

green dragon posted...

Jen0125 posted...

yes everyone has told her several times and she doesn't care. she's an emotional black woman.

Whoa, what the fuck is that supposed to mean?

Lmao
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omfg

i meant to say emotional black HOLE of a woman

jesus christ
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WAIT i did say that

what the heck man you can't edit my quote i've been smoking
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Lmao

It's fine that you're giving effort into not hurting her feelings. You're not lying per se. It's just a little white lie with her feelings in mind.

However, perhaps you would consider making it up to her when you have the time. It's also nice to just remember that your mum loves you, misses you and want to spend some time with you.

These moments are precious; especially to mothers.

My mum is the same. I spend every Saturday morning and noon with her. And she makes it a point to have time for me too.
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Jen0125 posted...

GunslingerGunsl posted...

Have you told her how you feel about the way she responds to your honesty? Have you ever actually tried to hang out with her on a Saturday night? If you haven't, maybe doing it every once in a while will help her settle down a bit.

yes everyone has told her several times and she doesn't care. she's an emotional black hole of a woman.

and i hang out with her saturday afternoons when she wants to waste our time with a family day which she tries to turn into a family weekend which she then suggests we should do every weekend. it's never enough so i try to do is as rarely as possible.

Aahhh. ...I see. Lol.

Well, just ignore my previous post then. Looks like you make plenty of effort as it is.

:)

What can I say? Just try to be more patient with her.
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Jen0125 posted...

WAIT i did say that

what the heck man you can't edit my quote i've been smoking

Looooool got you
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jerks lol
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I bet when your mother dies you'll regret this.

yeah just like someday i'll regret not having kids too right
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You can't understand her pain unless you're a mother.

As the larvae flows from your womb drinking in your scarlet moon blessed liquids the pact is sealed and your soul cleansed.

lmao where do you come up with this shit
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I have witnessed the half man slowly crawling from the wound between a maiden's battered and bruised legs, and my mind cannot purge such visions from sight.

Smack a baby's bottom!

my mom said her mom (my grandmother obviously) would actually get pissy when she told her she was doing something not involving getting drunk or something a teen shouldn't be doing, so my mom ended up just lying to her and saying she was going out to get drunk in which my grandmother would reply in a slightly snarky tone "doesn't it feel better to be honest instead of lying to me all the time"
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My mom got mad at my sister and I earlier because we went to Target instead of Walmart to get OUR groceries. Lady thinks she can control her kids from the other side of the country lol.

Can we both just put our moms in a box and ship them to Madagascar?
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