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Coolppl Owns 09/23/17 2:28:32 PM #1: |
So I am quitting my job to take a newer one closer to my home, pays higher, and where I will believe I will learn more.
There was this girl I went out on a few dates with around 2011 from my church. At the time she was a bit chub but I liked her personality so I decided to go out with her a few times. She got a bit clingy and then I decided to ghost (should not ever do this, ghosting is bad). She followed me on IG this morning and man she got hot. I won't lie. From what I recall, the partner at the firm told me that I will have a few staff working for me and she may be one of them. This is gonna sound like a dumb question but should I tell my girlfriend about this or would that be unnecessarily stirring up a pot that does not need to be stirred? Of course I will keep it professional with this chick at work but yeah it was quite a surprise. The job seemed like too good of an opportunity to turn down because of this person. Thoughts CE? --- _.-=/Got Coolppl?\=-._ =-._\Got Coolppl?/_.-= ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Sunhawk 09/23/17 2:30:31 PM #2: |
Wtf is ghosting?
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Key 09/23/17 2:31:06 PM #3: |
Coolppl Owns posted...
would that be unnecessarily stirring up a pot that does not need to be stirred it would be --- <:;:;:;:;:;:;:;:;}]\\\\\\O=('-'Q) (>'-')> <('-'<) ^( '-' )^ v( '-' )v <('-'<) ^(_ _)^ (>'-')> ^(^-^) ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dragonblade01 09/23/17 2:32:03 PM #4: |
After 6 years, nobody has to bring anything up. Unless you killed someone.
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Blue_Dream87 09/23/17 2:36:01 PM #5: |
Don't bring it up
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Paragon21XX 09/23/17 2:36:05 PM #6: |
Sunhawk posted...
Wtf is ghosting? You essentially break all contact at once and not acknowledge them if they try to contact you in other ways. --- Hmm... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Akagami_Shanks 09/23/17 2:38:32 PM #7: |
yeah it really kills self esteem to be ghosted on
at least have the maturity to tell them you no longer wish to communicate with them --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CensorErik 09/23/17 2:39:23 PM #8: |
Six years is a lifetime ago. You didn't fet her preggers or anything. It's a non-issue unless you start liking each other again. Don't do that.
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pkmnlord 09/23/17 2:44:14 PM #9: |
Sunhawk posted...
Wtf is ghosting? Basically avoiding/ignoring/cutting someone out of your life without necessarily letting them know you're doing so. And to answer TC's question, I wouldn't mention any of it to your GF unless the girl at work starts chatting you up again (and I don't mean hitting on you, but like she obviously acknowledges your guys' past regardless of what she does beyond that). Otherwise, as far as anyone's concerned (other than the people who already know you know her), you don't know her. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NewMernardi 09/23/17 2:45:30 PM #10: |
Sunhawk posted...
Wtf is ghosting? Sunhawk's grade on being intelligent: F ... Copied to Clipboard!
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